Your thoughts on the LGBT+ communities.

[That Zephyr Guy]

Save yourself the effort of labelling yourself and the consequences of it. Date whoever the **** you want. Just my piece of advice for your situation.

Literally what does that have to do with my situation lol

I already AM dating whoever I want.

 

[seliph]

lol remember the petition some gay guys made about dropping the t in lgbt :^P
the community is rly big so i guess it's bound to be problematic in a lot of ways but tbh i just don't get involved with it too much because there's a lot of drama in some parts and i'm just not really into ppl telling other ppl that they're not trans enough or some other negativity.....,

Never forget when ignorant gay dudes tried to drop the people that paved the way for LGBT rights in the first place!!!

Save yourself the effort of labelling yourself and the consequences of it. Date whoever the **** you want. Just my piece of advice for your situation.

 

[moonford]

only person here who thinks ace/aro ppl are oppressed is op. lmao.

I haven't said once that we are oppressed.
Give me an example please.

Edit: I mentioned they're are many different types of oppression and replied to you saying " Speak for yourself " as you do not know if they're has been an asexual people who have been oppressed, even though I don't believe anybody would oppress us.

 

[Fleshy]

I'm not too sure on what the question is really asking since the title was changed, what's my thoughts on the lgbt+ community as a whole? I'm not sure, it has it's problems, like any community or group of people. I've seen so much inter-community hate in the lgbt+ community, mainly biphobia from some gay people and transphobia from cis lgb people, I've heard of trans people being kicked out of bathrooms in gay clubs and suchlike and it makes me sad, of course it's a tiny part of the lgbt+ that is like this, but it still exists when it shouldn't.

 

[ApolloJusticeAC]

well they help people who are lbgt+ and help them vent.

but honestly i don't really care and lbgt+ people are cool people i just don't want them to say being straight is bad.

 

[Aniko]

They are like everybody and because they are like everybody, they also say stupid things and make mistakes, just like everybody else.

For instance:

A friend of mine from school was a bit effeminate but identify as male and heterosexual.
He liked fashion and was also a bit pervy. Once he fell in love with a store (yes a store) and the girl who was working there, so of course he wanted to work there too and they hired him. After a week, he noticed that the girl he liked, who was also his manager, was very close to another female worker and shared the same perfume, so he naively asked if she was her sister and the girl said "No she's my girlfriend" then added "I just hire homosexuals, I don't want filthy hetero in my store" (well it was not HER store but anyway) So of course my friend fell bad, because now he knew that she had hired him thinking he was gay, which was not the case and because he didn't want to lose his job, he said nothing. Things however didn't get better with the other staff, because they assumed he was gay and shy and virgin, other guys started teasing him a lot, telling him they would teach him how to su...eat ice cream cones!!! Stuff like that, to the point it felt like sexual harassment and my friend resigned. Now even if he were gay, harassement is harassement, if the same thing had happened to a girl being harassed by a bunch of older male co-workers, everybody would shout to hang them by the balls. And not hiring people based on their sexuality is illegal.

Second example:

A group of lesbians in a bar are telling a younger woman, that they don't know, that she's not really heterosexual, she just didn't meet the right girl and even if she were, they would make her change her mind.
Come on girls! What are you? A bunch of old pervy? Are you merely repeating what a guy told you in the past?

In both examples, the persons didn't provoke them and were respectful and minding their own business, so don't start sprouting the same things you despise the most from people not belonging to your community.

So my thoughts on LGBT+ communities? Well being part of any group doesn't give you the right to bash, discriminate and harass others, same for everybody. Apart that I don't have any problem with anybody and I think it's sad that even in 2016, they are still dealing with hate and discrimination.

 

[piichinu]

They are like everybody and because they are like everybody, they also say stupid things and make mistakes, just like everybody else.

For instance:

A friend of mine from school was a bit effeminate but identify as male and heterosexual.
He liked fashion and was also a bit pervy. Once he fell in love with a store (yes a store) and the girl who was working there, so of course he wanted to work there too and they hired him. After a week, he noticed that the girl he liked, who was also his manager, was very close to another female worker and shared the same perfume, so he naively asked if she was her sister and the girl said "No she's my girlfriend" then added "I just hire homosexuals, I don't want filthy hetero in my store" (well it was not HER store but anyway) So of course my friend fell bad, because now he knew that she had hired him thinking he was gay, which was not the case and because he didn't want to lose his job, he said nothing. Things however didn't get better with the other staff, because they assumed he was gay and shy and virgin, other guys started teasing him a lot, telling him they would teach him how to su...eat ice cream cones!!! Stuff like that, to the point it felt like sexual harassment and my friend resigned. Now even if he were gay, harassement is harassement, if the same thing had happened to a girl being harassed by a bunch of older male co-workers, everybody would shout to hang them by the balls. And not hiring people based on their sexuality is illegal.

Second example:

A group of lesbians in a bar are telling a younger woman, that they don't know, that she's not really heterosexual, she just didn't meet the right girl and even if she were, they would make her change her mind.
Come on girls! What are you? A bunch of old pervy? Are you merely repeating what a guy told you in the past?

In both examples, the persons didn't provoke them and were respectful and minding their own business, so don't start sprouting the same things you despise the most from people not belonging to your community.

So my thoughts on LGBT+ communities? Well being part of any group doesn't give you the right to bash, discriminate and harass others, same for everybody. Apart that I don't have any problem with anybody and I think it's sad that even in 2016, they are still dealing with hate and discrimination.

Lmao I remember this I was the store

 

[seliph]

They are like everybody and because they are like everybody, they also say stupid things and make mistakes, just like everybody else.

For instance:

A friend of mine from school was a bit effeminate but identify as male and heterosexual.
He liked fashion and was also a bit pervy. Once he fell in love with a store (yes a store) and the girl who was working there, so of course he wanted to work there too and they hired him. After a week, he noticed that the girl he liked, who was also his manager, was very close to another female worker and shared the same perfume, so he naively asked if she was her sister and the girl said "No she's my girlfriend" then added "I just hire homosexuals, I don't want filthy hetero in my store" (well it was not HER store but anyway) So of course my friend fell bad, because now he knew that she had hired him thinking he was gay, which was not the case and because he didn't want to lose his job, he said nothing. Things however didn't get better with the other staff, because they assumed he was gay and shy and virgin, other guys started teasing him a lot, telling him they would teach him how to su...eat ice cream cones!!! Stuff like that, to the point it felt like sexual harassment and my friend resigned. Now even if he were gay, harassement is harassement, if the same thing had happened to a girl being harassed by a bunch of older male co-workers, everybody would shout to hang them by the balls. And not hiring people based on their sexuality is illegal.

Second example:

A group of lesbians in a bar are telling a younger woman, that they don't know, that she's not really heterosexual, she just didn't meet the right girl and even if she were, they would make her change her mind.
Come on girls! What are you? A bunch of old pervy? Are you merely repeating what a guy told you in the past?

In both examples, the persons didn't provoke them and were respectful and minding their own business, so don't start sprouting the same things you despise the most from people not belonging to your community.

So my thoughts on LGBT+ communities? Well being part of any group doesn't give you the right to bash, discriminate and harass others, same for everybody. Apart that I don't have any problem with anybody and I think it's sad that even in 2016, they are still dealing with hate and discrimination.

And those lesbians' names... were Albert Einstein

 

[That Zephyr Guy]

They are like everybody and because they are like everybody, they also say stupid things and make mistakes, just like everybody else.

For instance:

A friend of mine from school was a bit effeminate but identify as male and heterosexual.
He liked fashion and was also a bit pervy. Once he fell in love with a store (yes a store) and the girl who was working there, so of course he wanted to work there too and they hired him. After a week, he noticed that the girl he liked, who was also his manager, was very close to another female worker and shared the same perfume, so he naively asked if she was her sister and the girl said "No she's my girlfriend" then added "I just hire homosexuals, I don't want filthy hetero in my store" (well it was not HER store but anyway) So of course my friend fell bad, because now he knew that she had hired him thinking he was gay, which was not the case and because he didn't want to lose his job, he said nothing. Things however didn't get better with the other staff, because they assumed he was gay and shy and virgin, other guys started teasing him a lot, telling him they would teach him how to su...eat ice cream cones!!! Stuff like that, to the point it felt like sexual harassment and my friend resigned. Now even if he were gay, harassement is harassement, if the same thing had happened to a girl being harassed by a bunch of older male co-workers, everybody would shout to hang them by the balls. And not hiring people based on their sexuality is illegal.

Second example:

A group of lesbians in a bar are telling a younger woman, that they don't know, that she's not really heterosexual, she just didn't meet the right girl and even if she were, they would make her change her mind.
Come on girls! What are you? A bunch of old pervy? Are you merely repeating what a guy told you in the past?

In both examples, the persons didn't provoke them and were respectful and minding their own business, so don't start sprouting the same things you despise the most from people not belonging to your community.

So my thoughts on LGBT+ communities? Well being part of any group doesn't give you the right to bash, discriminate and harass others, same for everybody. Apart that I don't have any problem with anybody and I think it's sad that even in 2016, they are still dealing with hate and discrimination.

once more for the people in the back

 

[LambdaDelta]

wasn't this already a thread before that got "fun" and locked?

 

[Aniko]

Was I spamming? Perhaps I didn't get the question then.

 

[#1 Senpai]

since the title changed,
my thoughts on the LGBT+ community..i don't really care, have a problem with them or whatever, it's like let them be who they wanna be and let them strut their stuff, i just don't like how some say that being straight is bad and some people in the lgbt+ community bully/attack ppl because they're cis even though they haven't done anything to them (like some in the vent community..)

 

[piichinu]

once more for the people in the back

Someone had to

 

[radical6]

as a bisexual i hate lgbt we are DEGENERATE