Read the quote I said in my latest post its to both you and the other girl
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Sorry I meant male, so sorry about that
Ok but don't you want the baby to live? Shouldn't it deserve to get a human life instead of not getting a chance?
yeah lol sorry i messed up the words. lmao. i know that it's considered alive from like week 22 (don't quote me on this i'm just trying to remember my old biology lessons) or something, i just didn't know the proper words. the thing is, abortions that late are only allowed in very special cases.
my mom knows a woman who got an abortion very late. (like around week 20-23 i think?). she got a gravestone for him and named him because to her he was a baby. but the doctors said that if he lived he wouldn't live for longer than a few years because he had heart problems and stuff. so she got an abortion really late because if he would have been born it would just have been bad for everyone. idk this might be kinda unrelated but, like, no one is like "oh nvm i don't want the baby" after 5 months of being pregnant and then they get an abortion.
sure you didn't do that on purpose....
well, for one, it's not a baby. it's a thing that would one day become a baby if it got the chance to develop that far. and considering the suffering the pregnant person will have to go through to get it out to give it its chance i don't think it's worth it. obviously every pregnant person can decide what they feel, many people decide to not get an abortion even though they don't want a child because they think it's immoral. and there's nothing wrong with that. but people who don't want a child and would like to get an abortion absolutely should be allowed to get one.
I think that it if there is free birth control available, then abortion shouldn't be needed as much. Contraceptives are there if you do not want to get pregnant whether you have consented sex or get raped.
8 weeks old is what it tends to be referred too, and I was still thinking of my opinion when I started posting here.
The only justifiable form of abortion to me is the plan B pill or whatever its called. There may well be people that decide to abort later on for whatever reason.
oh yeah let me just take a pill every day for years in case i get raped so i don't have to get an abortion because i don't want a child! nice!
most of the time people don't use abortion instead of regular birth control. it's not exactly nice to get one, many people get emotional and it can feel bad in your body (from what i've heard you can get cramps n stuff, also it takes quite a long time).
abortions are honestly needed. if someone forgot to use a condom or something like that still doesn't mean they deserve to be pregnant when they don't want to be pregnant.
i definitely don't think it's okay to think "well abortions exist so i don't need birth control", but honestly that's probably not a very common thought. and it definitely doesn't mean that we should get rid of abortions.
Yes I agree however if the person wanted the baby but then decides no, the woman should go through the suffering and deliver it, basically what I said in my last post
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And I actually believe in my opinion when the baby isn't exaclty there yet, it still is, and God is making it for you, and it's your child
Actually tbh that's how I was born, I was actually born to a really poor family who couldn't take care of me but my birth mother decided to not get me aborted and she gave birth to me and gave me up for adoption
Please don't bring a possibly fake deity into these conversations, not everything revolves around it.
In your first post you said you didn't really have an opinion on the subject, what changed?
This is true I delivered him
I don't really see a problem with taking a pill everyday if it's free.oh yeah let me just take a pill every day for years in case i get raped so i don't have to get an abortion because i don't want a child! nice!
most of the time people don't use abortion instead of regular birth control. it's not exactly nice to get one, many people get emotional and it can feel bad in your body (from what i've heard you can get cramps n stuff, also it takes quite a long time).
abortions are honestly needed. if someone forgot to use a condom or something like that still doesn't mean they deserve to be pregnant when they don't want to be pregnant.
i definitely don't think it's okay to think "well abortions exist so i don't need birth control", but honestly that's probably not a very common thought. and it definitely doesn't mean that we should get rid of abortions.
How can you "forget" to use a condom... I don't know how much more I can say before this gets very NSFW.
How am I brining fake deity into the discussion? Did I say everything revolves around it?
I'm not gonna get into it on another abortion thread but two things:
1. Contraceptives and any form of birth control do not always work. Whether it's condoms, birth control, the morning after pill... none are 100%.
2. No one has sex with the intention of having a baby only to change their mind after, you're making up a situation to support your weightless argument. Plus, even if this did happen, the change of mind would have likely happened because of a change in their mental, physical, or financial ability to go through with the pregnancy. If by chance neither of those were the case, the mother still should be able to have an abortion because as it was said multiple times, carrying a baby for 9 months is a huge weight (literally) and responsibility.
You mentioned "God" when it was not needed and no you didn't say everything revolves but most serious discussions we have on these forums mention it for some reason. : P