Villagers being real friends, is this kind of pathetic?

Hey.. just wanted to give you some encouragement..

I have depression and because of it I haven't been going to school since May. And I've stopped talking to my friends completely as they have forgotten my existence. I think it's perfectly fine to confide in animal crossing for care and comfort. The game actually is helping me a lot. If not for it forcing me to get up and find fossils and do deeds for my villagers, I wouldn't even care what time of the day it is. I wouldn't get out of bed. I don't dare to even try and contact my real life friends but at least I can do it with computers... I don't know.. It just helps me get into a "daily life" kinda routine... even if it's virtual it benefits me a lot

A frequent thing I tell myself whenever I feel suicidal at night is that yes, life may suck. Yes, I have no friends or a reason to live. But Ruby will be lonely if I don't be there tomorrow to play. I want to build a snowman tomorrow. The shops will have new items tomorrow. My flowers will grow and I can serve Ruby her favourite Blue Mountain with lots of milk and sugar and she'll compliment me and love me so much.........

You're not weird. You're helping yourself

This is exactly how i feel and i nearly cried reading this.
Animal crossing helps me a lot. I know they are just video game characters but i feel a lot better when they tell me how much they like me.
Is it weird? Yea probably but as long as it helps me i dont feel bad about it.
 
I'm getting like...really emotional reading all these replies and the PMs I got. I'm not at all used to people being so kind to me and sticking up for me, especially people who don't even really know me. It means a lot. I'm so glad I got into this fandom, it's the nicest one I've ever been in, easily.
 
I'm getting like...really emotional reading all these replies and the PMs I got. I'm not at all used to people being so kind to me and sticking up for me, especially people who don't even really know me. It means a lot. I'm so glad I got into this fandom, it's the nicest one I've ever been in, easily.

Well you shouldn't have to put up with judgements like the first comment, especially since we are a community....a GREAT, KIND community!
 
Well you shouldn't have to put up with judgements like the first comment, especially since we are a community....a GREAT, KIND community!

Most fandoms I've been in seem to have like...1 or 2 nice people and the rest are really intimidating or not nice. This fandom seems like the total opposite of that. No one here has ever made me feel stupid or been really harsh. I'm also a huge pokemon fan and for a while I was really into that fandom too but people there are a lot more elitist and rude so I just started playing and loving pokemon by myself. I've never felt that with this fandom.

Then again, how could we all be mean? We're all here because we love our talking animal pals.
 
Most fandoms I've been in seem to have like...1 or 2 nice people and the rest are really intimidating or not nice. This fandom seems like the total opposite of that. No one here has ever made me feel stupid or been really harsh. I'm also a huge pokemon fan and for a while I was really into that fandom too but people there are a lot more elitist and rude so I just started playing and loving pokemon by myself. I've never felt that with this fandom.

Then again, how could we all be mean? We're all here because we love our talking animal pals.

I understand. I play a browser game called Town of Salem (although haven't played for a month or 2 now) and the forum is filled with annoying people. It isn't like this one at all. :)
 
I must say that this forum has the kindest, generous, most civilized and caring people out of any forum I have ever been a part of. I am proud to be a member here. I could easily list you all by name and I am awful at remembering names. But trust me, the kindness shown here is evident each and every day. So Namstar, take a look around at all your friends :) We are all here on this thread and you are in all our hearts.
 
I know how you feel... im overly attached to my villagers right now <3 i may be overprotective of some.... (i even started to get attached to Merry more because when she got sick... i noticed how much pep that took out of her) Merry, to me is like Pinkie Pie... Friendship is Magic... it isn't pathetic bro

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Well you shouldn't have to put up with judgements like the first comment, especially since we are a community....a GREAT, KIND community!

amen bro
 
I know how you feel... im overly attached to my villagers right now <3 i may be overprotective of some.... (i even started to get attached to Merry more because when she got sick... i noticed how much pep that took out of her) Merry, to me is like Pinkie Pie... Friendship is Magic... it isn't pathetic bro

Merry is so super sweet. I have her in a town of mine and she says the sweetest things, probably more often than most of my villagers do, actually. But at the same time she pings me to move out more than the rest of my villagers...lmao I can't win.
 
Reading your post made me think of myself.. I Struggle a lot with mental health issues and a c is an escape, as is Pokemon.
 
You don't have to be ashamed, Namstar.

I am quite attached to Astrid right now because she is the sweetest, most motherly villager I have ever encountered in Animal Crossing. She's giving me medicine for my bee stings (in pervious towns) before.
If you are really close to a snooty villager in your Animal Crossing NewLeaf town, you know that they become the sweetest, most motherly, most selfless villager in your town. The only things they'll ever steal from you is your heart! <3

And the sweet things they say and do are intensified when you are feeling down.

Mathilda is my second favorite villager.
I've had her in previous towns. I will never forget the time when I had a fever and I logged onto my NL town and I go up to visited her. You know what she did? She gave me a free piece of furniture and told me what a good friend I was. Whether in real life or in Animal Crossing, encouragement like that helps me a lot when I need it most.

Please don't be ashamed about loving your AC neighbors. I love my favorite villagers to death and just like it does when RL people are nice to me, it also makes me happy when my favorite villagers are nice to me. Trust me, you are not the only one to get cheered up by a villager. It's better to have your favorite AC villagers cheer you up than no one at all! <3
 
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It's okay to play animal crossing new leaf for any reason, what ever helps you cope and deal with certain situations from reality is totally fine and that's all that matters sometimes! As long as you're not hurting yourself or others I don't think it's bad at all. I'm sure with time you will find more friends, and relying on a video game to feel a little better doesn't sound like a bad thing, video games are here to entertain us and allow us to escape the world for a little though there are many other fine reasons too. The world can be pretty cruel at times , but I've seen you post around here and I think you're awesome you have great comments and you seem like a great person!
 
I don't think you're pathetic at all. The great thing about Animal Crossing is that your villagers are always there for you. It's nice knowing that there's an entire town of animals who admire you and who are always happy to see you. I know my villagers can cheer me up when I'm down. There's nothing wrong with considering your villagers as your friends. :)
 
Namstar, I may not know EXACTLY how you feel, but I'm in a similar situation myself. I have my (may as well say he's my husband) and that's pretty much it. And he understands how I feel with New Leaf and my...dependency upon it, for lack of a better word.

I've never been an outgoing person, and I can count on one hand the number of friends I've had in my whole life, so yeah, having a town full of cute animals that are always happy to see you, it helps. I, too, have dealt with varying degrees of depression and anxiety for many years, and is it pathetic to rely so heavily on a video game and treat the characters like real friends? I suppose, especially to those who can't possibly understand it, but also: who cares? It obviously helps make your days a little brighter (and mine as well), and that's really all that matters.

Having said that, I've never been big on human interaction, being bullied during my formative years has left me with a bitterness when it comes to having to socialize. Add social awkwardness on top of that and...no, thank you. I've always been more of an animal person, so these games really help me bridge that gap.

So you keep being you, Namstar. :)
 
Hi Namstar! I'm Allie or Alexandra. I haven't talked with you personally on this forum but I have read some of your posts/threads in the past and you seem like a lovely, kindhearted person. It is far from pathetic to love something. What's so cool about this forum is that everyone here loves Animal Crossing in their own way. While we all may be communicating via internet, we are communicating, and from reading this forum it sounds like you have quite a lot of wonderful friends who are here for you.
 
If you take comfort in it, screw anyone else's opinion but your own about it. Life can be painful so shamelessly take happiness where you can get it!
 
In this thread: if you support her, you're understanding and sweet. If you don't, you're a troll. Interesting mindsets in this forum.
 
In this thread: if you support her, you're understanding and sweet. If you don't, you're a troll. Interesting mindsets in this forum.
i don't think that's anywhere close to what anyone is saying here. namstar made it clear she's going through a hard time and needs support, and whatever your feelings towards this thread may be, there's no need to be rude or make her feel any worse. if you're really that hellbent on telling her she's pathetic for the love she feels for the game, at least be mature and polite about it. recommend a different solution for her problem. don't be an ass about it. i'm pretty sure that's all everyone is trying to say.​
 
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