that's just what u see more of cuz young kids dont rlly go on forums and twitter, plus we're talking about Japan mainly. the same argument is always used for pokemon too, and the same reasoning applies for that franchise as well.
and ya i was talking specifically about villagers calling u ugly and stuff, not about them being grumpy, cuz lots of people want that back but its straight up toxic and shouldnt be in a cute childrens game with animal neighbours.
that being said i do miss WW dialogue, but NH seems a LOT better than NL in my eyes