TBT Pet Peeves

[Kildor]

Confession time :

I can be a bit (well very) mean sometimes. When I have those days that isn't going well, I feel really bad, and grumpy. Cranky.
And sometimes I feel like being rude, even though I don't want to. And because of that, I get depressed
I was so depressed that last month, I decided to quit the forums. Because I felt that everyone was just being mean to each other,.and everyone just wasn't happy at all.
But then I decided not to, because I decided that I can do more, and I can make people happy, even by a little bit.

So now I'm here, cracking cheesy jokes and being positive

 

[Caius]

Confession time :

I can be a bit (well very) mean sometimes. When I have those days that isn't going well, I feel really bad, and grumpy. Cranky.
And sometimes I feel like being rude, even though I don't want to. And because of that, I get depressed
I was so depressed that last month, I decided to quit the forums. Because I felt that everyone was just being mean to each other,.and everyone just wasn't happy at all.
But then I decided not to, because I decided that I can do more, and I can make people happy, even by a little bit.

So now I'm here, cracking cheesy jokes and being positive

Look, everyone goes through it and honestly I've seen a lot more negativity on the forums lately than I'm a fan of. It does throw you off. It's not unusual to take a break from an online community, even the mods do it. Everyone needs to take a breather.

If you feel like you're being suppressed, or if you're having an issue here, don't be afraid to bring it up. People that don't get along don't NEED to get along, but they should be avoiding confrontation and trying to remain positive instead of stirring the metaphorical pot.

That goes for everyone. If you're genuinely feeling like there's something wrong and you just need to talk, you can reach me on the IRC as Cent. I may tell you I'm unavailable (I work 16 hour stints), but if you need to blow off steam when I'm not there, you're more than welcome to. I will follow up even if it's at a later time.

 

[Izzy Reincarnated]

I messaged you Mariah because I was feeling loving and empathetic at that time. I was'nt trying to annoy you. Just wanted to say Hi.

 

[Sanaki]

At one point I felt like the forums were nothing but negativity and people getting offended over everything but then I realized that it's just part of online communities. There's a huge mix of people, not everybody is going to get along. I'm glad people are confessing as well. ^_^

I feel like I was a lot nicer when I was a cycler. lol

 

[Alice]

Okay boys and girls. We've gone off topic. I don't mean to spoil the mood, but maybe we shouldn't let this thread get too far off point.

 

[NikkiNikki]

At one point I felt like the forums were nothing but negativity and people getting offended over everything but then I realized that it's just part of online communities. There's a huge mix of people, not everybody is going to get along. I'm glad people are confessing as well. ^_^

I feel like I was a lot nicer when I was a cycler. lol

I agree

 

[Caius]

Okay boys and girls. We've gone off topic. I don't mean to spoil the mood, but maybe we shouldn't let this thread get too far off point.

Technically getting annoyed with things on the forum is a pet peeve. It's one of mine. I hate being frustrated at the forum itself and not being able to log on. I think it's a healthy discussion

 

[Alice]

Technically getting annoyed with things on the forum is a pet peeve. It's one of mine. I hate being frustrated at the forum itself and not being able to log on. I think it's a healthy discussion

Maybe. But we're going from pet peeves to actual deep problems. I can make a self-confessional thread, so long as no one tries to be a butt about it.

 

[Sanaki]

Not really deep problems.. It's a discussion and we're also stating how we can help FIX those pet peeves that people have or to just be a better person in general. I think it's a healthy discussion, as well. If it was all ranting then there would probably be more fighting.

 

[Caius]

If we must.

 

[Alice]

Not really deep problems.. It's a discussion and we're also stating how we can help FIX those pet peeves that people have or to just be a better person in general. I think it's a healthy discussion, as well. If it was all ranting then there would probably be more fighting.

There's a bit of a difference between things that annoy you, and things you sort of dislike and things that personally affect you to the point where you have to make changes.

 

[Chris]

But on an animal crossing site people are probably gonna say dreamie a lot xD.

I've been around multiple AC websites and chat rooms since 2006, and until I came here last year (the week of the ACNL release) I'd never heard the expression mentioned anywhere.

 

[Sanaki]

Try ACC lol

 

[Lady Timpani]

I've been around multiple AC websites and chat rooms since 2006, and until I came here last year (the week of the ACNL release) I'd never heard the expression mentioned anywhere.

Yeah, dreamie wasn't exactly a thing until ACNL was released. It's spread pretty much everywhere, though.

 

[Caius]

Try ACC lol

Watch the advertising

 

[Rinny_]

I've got a history of being a bit of a snob. My personality changes with the seasons, so what may be true for myself one day may not be true for another. I can be a jerk, moody, or unfair. Just let me know.

Ur just sassy shh don't worry.
But yeah, I have the same problem. Probally why I don't have many friends.

- - - Post Merge - - -

I've been around multiple AC websites and chat rooms since 2006, and until I came here last year (the week of the ACNL release) I'd never heard the expression mentioned anywhere.

The Dreamie/Dreamy thing started at NL. The features that you could adopt peoples villagers and soon people searched for villagers they wanted. But Dreamie is more of a TBT term. I think you could adopt in CF/LGTDC but not many people played that one and registering friends was murder. I have seen it on ACC, but I really don't like ACC's trading system. Just ew.

 

[Caius]

I never understood dreamies. Then again, I'm the worst at AC.

One thing that does grind my gears here is Mafia. I'm just not a fan. It's cool to watch sometimes, but it gets way out of hand and the way it leaks into the IRC and just takes over bothers me.

 

[Warrior]

I hate how people who buy bell comissions treat their "hard earned bells" like its real money, like hell if someone does a bell commission for you they're still pretty much doing it for free, can bells buy food that you can actually eat? that said it also annoys me when people with low quality art try charging irl money on the forums

Also it annoys me when someone comes into a thread and posts their own opinion on pretty much Every Single Post, like yeah man thanks for your opinion its completely unwanted and you didn't even make the thread, Well Done.

 

[Alice]

I hate how people who buy bell comissions treat their "hard earned bells" like its real money, like hell if someone does a bell commission for you they're still pretty much doing it for free, can bells buy food that you can actually eat? that said it also annoys me when people with low quality art try charging irl money on the forums

Also it annoys me when someone comes into a thread and posts their own opinion on pretty much Every Single Post, like yeah man thanks for your opinion its completely unwanted and you didn't even make the thread, Well Done.

hey, i work hard for my bells. ;-;

but yeah, I don't treat them like real money. It's just a fun little thing.

 

[pokecrysis]

I hate it when people don't close the door to my room o_0