What's Bothering You?

[ProbablyNotJosuke]

My close friend who always offers to let me vent whenever i’m in a bad mood always ends up getting mad at me while venting or always has some unnecessary remark instead of just listening and trying to help. This keeps happening over and over and instead of helping they just add fuel to the flame, they’re literally no help in these situations and instead of fixing these things they just keep getting mad at me every time i need to vent and i’m sick of them doing that

 

[spawnpoint]

Why am I such a bad friend?
I'm so pissed off right now and I pissed off one of my best friends even more and now hes mad at me and I'm mad at him and I wanna die in a hole

 

[_Rainy_]

my dad's panic attacks and how unmanageable they are...don't get me wrong, I totally understand anxiety and panic disorder...but holy **** it brings out his most selfish side. I do nothing to help, get yelled at. I try to help, still get yelled at ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

also my appetite has completely gone lately?? Like why?? Is that normal?

We’re twinning right now. I’m going through the exact same thing irl with someone. I also don’t have any appetite whatsoever.

Forgot my wallet today and had to have someone come rescue me at the store. So embarrassing!!

 

[Midoriya]

My close friend who always offers to let me vent whenever i’m in a bad mood always ends up getting mad at me while venting or always has some unnecessary remark instead of just listening and trying to help. This keeps happening over and over and instead of helping they just add fuel to the flame, they’re literally no help in these situations and instead of fixing these things they just keep getting mad at me every time i need to vent and i’m sick of them doing that

At least you’re able to vent to someone. My friends maintain that I’m not allowed to vent to them about negative things, so I can’t even discuss my negative feelings with anyone, and my therapist isn’t much help either. Good thing I’m a naturally positive person or otherwise I would be in trouble... lol

Still though, that sucks that they’re getting mad at you over it :/

 

[spawnpoint]

At least you’re able to vent to someone. My friends maintain that I’m not allowed to vent to them about negative things, so I can’t even discuss my negative feelings with anyone, and my therapist isn’t much help either. Good thing I’m a naturally positive person or otherwise I would be in trouble... lol

Still though, that sucks that they’re getting mad at you over it :/

I'm sorry I tried to help him..
he got mad at me too tho and that pissed me off as well
aaaaa ;;

 

[Dawnpiplup]

Contamination issues

 

[spawnpoint]

Okay now I feel like a guilty piece of crap but I already told my friend I was done talking to him for the night so if I go back he'll probably still be pissed at me or I'll look stupid and desperate but I miss him already and this is gonna bother me all night and ah **** I just feel like a horrible friend

 

[_Rainy_]

Okay now I feel like a guilty piece of crap but I already told my friend I was done talking to him for the night so if I go back he'll probably still be pissed at me or I'll look stupid and desperate but I miss him already and this is gonna bother me all night and ah **** I just feel like a horrible friend

Just say you’re sorry and give them some space. We all say things we don’t mean when our emotions are high.

 

[spawnpoint]

Just say you’re sorry and give them some space. We all say things we don’t mean when our emotions are high.

I've already told them sorry
But just.. .....
I don't knowwww he's still mad and idk what to do
He probably won't want me to come back for the rest of the night....

Post automatically merged: Jul 20, 2020

I always screw up so bad like this
why does he even still love me

 

[_Rainy_]

I've already told them sorry
But just.. .....
I don't knowwww he's still mad and idk what to do
He probably won't want me to come back for the rest of the night....

Post automatically merged: Jul 20, 2020

I always screw up so bad like this
why does he even still love me

He might not forgive you tonight, but that doesn’t mean that he won’t in the future. It’s obvious you care very deeply and that’s what matters most.

 

[spawnpoint]

He might not forgive you tonight, but that doesn’t mean that he won’t in the future. It’s obvious you care very deeply and that’s what matters most.

Yeah im gonna be stressing about this all night tho
WHY did I say I was gonna come back tomorrow i wanna go back noooooowwwww
I'm so stupid

 

[Reginald Fairfield]

Friggin' melting.

 

[craftyshack]

I'm really bothered by my insomnia. I was working the night shift 1 week ago for about 2 weeks with some weird 16h shifts in between, and since then have been so sleep deprived more so than usual while I'm on a break from work. A bit anxious about what my sleep and ability to function will be like when my schedule shifts to day time next week :/

 

[Ananas Dragon]

Why am I such a bad friend?
I'm so pissed off right now and I pissed off one of my best friends even more and now hes mad at me and I'm mad at him and I wanna die in a hole

Ahaha stfu.

Things will get better and everything has its ups and downs.
I don't appreciate talk of dying/suicide

 

[spawnpoint]

Ahaha.

Things will get better and everything has its ups and downs.
I don't appreciate talk of dying/suicide

I hate everything
And I bet I'm just a burden to him and he won't admit it cause I'm just making this **** worse

 

[Ananas Dragon]

I hate everything
And I bet I'm just a burden to him and he won't admit it cause I'm just making this **** worse

If you were a burden to him he would've just cut you off and not care about you.

It's just a misunderstanding that will get fixed. I know so.

 

[spawnpoint]

If you were a burden to him he would've just cut you off and not care about you.

It's just a misunderstanding that will get fixed. I know so.

I guess
Sigh..

Post automatically merged: Jul 21, 2020

I miss him but I'm too much of a coward to make a move and go back
Since I was being a jerk

 

[Ananas Dragon]

I guess
Sigh..

Post automatically merged: Jul 21, 2020

I miss him but I'm too much of a coward to make a move and go back
Since I was being a jerk

I don't mess around with this crap, I'll tell you that much.
Just give him time and apologize

 

[spawnpoint]

I don't mess around with this crap, I'll tell you that much.
Just give him time and apologize

Alright ;;

 

[frogslime]

Hrrrng I have very little skills and the ones that I do have I tend to suck at and show no improvement no matter how hard I try.