Dealing with Jealousy / Humility

[D1llon]

Title says it all, pretty much... How do you deal with jealousy/humility?

It could be when you audition for something and don't get in but your besfriend does, or someone you really like talking to someone else. Any situation.

Personally I don't know how to deal with my jealousy, well usually I don't do anything and try to ignore it but it can be tough. That's why I'm asking you guys here how you all do it.

 

[Josh]

I actually don't jealous, It has to be something really extreme for me to be jealous. So I can't really say what to do with jealously, I'd just say focus on your own life and not theirs because it'll just make you feel bad. Also I pretty much don't care about others lives because that's just me.

 

[FallChild]

I never really thought of other people's friends as my business, but when it does happen, I find something else to focus on.

 

[Brad]

With jealousy I usually just try to ignore it, but with humility I keep going as if it never happened.

 

[Callie]

I just try to think of other things, I'm terrible at dealing with jealousy. Just make sure to keep control of yourself. And when you say humility, do you mean being humiliated? If you do, then all I do is try to laugh at myself. In a little while you'll look back and laugh, so why not start now? I don't get humiliated very often.

 

[D1llon]

And when you say humility, do you mean being humiliated? If you do, then all I do is try to laugh at myself. In a little while you'll look back and laugh, so why not start now? I don't get humiliated very often.

No I mean like when you raise your hand in class thinking you are right but in really you have a completely wrong answer. This would be humility as having to be modest and in no way being proud.

For me there is usually this awkwardness and I don't know what to say, besides an apology in some cases.

 

[KCourtnee]

Oh gosh. Jealousy.
I'm the jealous type when it comes to guys. But I keep everything inside me. I tell my girl friends about it but not the guy. I don't like guys to know I'm the jealous type because then they might think I'm a drama starter, which I'm not. Now if my guy does something that I would never condone, and I get jealous, I'll so confront him.

 

[Callie]

No I mean like when you raise your hand in class thinking you are right but in really you have a completely wrong answer. This would be humility as having to be modest and in no way being proud.

For me there is usually this awkwardness and I don't know what to say, besides an apology in some cases.

So you mean you say your answer with the upmost confidence, only to discover you are dead wrong? I usually just nod my head because the right answer is explained. If it isn't, all I can think of to say is "oh, whoops" or you can be sarcasticish and say, "right, knew that."

 

[Jake]

Idc about jealousy.

Humiliation. I just find **** out about them and make it go viral

 

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[Caius]

I dunno for both.

For jealousy I'll usually either get back at someone or ignore it.
Humility though? I dunno. It depends on the situation

 

[Megamannt125]

In relationships I get extremely jealous and it makes me feel good if the partner gets just as jealous.

 

[bittermeat]

I easily get jealous by many things. I am not sure how I actually deal with it, but I guess you can say "ignoring" is the word. Sometimes, thinking something good about yourself helps. As for humility, I know this is hard to do this, but laugh at yourself. When I do something humiliating, the second after I think (in a comedic way), "Wow, I am such a f**kwad." That helps a lot!