Mars Adept
Circles and spirals in mind…
Does anyone else feel like they’re not supposed to exist?
That was.. uh pretty bad joke considering how Bothering threads have gone in the past. I'd never post about someone here due to the OP.I was kidding.
same, those states left better voted for bidenso tired today
also anxious to see the election results. my friend has been watching it since last night and it seems like Biden is in the lead, here's hoping it doesn't flip or smth.
If this is an on-going issue then it sounds like you may simply be incompatible with each other. If you're not well-suited to someone then the relationship is bound to fail no matter how hard you both try to make it work.my boyfriend and i have been distant lately. he hasn't texted me at all the past few days. i texted him on halloween, and he left me on read. i was really looking forward to us spending some time together. i'm constantly pondering what i did wrongi feel so hurt i miss him so bad..
granted, for the past month we've been having some communication issues. i have a hard time being open, he knows that. but i get little to no emotional support from him. i feel annoying, even though i'm probably not. i feel like he doesn't trust me. i feel like he hates me. i've been overthinking so much. i just want to talk to him and be happy again. i need to say something but i can't bc i don't know what to say, how to say it, when to say it. i don't even know if he'll even listen to me. this hurts so bad
Does anyone else feel like they’re not supposed to exist?
Idk how it is in Sweden but here in the US all businesses with a certain number of employees are required by law to make reasonable accommodations for people with physical/mental "disabilities." if theyre not willing to make accomodations for Aspergers/ASD then that's just not right.Yes, I can possibly take a job if someone would offer me it, the thing that goddamn twerp job agency doesn't get it that it'd would need to be adjusted due to my ASD/Asperger. Might be tiny details to most people but it would be crucial for me cause I depend on those details if I could take a job or not. Also that's the reason why they supposedly got this help program they offered and why my income would come from another place at first. Sweet jesus you could tell you basically only need a ph. d in like literature to work there lol.
I don't think it is here sadly, especially high-functioning Asperger is treated by such authorities very bad and the only thing they do is like, offer help and can get in contact with places that could make those adjustments or those that take care of such employees, if you get my point.Idk how it is in Sweden but here in the US all businesses with a certain number of employees are required by law to make reasonable accommodations for people with physical/mental "disabilities." if theyre not willing to make accomodations for Aspergers/ASD then that's just not right.
that's really unfortunate. is there a way to get in touch with a counselor/therapist and have them help you propose accomodations?I don't think it is here sadly, especially high-functioning Asperger is treated by such authorities very bad and the only thing they do is like, offer help and can get in contact with places that could make those adjustments or those that take care of such employees, if you get my point.
Just because I don't have anything by looks doesn't mean I function normally.
I don't know if it's normal for businesses to ghost you after saying they want to set up a second interview, but calling back to find out they've already hired someone else really stung. I didn't realize that I was such a bad option that I wasn't even worthy of being notified.. I guess that's just how it goes, but I'm feeling pretty low now. I graduate in a month. I don't want to be jobless.
Yeah, I think you're entitled to help by law but it's not all workplaces that care sadly, or you need those special jobs :/that's really unfortunate. is there a way to get in touch with a counselor/therapist and have them help you propose accomodations?
Yes, can confirm. Both me and my mom have applied for tons of work and yeah either they send out this "no thank you" default stuff or they don't care unless they would actually be interested lol.I wouldn't take it personally. Lots of companies are flakes with the hiring process. When I was searching I felt good about most interviews and then heard nothing back. It took months for me to find something (granted I had no experience prior). Just keep your head held up high and keep looking! A door will open itself eventually.
Agreed. Not a good day/time to be alive right now.Does anyone else feel like they’re not supposed to exist?
I wouldn't take it personally. Lots of companies are flakes with the hiring process. When I was searching I felt good about most interviews and then heard nothing back. It took months for me to find something (granted I had no experience prior). Just keep your head held up high and keep looking! A door will open itself eventually.