What's Bothering You?

I need some advice. Last year during March I started a conversation with someone because I wanted to be friends with them. They said thanks for the conversation and ghosted me for a year. The only time they replied was when I asked about art commissions. For whatever reason they’re still on my friend’s list even though it’s obvious they don’t want anything to do with me. Should I just unfriend them or should I tell them first?
 
not sure if this topic is against the rules since it's not nudity, technically, porn or sexual. maybe it's considered obscene? idk, i learned about this anatomy in school when i was 8, and i think it's a topic that shouldn't be taboo etc. but just delete it if it's considered inappropriate.
oh my god, i'm in Pain. i have no idea what's going on down there, but i wish it would stop. i know i should probably see a doctor, but, like. that gives me anxiety in general, let alone if they were to do an exam. (not to mention appointments are impossible to get at the minute.) i've tried googling my symptoms as if that's in any way a good source, but for the most part i just end up with results for lichen sclerosus and i'm 95% sure it's not that. (i've also just made myself paranoid that it's vulvar cancer. nice.) i've tried sudocrem and vagisil (canesten is way too expensive rip) to soothe the itching/burning and it does work for a little while, but then it's back on the pain train. i think it's getting better, but i honestly can't tell. sometimes i feel perfectly normal, other times it's agonizing. i think it was caused by having to wear sanitary pads for a straight month, which is why i've now switched to period underwear (cannot recommend enough btw), but i can't tell for certain. if any women see this and have any advice or went through similar experiences and might know what's up, please feel free to reach out. i'm dying over here T^T
 
I am so pissed off today. My coworker is out of office and apparently I'm the backup? The latest contact sheet I downloaded never had me even listed as a backup or teritiary. Someone changed it and never notified me or sent an email. I have absolutely no training on this account. I've had anxiety all morning trying to balance my own accounts, calls, emails... This is just absolute bull. In no way is this my fault.
 
If it would help put your mind at ease to discuss your symptoms with someone with a biomedical background (I'm a scientist rather than a healthcare practitioner, so I can offer information and reassurance but not a diagnosis) you are welcome to contact me. I'd like to think the information I can volunteer will be more helpful and less scary than the NHS website. I understand of course if you're not comfortable with this.
 
so yeah now i need to make 3 new friends ...like wtf pogo i'm not made of friends playing pogo lol. guess i'll just ask people to delete and re-add me -_-
 
If it would help put your mind at ease to discuss your symptoms with someone with a biomedical background (I'm a scientist rather than a healthcare practitioner, so I can offer information and reassurance but not a diagnosis) you are welcome to contact me. I'd like to think the information I can volunteer will be more helpful and less scary than the NHS website. I understand of course if you're not comfortable with this.

i think it's doing better today? but if it keeps persisting and/or get worse, i'll definitely shoot you a message! thank you <3
 
You have no idea how much I hate Tiktok and I don’t even use it. I really wish it didn’t exist.
Yeah, same. I hate TikTok and I have no desire to ever use it. It hit me when a YouTube streamer that I watch yesterday made a comment about forums and whether they still exist. Yes, they exist, but that’s just it. There are a few active ones. (This is the most active one that I am on.) I wish things like TikTok didn’t take over the internet. I remember years ago when forums were the thing. They were booming. Now it’s just Instagram and TikTok. What a shame.
 
Yeah, same. I hate TikTok and I have no desire to ever use it. It hit me when a YouTube streamer that I watch yesterday made a comment about forums and whether they still exist. Yes, they exist, but that’s just it. There are a few active ones. (This is the most active one that I am on.) I wish things like TikTok didn’t take over the internet. I remember years ago when forums were the thing. They were booming. Now it’s just Instagram and TikTok. What a shame.
Yea I will never use Tiktok. Yea it really is a shame forums are not a big thing anymore. One of my big problems with it is those stupid Tiktok challenges especially the destructive ones. Last week at work (I work at a grocery store) we had to close the bathrooms in front because some kids destroyed the 2 toilets in the women’s restroom because they said they were doing a Tiktok challenge.
 
Yea I will never use Tiktok. Yea it really is a shame forums are not a big thing anymore. One of my big problems with it is those stupid Tiktok challenges especially the destructive ones. Last week at work (I work at a grocery store) we had to close the bathrooms in front because some kids destroyed the 2 toilets in the women’s restroom because they said they were doing a Tiktok challenge.
The fact that they used the TikTok challenge to justify their ****ty behavior. Wow.
 
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