Disfunctional Families

[Dragonqueen0912]

Hey, I understand you're angry and trying to vent out your feelings, but the way you're saying it is very rude and nasty. Also, that is a very touchy subject and could offend some people, and most people dont want to talk about it.

Sure, but having a mental illness or disease doesn't excuse ****** behavior. You can have a illness and still be a bad person, just as you can be a good person.

Talking bad about the illness itself is not okay, but excusing their behavior because of it isn't any better than talking bad about the illness itself.

I haven't really read up upon this thread since I've been busy, I just wanted to point out that you can't excuse these behaviors out of pity or whatever. That's not how it works and it's not cool, don't encourage them, they can still learn right from wrong. If you excuse them, nothing will change, nothing will get better, and it's make it worse by belittling them to worthless beings who need your pity and can't take a little talk on whats ok and whats not.

I hope I'm not starting anything? I'm just trying to state my opinion on the matter.

 

[Hulaette]

Thank you! At least someone gets what I'm trying to say! That is the situation that I'm going through now. I'm not saying who but certain people make up excuses for the old ladies behavior. What makes me angry the most is that the old ladies daughter enables her to make her think what she says is okay and that is NOT FAIR to everyone else!!

 

[Alice]

Not gonna start a fight.

 

[yoshiskye1]

okay okay everybody calm down. this is a nice thread for people and the last thing we want is for it to become some massive argument with everyone being rude to eachother. just think before you comment and if you think it could offend anyone for a valid reason (yes VALID) just don't post it

 

[Hulaette]

Vent of the day

It irritates the hell outta me when the old lady asks really stupid questions on purpose. There are times when she gets all cocky in front of everyone when she catches a chance to say "Hi" to me and than when I leave the room she starts talking behind my back. And she wonders why i never want to talk to her? %$#@! She needs to have more respect around here. She is so full of herself!

 

[kaitastrophe]

I'm just going to leave quietly.
I don't want to start a fight or anything.

 

[CoobaCupcake]

Thank you! At least someone gets what I'm trying to say! That is the situation that I'm going through now. I'm not saying who but certain people make up excuses for the old ladies behavior. What makes me angry the most is that the old ladies daughter enables her to make her think what she says is okay and that is NOT FAIR to everyone else!!

It's not making up excuses she has a legitimate excuse! She has dementia. According to MayoClinic, symptoms include forgetfulness, limited social skills, and impaired thinking. That is an excuse. She can't help it. And calling her "the old lady" just makes you look like a spoiled brat.

 

[Hulaette]

If one fails to comprehend and act on the daily basics of everyday life than the person is outdated and no longer has any purpose of living. That is what I strongly believe in.

 

[pillow bunny]

Vent of the day

It irritates the hell outta me when the old lady asks really stupid questions on purpose. There are times when she gets all cocky in front of everyone when she catches a chance to say "Hi" to me and than when I leave the room she starts talking behind my back. And she wonders why i never want to talk to her? %$#@! She needs to have more respect around here. She is so full of herself!

okay so if I'm reading this right

- you hate her because ?\_(ツ)_/?
- she's trying to fix things by just talking to you every once in a while
- saying hi is a ~*violation of your human rights*~ so you ignore here and run away (what even)
- she civilly expresses her displeasure and doesn't try to bother you
- therefore she is an evil senile serial killer, lolz

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If one fails to comprehend and act on the daily basics of everyday life than the person is outdated and no longer has any purpose of living. That is what I strongly believe in.

what the actual ****

 

[yoshiskye1]

i am actually so genuinely confused by some of the posts on here right now my brain can't handle it
like whaaaaaaa

 

[pillow bunny]

geekaloompa do you support eugenics

 

[yoshiskye1]

^ i second that question as i'm quite confused as to your logic in many of your recent posts. Are you a believer in social Darwinism?

 

[Hettie]

I can forsee this thread becoming a potential means of harrassment, so I would like to suggest maybe closing it and using your bell tree blog for future vents/rants. That way you can still post your opinion for people to see without starting any controversy.

 

[pillow bunny]

okay sorry but I don't think she should be able to post her fantasies about killing ill old women anywhere

 

[CoobaCupcake]

Aye yo mods. This thread is pretty dysfunctional (I can spell)

 

[Hulaette]

okay sorry but I don't think she should be able to post her fantasies about killing ill old women anywhere

I'm not killing anyone! I am just explaining what I believe in.

 

[yoshiskye1]

Aye yo mods. This thread is pretty dysfunctional (I can spell)

yeah the title is genuinely starting to bug my spelling Nazi side. Plus this thread started off okay and as a nice place for people to vent but now i'm confused as to why it's become kinda.....medieval in the views put across

 

[pillow bunny]

the thread actually started off the same way but nobody said anything because they figured the op was just mad and not an uwuwuwuwuwuwuwuuwuwuwu

 

[yoshiskye1]

the thread actually started off the same way but nobody said anything because they figured the op was just mad and not completely insane

ok no need for personal attacks, if you do that- it's no different

OP, i think you should close this thread as some things you've posted have caused a fair bit of confusion and quite a lot of offence and this thread will just become a huge debate ground where everyone is just flaming eachother. Agree with a previous poster on the blog thing. But your choice i guess

 

[pillow bunny]

okay so if I'm reading this right

- you hate her because ?\_(ツ)_/?
- she's trying to fix things by just talking to you every once in a while
- saying hi is a ~*violation of your human rights*~ so you ignore here and run away (what even)
- she civilly expresses her displeasure and doesn't try to bother you
- therefore she is an evil senile serial killer, lolz

- - - Post Merge - - -



what the actual ****

geekaloompa do you support eugenics

op told me that both these assumptions were correct, so yes i do think that she's actually a poopy smelly fart butt uwu