What's your type?

He's got to be built but not to the point where it feels like you're hugging a rock. Brown or dirty-blonde hair, how it's styled really doesn't matter to me. I've had crushes on guys where their hair looks like they just got out of bed, extremely short to where you can't run your fingers through it, and looks like they spent thirty minutes on it. A fair bit of facial hair also makes a guy incredibly more attractive, but extreme amounts of body hair is a big no. There's also some other things in regards to appearance but deals with dress, so that's not really a big defining factor. :)

In regards to personality, I don't really care what his interests are as long as some, but definitely not all, are similar to mine. And he's got to be respectful to all kinds of people.
 
Personality:
- Humor (for herself and for me)
- Honestly (probably no1)
- Intimacy (cuddling is the best)
- Considerate
- Compassionate
- Tolerant
- Mature
- Not garrulous
- Decisive

Appearance:
- No red hair
- No pitch high voice
- No big booty or front mountains
- Not too much make-up
- Good hygiene
- Good smile and good facial proportions

Others:
- At least average IQ


But really, that's just my wishlist.
 
Personality:
- Humour, I love laughing
- Honesty and Loyalty (No. 1 right here)
- Intimacy (must love to cuddle, even if it's hot out)
- Sweet and caring
- Intelligent, but not too intelligent
- Athletic, must love doing some sort of physical activity
- Can make me smile

Appearance:
- Blue eyes
- Sandy brown hair
- Fit body (think like soccer/hockey player)
- Good hygiene
- Not gorilla hairy
- Hair is well kept (i.e. going to a hair dresser rather than shaving head at home)


To be honest, I am just describing my fianc? and what attracted me to him 5 years ago.
 
I tend to fall very easily for girls who make me feel like they're really interested in me and care about me and so long as they're a good person that's about all it takes.
 
Mysteriousness and tragedy. Playfulness and kindness. Silly, but sometimes serious. And never taking things too seriously, except always taking things too seriously.

I have a tendancy to end up with what one would identify as 'mama's boy' and 'gamer' until recently. I have found a young man who is a gamer, but eloquent about /why/ and /what/ he games, and is the furthest thing from mama's boy that one can get. He's sweet and silly and loves me and I love him...*goes of on tangent about boyfriend's greatness*
 
I'm attracted to people with an ambition, I admire those that have a passion about something~
Those that can bring wise words into a conversation while still keeping it's levity, always a good quality to have.

I dunno, I never really thought about what would appeal to me.

Though, some things that won't:
-Excessive laziness or unwillingness to do something until it's too late.
-Inconsiderate
-Cares waay more about their physical appearances then how they act.
-Expect me to do things for them all the time
-Doesn't even try to be nice and clean
-Seemingly heartless

And the list can go oon and oon~
 
Uh well I suppose if I rolled out a long list of my videogame husbands and wives, you'd sorta get an idea of the sort of people I look for - male and female. x3 Oops.

I think personality wise, and this goes for both male and female... Just, I would want them to be kind. Caring. Thoughtful. With a big heart, who will be able to love me as much as I love them, and would be silly and as big a hopeless romantic as me. ;w; Also someone who can make me laugh and smile (but if I like you then the chances are you probably can do that very easily anyway), and someone who is still there as a shoulder for me to cry on. I am very emotional and sensitive at times, and have trouble coping with my emotions and depression, so if they can comfort me even through those times, then they are just the best. <3 I suppose also, I'd like to share common interests with them. Like, if we can't just rant to each other about video games and anime and cute cartoons then, we're going to have trouble getting along. :( I mean, not that we won't have much to talk about, but at the end of the day, what else will we do? If we can play games and watch TV shows together and share the same passion and love for those things with each other, then that's the best.

And finally, I suppose, someone who makes me feel special. Because really, everything I said above, even a friend can possess those traits, and THEY do. But, I want someone to make feel all happy and warm inside whenever I just see them. Of course you'll never keep having those butterfly feelings around them, but... If you can at least still share that same feeling... Of feeling like you are at peace and at comfort when you're around them, because they just make you feel like you are the best, then they are truly the one. If they can make you feel special... If they can make you feel not alone. That's something that means a lot to me. ;w;

Appearance wise, well, I don't want to seem picky (>> really, I shouldn't be because I am hardly good looking myself), but... Well, height wise, I really don't care - both for male and female. I'm short as heck, so it doesn't bother me. I kinda prefer longish hair on boys - girls, I don't really care (girls can look rad with both //). And I do prefer darker hair on boys - for girls, again, I literally have no preference. xD I feel like I am easily more attracted to girls than boys... To be honest, my dream guy would be like Stahl from FE:A (what a babe!!!) and dream girl would be Princess Peach or SS Zelda!! ;ww;

Wow I seem so picky but I really shouldn't be at all. D:
 
My "crush" (almost boyfriend) is a good example of what I like. Similar tastes, gentle, patient and asian lol, I love asians so I love his looking.
That's overall all I want right now.
 
Looking back at my 3 most "serious" relationships, all the guys are pretty much completely different except for their sense of humor. Your sense of humor has to be pretty similar to mine for me to even consider dating you or else I'll just get bored of ya.

And there's the obvious: be sweet to me, caring, nice to my family, and be trying to do something with your life. Can't date no bums.
 
Interior:
-No a$shole
-No gossip
-No throwing shiat to mah family
-No complaining about every fcking thing in the entire world
-Yes being nice
-Yes making me feel better (like,shes not like:ARE U OKAY?!?!?!?)
-Yes supporting meh
-Yes not being the typical whore biatch
-Yes if she is herself and not a fake personality
-Yes if she doesn't fite me every 5 min.
-Yes if she treats mah family good
-Yes if she always finds something to make meh smile (not always)
-Exterior
-Caring about her body parts (not looking purfect,but looking ok,good)
 
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funny , sweet , dyed , medium , or dark hair , likes hugs , creative , humble , calm , a little taller than me , medium build

personality is always more important than looks , though
 
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I have a thing for those tall and skinny guys. But, if he's strong enough to carry me, I'd love that. For personality, I like chill and calm people. Let him be my voice of reason. A good sense of humor is necessary.

For girls, I like them with curves, but only a little belly. Really, as long as they're cute with a fun personality, I'm down.

I haaaatttee body hair, so unless it's head-hair or a little beard, I'd prefer it gone. (Except for arm hair, that's cool with me)
 
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am i the only person whos actually disgusted by guys who are buff, "overly sexy," and skinny? bc a majority of the time guys like that have really high expectations when it comes to women and just have a terrible personality. every guy ive met is like that, but there are some that are different i guess

i dont really have a preference..but personality counts for everything. example: if you're really cute, im already into you in a way. once i start getting to know you and i realize you're stupid when it comes to common sense, a jerk, clueless, etc etc then the way i see your appearances and personality is down at a negative

i have a lot of flaws physically as well..so guys who are really accepting of those things and everything & doesnt see through my 'fake smiles' are what i look for..but those types of guys are rare imo, so the chances of meeting someone like that are slim
 
am i the only person whos actually disgusted by guys who are buff, "overly sexy," and skinny? bc a majority of the time guys like that have really high expectations when it comes to women and just have a terrible personality. every guy ive met is like that, but there are some that are different i guess

i dont really have a preference..but personality counts for everything. example: if you're really cute, im already into you in a way. once i start getting to know you and i realize you're stupid when it comes to common sense, a jerk, clueless, etc etc then the way i see your appearances and personality is down at a negative

i have a lot of flaws physically as well..so guys who are really accepting of those things and everything & doesnt see through my 'fake smiles' are what i look for..but those types of guys are rare imo, so the chances of meeting someone like that are slim

I like chubby guys, just saying. I try to be open about physical things because, well, I'm not perfect, either. But I have also found that the.....'buff' or 'overly sexy' guys are not really my type. They tend to be otherwise fake. Chubby guys tend to be...well, different. They tend to be more /accepting/. Now, my current boyfriend used to be pretty skinny and only started gaining weight recently, but physically he drives me nuts. Weight/general thickness doesn't really have much of an affect on me. But my boyfriend is just so...I can't explain it. He cares about his appearance, so even when he gains weight he looks really good. He's a bit rough around the edges, (I guess I like that too), and he has a temper. He always keeps me on my toes.

So no, you aren't the only one not attracted to the buff guys. Not saying buff guys don't look good, but their personalities almost always turn me off.
 
All I want is nerdy, kind, and being a little pretty wouldn't hurt. Also, as it was said before, no drugs, smoking, etc. That's it pretty much it. Oh, also, needs to have the same sense of humor as me, ex. can crack a joke every once in a while.
 
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This going to sound werid, but I'd only really go with guys that are submissive. They can't have temper, because when someone else is mad, I start to amplifiy it back. I would like someone who is kind of quiet and self centered like myself, but can be social and fun in the right situations
. Also someone who enjoys the same things I do, but also I could spend time apart with and don't have to share anything with, because I like my own stuff.
 
Want:
- Someone who cares about their looks. They don't need to look like a supermodel, but at least keep yourself decent.
- A good sense of humor. At least enough not to get offended at my usual sarcastic brand of humor. :P
- Shares some interests with me, like video games, shows, hobbies, ect.
- Someone who'll care about me. They don't have to constantly be at my hand and feet but if they're ignoring me most of the time there's a problem.
- Someone who'll be willing to support me.
- Someone who has at least some confidence.

Do not want:
- Someone who's close minded about everything.
- Someone who'll be on my case and grill me over everything I do.
- Someone who treats me like a incompetent child who can't walk two steps without screwing up.
- Someone who'll play mind games with me instead of telling me what they want.

That's just off the top of my head.
 
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