Fat Acceptance

Yeah, how dare his forum have an off topic section. We should only discuss games.

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Please stop. This isn't the place to discuss your personal issues.

Sorry, was just responding to crystalmilk tea :)

Yes, we should just delete the General Discussion altogether then!
 
Yeah, how dare his forum have an off topic section. We should only discuss games.

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Please stop. This isn't the place to discuss your personal issues.

Just saying. Bell tree forums isn't probably the best place to post a thread about fat acceptance when the majority of this forum's inhabitants are under the age of 14.
 
Sorry, was just responding to crystalmilk tea :)

Yes, we should just delete the General Discussion altogether then!
Just don't respond, or discuss it via pm. This thread is not the place for it.

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Just saying. Bell tree forums isn't probably the best place to post a thread about fat acceptance when the majority of this forum's inhabitants are under the age of 14.
No, you aren't just saying. You are expecting an argument. That mentality is why these threads always become arguments.

I am specifically curious how this forum feels. Not other places.
 
Just don't respond, or discuss it via pm. This thread is not the place for it.

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No, you aren't just saying. You are expecting an argument. That mentality is why these threads always become arguments.

I am specifically curious how this forum feels. Not other places.

Yes, I am "just saying". I'm expecting an argument here because one's already happened, so the odds of another are very high.

So because I have the "mentality" that an argument is going to arise in this thread, that's the reason why people are going to argue in the first place?

you're not making any sense :s
 
not if they are being b1tches to me by constantly taunting me for my chub

Then don't listen to them then? You making fun of their weight makes you just as bad in my opinion. You can still look good even if you are a bit chubby - you can look good no matter what your body shape or type is - and you can still have confidence. You're never going to please everyone after all, so it's better to not care what other people think.
 
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Yes, I am "just saying". I'm expecting an argument here because one's already happened, so the odds of another are very high.

So because I have the "mentality" that an argument is going to arise in this thread, that's the reason why people are going to argue in the first place?

you're not making any sense :s
If people come here expecting an argument, they will start one. It fosters a hostile attitude. If people come here just expecting to give their opinion, it won't.

That said, if you don't like these topics why do you feel the need to post in them? Just don't even enter them. I don't see why to have to come in here and "just say" something that is not about the topic. Derailing this will lead to it getting out of hand and locked. Which is why this will be my last response to you, unless you should do something (I doubt this will happen).
 
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Threads like these beg the question of whether it's worth having an "off-topic" section on the forum, when in reality all they do is spark arguments.
You know dude, if you don't like it you don't need to be here whatsoever.

some people have their opinions, if you think that someones opinion is wrong, you should respect that and not say anything rude, even if yours is right.

The bell tree forums isn't just a gaming forum, its also a place to make friends and discuss real life events.
 
If people come here expecting an argument, they will start one. It fosters a hostile attitude. If people come here just expecting to give their opinion, it won't.

That said, if you don't like these topics why do you feel the need to post in them? Just don't even enter them. I don't see why to have to come in here and "just say" something that is not about the topic. Derailing this will lead to it getting out of hand and locked. Which is why this will be my last response to you, unless you should do something (I doubt this will happen).

ok bye

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You know dude, if you don't like it you don't need to be here whatsoever.

some people have their opinions, if you think that someones opinion is wrong, you should respect that and not say anything rude, even if yours is right.

The bell tree forums isn't just a gaming forum, its also a place to make friends and discuss real life events.

pls dnt try to put words into my mouth, I said literally nothing about anybody's opinions lmao??
I'm here because I was discussing the topic, until somebody decided to post an incredibly rude post, which seems to happen every time someone decides to make a "(insert sensitive topic here) discussion thread"
 
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this thread needs to be aborted pronto

like literally why do the same types of people make these threads?

all threads like this end in a massive argument and then a closure. There should be a new rule introduced about discussing irrelevant and unimportant topics (yes, sexuality, feminism, weight and a **** ton of other topics are ALL irrelevant and unimportant, since this is a gaming forum, not a "let's band together, hold hands and discuss really sensitive topics" forum).

I'm sick of seeing these stupid threads that cause nothing but bickering get far out of control.

Just because a thread is unimportant to YOU doesn't give you the right to speak for everyone. NEWS FLASH: The entire point of the Brewster's Cafe is to discuss things that are off topic. If you want to discuss gaming then there's no reason you can't go to the respective forum. Nobody is stopping you. Posting stuff like this isn't contributing to anything.
 
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this thread needs to be aborted pronto

like literally why do the same types of people make these threads?

all threads like this end in a massive argument and then a closure. There should be a new rule introduced about discussing irrelevant and unimportant topics (yes, sexuality, feminism, weight and a **** ton of other topics are ALL irrelevant and unimportant, since this is a gaming forum, not a "let's band together, hold hands and discuss really sensitive topics" forum).

I'm sick of seeing these stupid threads that cause nothing but bickering get far out of control.

i swear you were going to leave this forum like last year because u were sick of **** like this..dude just chill out. its been mostly civil anyway..?? and honestly if ur sick of these threads then..dont click them..its that simple dude
 
not if they are being b1tches to me by constantly taunting me for my chub

Like many other users have stated here, fat acceptance does not equal or justify skinny shaming. Calling all skinny people derogatory terms because a few people disrespected you puts you on the same level as them. No one here has attacked you, but now you've just attacked every thin user here ;w; So let's not use fat acceptance negatively!
 
i swear you were going to leave this forum like last year because u were sick of **** like this..dude just chill out. its been mostly civil anyway..?? and honestly if ur sick of these threads then..dont click them..its that simple dude

who are you?? why are you trying to start an argument??

if you want to talk to me personally then PM x
 
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Keep it on topic, please. Civil discussion is totally fine as long as we're respecting everyone's opinions and the discussion isn't turning into arguments.
 
No one really has the right to comment on anyone else's body. You can't determine how healthy someone is by their weight or dress size and the only person who should be able to say whether someone is unhealthy or not is their doctor. If someone is confident and comfortable with their body then you really shouldn't have a problem with that, no matter their body type.
 
honestly im fine as i am. sure, im a bit chubby in my thighs and belly, but at least im not a creepy twig b1tch.

What a disgusting thing to say.

Edit: I see you've already been shown how what you said is exactly the same as me saying, "I'm fine as I am. Sure, I have tiny wrists and ankles, and you can see my collar bone, but at least I'm not a sloppy fat pig."

It's exactly the same.

And it's a disgusting way to make yourself feel better.

The truth is that you're actually NOT fine with how you look because you're listing your chubbiness as a negative, but writing it off because "at least you're not a twig." Instead of feeling badly about your chubbiness and dragging others down with you, try to feel good about yourself for real. Look at yourself objectively and acknowledge it. "This is how I am right now. And this is how I feel about it. And that's okay." Tell yourself it's okay. It is okay. And if you do want to change your body, the only way you can change is by knowing where you're at right now. Seriously, fully accept it.

Because it isn't good for you to be comparing yourself to others.

You're also associating the bodies of the people you don't like with the actual reason why you don't like them: because they're rude to you. Focus on their actions, not their weight.
 
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There are different types of diabetes. There's type 1 diabetes, which usually appears in childhood when a child is insulin-dependent, regardless of their weight. Then there's type 2 diabetes, which usually appears in adulthood (though it can appear in children) when a person is insulin-resistant. Type 2 can form at any age, and is primarily caused by being overweight or having an "unhealthy" lifestyle, while type 1 is not dependent on a person's weight or physical form. Therefore, yes, that is how diabetes works.

I think everyone knows that type 1 diabetes is not the same thing as type 2...

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Where do you live where healthy food is not more expensive than unhealthy????????

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Depends where you're buying it I guess.
 
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