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What are your negative qualities?

Wittle_Munchkin

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Do you feel like talking about the things that prevent you from being the best version of yourself? Go ahead and type away here! Here are my 10 most hated qualities about myself:

1. I'm a flaky friend. (I tend to cancel plans I make with people)
2. When I'm sick, in pain, or hungry, I am the biggest a-hole around.
3. I'm a little lazy when it comes to doing things that matter.
4. Kindness is weakness. When I am compassionate, I unintentionally let others walk all over me like a rug.

5. I get distracted/easily bored. I always have the urge to travel, spend lots of money, etc. But I'm also super frugal. In other words, I'm always frustrated at the fact that I'm good at holding on to money, but I suck at having realistic expectations on what to spend my money on.

6. I feel entitled to a happier life, even though there so many people out there who would give anything for what I've been blessed with.

7. I never give second chances. I assume apologies from others are fake. But then I have this weird delusion that makes me think I deserve forgiveness because I feel like my feelings are the only ones that are genuine. I'm a cruddy person. -__-

8. Self-fulfilled prophecies curse me. (AKA I tend to believe bad things so much, I make them happen to me. Paranoia is greeeeaaaat. /sarcasm)

9. My head gets too big sometimes. (I'll look at a talent of mine and think, "I'm so amazing at this." but it turns out to be mediocre as f)

10. I contradict myself 24/7. (I'll probably look at these qualities later on and go, "I'm totally the opposite of these.")
 
- I have social anxiety so it's hard for me to apply for jobs, interact with groups, generally talk to people, etc.
- I give up on certain things too quickly instead of pursuing them further.
- I don't stick up for myself as much as I should.
 
1) I'm sometimes too stubborn for my own good.
2) Whenever I get depressed, I tend to push it on to others and make them think of me in a bad way.
3) I'm doubtful of myself, yet try and be optimistic of one's goodness.
4) I'm most likely hopelessly in love. Boohoo... ;-;
5) I can be too easygoing sometimes.
6) Be too empathetic.
7) My own pessimism can screw me over.
8) Always worrying or stressing out about something.
9) Somewhat inappropriate at time.
10) Boring at times. ^^;;
 
- im pretty shy irl so when i dont know what to say, i just dont say anything at all. people just think im rude bc of that but i just dont want to say something stupid or anything
- i hate socializing with people..it drains my energy so i usually come up with an excuse to get out of the convo
- if something or someone ticks me off, i'd be rude to anyone who talks to me but i dont realize it after i cool down
- i procrastinate a lot so i work at my own speed, which explains why i never study with other people. i just do the work slowly..its not like i dont do the work at all bc i intend on finishing it at due time, im just slower than everyone
 
I get social anxiety in some situations.

I love people wayyyy too much. Like seriously some people are so guarded, that whenever someone shows me a bit of their soul, I fall a little bit in love.
 
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im super super super shy. some kids came over a while ago and as much as I wanted to speak up and talk, I couldn't. This is why I'm worried for middle school. I'm afraid people will make fun of me because I never talk.

and i can get super boring at times, then people make an excuse to leave
 
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Extremely forgetful and irresponsible
Trust issues
Self-deprecating
I don't believe in myself that much
Pick at acne, bite nails, forever brushing and straightening hair
so, I'm vain
Overly critical of other people, though I don't begrudge them for their faults
Horrible morning breath
Run from boys
Won't give boys that I know I'd be interested in the time of day because I don't want to be taken advantage of or hurt
Walls for miles
Still vain
Picky about literally everything
Puts **** food into body
Talk about how real I am and then turn around and be someone I'm not
Which is apathy, really
Lazzzzzyyyyy
Disorganised due to laziness and apathy
No spine
Irritation masks this like overly sad demeanor instead, where I'm feeling sorry for myself instead of angry at other people
Did I mention vain?
 
im super super super shy. some kids came over a while ago and as much as I wanted to speak up and talk, I couldn't. This is why I'm worried for middle school. I'm afraid people will make fun of me because I never talk.

i doubt anyone would make fun of you, tbh nobody really cares about the quiet people. they just assume they're introverts and want to be alone so they give them space..at least thats how it was in my middle school
just make a small circle of friends and you'll be fine, making friends is really easy starting out in middle school as not as you're not a jerk or anything. heck, i didnt even intend on making friends yet i befriended the whole grade by the end of the school year
 
-I procrastinate a lot. It's difficult for me to turn in homework and such.
-I have social anxiety so it's really hard for me to talk to people, buy things, ask questions, etc.
-I'm really apathetic towards people I really care about.
-I give up too easily.
-I'm really bad at handling my emotions.
-Paranoia.
-I have a difficult time showing my emotions to people which makes me seem kind of cold.
-I say/do things opposite of what I truly mean. Ex: I might want to give my partner a hug but instead I push them away.
-I contradict myself a lot.
-I don't really pay attention to the world around me.
-Trust issues.

The list can go on and on tbh.
 
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-I'm a huge *****
-I can't tell when my teasing goes too far
-I cut people out at the drop of a hat
-I tak over people
-I'm impatient
-I'm spoiled
-I have zero sense of time management
-I procrastinate everything, even peeing
-I can forget to text back...a lot
 
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I'm a horrible procrastinator and I have social anxiety. those are my main negative qualities... :/
 
  • Procrastination
  • Jealousy which leads to saying/doing things I regret later
  • I can't express my emotions very well
I'm sure there's more but those are my top 3.
 
1) I'm a huge procrastinator. I can't get anything done.
2) I'm mean to people I love.
3) I'm so sensitive.
4) Despite being sensitive, I act apathetic on the outside because I don't like to show weakness.
5) I feel useless a lot.
6) I forget to text back, even if it's important.
7) I have trust issues, even with my boyfriend.
8) I always feel like such an inconvienence to everyone.
 
✧ social anxiety/general anxiety about things
✧ I'm afraid to confront people about certain issues because I don't want to hurt their feelings
✧ sometimes I am afraid of getting close to others since I don't want to end up getting hurt (it has happened a lot so...)
✧ I am very sensitive
✧ I have always had trouble following directions even after looking over them carefully several times
 
Procrastinator
Judgemental
Blunt
Passive aggressive
Sometimes violent
Apathetic
Lazy
Untrusting
Intolerant
Nonchalant
Cocky within reason
Easily bored with people
Quiet
Manipulative

Eh...
 
I procrastinate.
I'm lazy.
I eat crap (and yet I'm really skinny?)
I have a hard time making friends.
I get mad easily.
I have problems controlling my emotions, and often cry about the littlest or stupidest things.
I hate working with others and group projects.
I'm spoiled.
I'm usually irresponsible and lose things a lot. (And yet I got contacts somehow)
 
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