Ah, so there is a negative qualities thread. XD
Well, I said I would have a lot, and here they are!
1. I'm super impatient
2. I can be pretty lazy
3. I get annoyed very easily. With situations and with people.
4. I give up easily
5. I like to complain XD
6. I can't say no. If someone tells me to do something, I do it. I can't stick up for myself
7. I'm awful at talking to people. My mom has even told me this. I just sit there and stare at them and give them one word answers to questions.
8. I'm pretty uptight. Everything has to go according to schedule or I get upset.
9. I can be selfish sometimes...especially when it comes to family. I never want to help anyone in my family because I want to do my own things. I'm better with helping friends though.
10. I'm overly sensitive and cry over small things. I also get defensive really easily and I can't take a joke
11. I get overly attached to people, and then when I see them talking to someone else I get jealous or worried that they don't like me anymore
12. I have a fear of confrontation...if someone starts yelling at me I'll either start crying or literally run away. Or both.
There are more, but that's all I feel like typing. XD
- - - Post Merge - - -
-I'm really sensitive
-not assertive enough
-social anxiety prevents me from doing everyday things like ordering food, phone calls, driving. Some days I can do those things head first. Other days I panic and rely on people too much to help me with social interaction ..
-I'm materialistic
-I can't deal well with spontaneousity. I do best on a fixed routine or things planned months in advance.
-I have a Horrible short term memory
-I am a perfectionist .. And it bothers me if things aren't done early or something is out of place
-I am shy
There's probably more but can't think of it right now. I try to be optimistic but these are some qualities that put a burden on people from me ..
A lot of these sound like me. I can't order food either, I'm too scared to open my mouth. You're not alone.
