What's Bothering You?

[Anj2k6]

I hope this isn't too personal, but back in September my cat passed away due to kidney failure. I'm still pretty broken up about it, but I'm nowhere near as much of a mess as I was when it first happened.

However, my partner isn't ready to welcome a new cat into our lives mainly because it would now be "our" cat instead of "my" cat. My former kitty was with me before I met my current partner.

We still have some relationship issues to work out which is why he's holding off, but man do I have this emptiness in my heart that aches to love another kitty already. The silence in our apartment is driving me stir crazy.

I do understand the decision to hold off until we're stronger as a couple, but it hurts everyday not having a kitty around.

 

[Alienroadie]

There is a piece of skin on my toe, and if i rip it off, my brain will explode from the pain

 

[Dawnpiplup]

I get distracted... far too easily. I make decisions on a whim. Life is difficult. I'm not sure if I can make up my homework.

 

[samsquared]

I hope this isn't too personal, but back in September my cat passed away due to kidney failure. I'm still pretty broken up about it, but I'm nowhere near as much of a mess as I was when it first happened.

However, my partner isn't ready to welcome a new cat into our lives mainly because it would now be "our" cat instead of "my" cat. My former kitty was with me before I met my current partner.

We still have some relationship issues to work out which is why he's holding off, but man do I have this emptiness in my heart that aches to love another kitty already. The silence in our apartment is driving me stir crazy.

I do understand the decision to hold off until we're stronger as a couple, but it hurts everyday not having a kitty around.

Is he worried about the expectation that he'll have to care for the cat as well & he doesn't want that responsibility?
I'm so sorry about your kitty though. You must have loved him very much

 

[_Rainy_]

My stomachs been hurting all day so that’s fun

 

[SmoochsPLH]

i need to finish filling out my catalog on villagerdb but i keep getting lazy about it or losing focus while trying to do it and end up forgetting where i was and have bought new stuff since causing me to have to start over. i actually filled out all of my furniture today and plan to not let myself buy anything in acnh till im done filling it out.

 

[xSuperMario64x]

my art project is due tomorrow morning but I'm stressing so much about my recital tomorrow and my (piano) jury coming up that I don't think I'll be able to finish it and stay sane

If I was given maybe a few more days to work on it then I would be fine. it just happens to coincide with a very busy time for me.

 

[Dunquixote]

Worried again about my posts annoying people. When writing posts or talking to people in person, i lose my focus a lot or forget when I’m talking about (I think it has something to do with asperger’s). one of my friends always tells me to hurry up and my dad gets all pissy and tells me to just say out; yet he tells our former financial advisor he knows i have asperger’s. yeah sure. you’d treat me entirely different if you knew i had that and anxiety and you’d be taking medicine for yours. Anyways, i am not proud that i worry about something silly like this. just i get so anxious seeing two word posts liked and longer posts ignored. i know the like function can mean agree too since i like posts that i agree with and i don’t expect everyone to like what i say or agree with me; which is why i wish this wouldn’t bug me or make me worry. i wish i knew how to talk and think normally and how to be excited or happy or aad or anything without it being too much for anyone ><. I know i shouldn’t worry about what others think but i want to be considerate to others.

Aside from this silly worry, I’m doing okay .

 

[Clock]

I think I'm going to be sick.
Hopefully its a small cold and it goes away fast.

 

[Neb]

I was rejected again. Maybe I should just learn to be happy on my own. It’d certainly save a lot of time.

 

[Katzenjammer]

Welp, my area is going back into the Purple Tier for the Coronavirus yet again. This is going to put many businesses out of commission for good, and that's so sad... I hope people follow guidelines for the holidays.

edit: not to mention cases going up, I mean that's a whole different topic, but yeah it's awful as well obviously

 

[Anj2k6]

Is he worried about the expectation that he'll have to care for the cat as well & he doesn't want that responsibility?
I'm so sorry about your kitty though. You must have loved him very much

Nah it's more like "hypothetically if we split up, who would even get possession of the kitty should it love us both equally?"

 

[Dim]

Throat feeling pretty irritated. Hopefully it's just allergies or something. Covid-19 cases is rapid in my store and I'm starting to feel paranoid now. >~>

 

[Dunquixote]

I hope this isn't too personal, but back in September my cat passed away due to kidney failure. I'm still pretty broken up about it, but I'm nowhere near as much of a mess as I was when it first happened.

However, my partner isn't ready to welcome a new cat into our lives mainly because it would now be "our" cat instead of "my" cat. My former kitty was with me before I met my current partner.

We still have some relationship issues to work out which is why he's holding off, but man do I have this emptiness in my heart that aches to love another kitty already. The silence in our apartment is driving me stir crazy.

I do understand the decision to hold off until we're stronger as a couple, but it hurts everyday not having a kitty around.

. I am so sorry that you are going through this and for the loss of your kitty. Sorry also for seeing this just now. I hope you work things out and I definitely understand that feeling. Three years ago my sister’s cat (who was the litter mate to one of mine) passed away and my sister really wants a cat and I really want her to have a cat so i can go there and play with it. There is some circumstances that are preventing my sister from getting another cat. Her husband loved her cat and isn’t ready for another cat (because he took care of my sister’s cat supposedly more than her).

I hope in time he’ll let you have another cat. I hope things get better for you too.

 

[That Marshal Fangirl]

I am so busy right now that I'm practically exploding from stress. I have a tendency to wait until the last minute for assignments because I function best under pressure, but when there's a bunch of major projects and papers due at the same time it doesn't really work. I desperately want to get done with this semester so I can go home for winter break, but I have literal hours of finals left until then. Pray for me please.

 

[Reginald Fairfield]

Dang sea pig.

now i know damn well my father didn’t just throw a tantrum over garlic bread

It is delicious.

 

[ali.di.magix]

now i know damn well my father didn’t just throw a tantrum over garlic bread

this made me laugh so hard because it's exactly something my dad would do

--

I have now officially left my job and oh boy it has been an emotional rollercoaster. I didn't think it would hurt this much leaving a job

 

[Anj2k6]

. I am so sorry that you are going through this and for the loss of your kitty. Sorry also for seeing this just now. I hope you work things out and I definitely understand that feeling. Three years ago my sister’s cat (who was the litter mate to one of mine) passed away and my sister really wants a cat and I really want her to have a cat so i can go there and play with it. There is some circumstances that are preventing my sister from getting another cat. Her husband loved her cat and isn’t ready for another cat (because he took care of my sister’s cat supposedly more than her).

I hope in time he’ll let you have another cat. I hope things get better for you too.

Thank you so much for your well wishes. <3 It really means a lot to know there are others going through something similar. Also no worries about only now just seeing this was mostly just venting and thought my post would get buried.

 

[Dawnpiplup]

Stress. Had a mini breakdown.

 

[Midoriya]

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