Seasoned veteran of relationships, I have become a bit picky and have acquired slightly high expectations at my age...... heh.....
- Post-secondary Education (University - preferably in a degree program where you are goal directed to pursue higher education and attain (fingers crossed) a Masters.... at least? Considering I am going for 2 MAs and 2 PhDs? Education is hot. A high GPA, an undergraduate degree with distinction (or great distinction) is very, very hot.
- Biilingualism, or more. I speak a multitude of languages. And if English isn't your first language, you re even hotter to me. I like accents and dialects.
- Academically driven, self-motivated, workaholics (basically) who re good at time management and can get their work done on time, while also making time for leisure, be it their passions, fitness, sports, hobbies, and spending time with me.
- Leadership qualities. Lead groups or clubs or orgnizations. Oh man, if you are military minded or have experience in the military like I do, you are even hotter.
- Musical talent. Singing or an instrument, or both. I play piano and I am operatically trained. I would love to record something and accompany a pice with you. But PLEASE do not be a Music student as your educational background. Have it as an extracurricular. I have outmost respect for Music students and Music Therapy students, those programs are VERY demanding. But.... not what I want in a boyfriend.
- Outdoorsey. Take me camping. Know your survival skills. Know how to kiyak or canoe in rapids. Rock climb. Parkour.
- Challenge my mind. Pick at my brain. Make me doubt things, even if you agree wih my stance, play Devil's Advocate. Don't always agree with what I say. If you are truly a man of wit, you will come up with counter arguments and we can debte out a variety of topics, from art, religion, comic books, video game lore, psychology, etc...
- Be productive. Have a routine. Be independent. Don't be lazy. Don't slack. Don't let me interrupt your flow of your life.
- [Insert Sexual Fantasies Here]
- Don't be a "Momma's Boy". Don't expect things to just come to you on a silver platter and life to spoon feed you. **** gets real. Grow up. When I look into your eyes I should see a reflection. I should see depth. I should see that you have been through some tragedy, some horrors, that you have seen some ****. Me, likewise.