Are you planning on making a special dream town? Do you really, really need half of those features? I suspect that sometimes people get really lost in resetting. People should do whatever makes their game more fun, of course, but when people complain about how long it takes to reset for a map that fits all of their criteria, it makes me wonder if they forgot the point of the game. If I were you, I'd look at some of those features as a nice bonus and really only look for the ones that make a big difference (like the location of Re-Tail, since some locations are more practical than others depending on the person). If you end up with a map that is just really bad, you can always reset and try again.
Oranges are your fruit, for example, unless you really love the perfect version, there's no need to reset for them. You can plant them in any other towns too.