Forgiving people.
- Thread starter Mercedes
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I do know who you talking but I am talking about my own perception on forgiveness. I never forget and never forgive harm people did on me and if they leave scar, then it will be permanent. But I see no point of bugging the person because they do something bad to you. Even you hate a person and don't want to forgive them,then just ignore them because you too, have no right of spamming/bugging them for the mistake they do because this don't make things better but worst and at the end you look like the person who harm whoever you hate than being harm.
You're pretty similar to me. I do forgive people but not that easily though. Even if people did behave pretty stupidly, and changed later in the life, it still doesn't change the fact that what they did in the past was wrong.
I am also a type of person that doesn't let other people off the hook so easily. I want to make sure that they actually realize what they did was wrong and never do it again.
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debinoresu
you foolish fool
well like idk if someone hurts me or does something to make me distrust them I'm not going to trust that they changed. I'd really rather have nothing to do with them. I'm usually a very submissive person and I'll just give people forgiveness bc why not, but I'll never trust them again, or at least the same way again
I don't really know the exact situation but if someone scammed me I personally wouldnt trust them or like them very much
I don't really know the exact situation but if someone scammed me I personally wouldnt trust them or like them very much
Err something like that
Once I being immature and did something wrong and cause everyone trouble but later I truly regret and change. But my ex-friend (no longer contact) never let that go and non stop bullying and reminding me over the past mistake I did even I am no longer the same person. So I totally understand that feeling, and if you can't forgive someone than just ignore them don't go around reminding their past guilt and haunted them again and again over the same thing. This not only hurt and make the person feel extremely guilty and it can cause mentally harm seriously. Everyone deserve a second chance but if they don't appreciate it, simply ignore contacting them you have no right too to go against them.
Nerd House
Content Creator
I can forgive, but I never forget. If you do me wrong, I will remember. Nothing personal, that's just how it happens with me.
However, if someone KNOWS they are wrong, then they should put forth some effort to correct it. From what I've seen, the user you are speaking of has done nothing but buy a Username change. Their behavior/attitude/posting habits/etc are still the same.
If you want people to move past his/her behavior/activities in the past and stop spamming him/her hateful things, GET THEM TO CHANGE. Until that happens, there's no point in "forgiving".
However, if someone KNOWS they are wrong, then they should put forth some effort to correct it. From what I've seen, the user you are speaking of has done nothing but buy a Username change. Their behavior/attitude/posting habits/etc are still the same.
If you want people to move past his/her behavior/activities in the past and stop spamming him/her hateful things, GET THEM TO CHANGE. Until that happens, there's no point in "forgiving".
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BluebellLight
bob is love bob is life
I find it very hard to forgive people, especially because when I do,they do the same thing and think they can hurt me more just because I forgave them. That's in real life though
I read that tbtconfessions blog and what the heck I never realized there was so much drama on these forums about these users I don't even know 0_O
I read that tbtconfessions blog and what the heck I never realized there was so much drama on these forums about these users I don't even know 0_O
crystalmilktea
Senior Member
In general: I will forgive, but I don't forget. I'll act a bit more cautious around the person or try to help them and guide them to become better, but if they continue their bad ways then I'll give up and just be wary. I won't bully them because of their past mistakes, but I won't be the nicest person as I'll be putting up a guard and being firm so it won't happen to me again. If they apologize and ask for forgiveness, and actually try to change then I'll be a lot nicer ^^
To be honest I feel like people have tried to forgive them, but it's not working as when we try to give advice to help this person they are very rude back to us. I don't believe I have ever been mean to this user or you, but have only tried to give you guys advice, and this user has been rude to me despite my good intentions and polite language.
To be honest I feel like people have tried to forgive them, but it's not working as when we try to give advice to help this person they are very rude back to us. I don't believe I have ever been mean to this user or you, but have only tried to give you guys advice, and this user has been rude to me despite my good intentions and polite language.
I agree.
Just go to the IRC/play mafia more often. You'll know them.
cannedcommunism
idk man
I've had a hard time forgiving certain people in the past KARLAKGB!!!
That's why I'm known as salty
That's why I'm known as salty
The Hidden Owl
hm?
I think that you should forgive people because deserve forgiving them is the right thing to do.
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JellyDitto
doot doot
I know who you're talking about. And no, I'm not forgiving them. Y'know why? They've spammed, trolled, made a fool of themselves, and most of all, they've lied about who they really are.
Luckypinch, your argument is valid, but not valid enough for me to forgive her/him. All they've done to me is SPAM and LIES. I don't care how hard you or them try, there's no way you can make me forgive someone who is pretending to be someone else. Sorry, but you won't get any apology from me.
