HELLO I AM HERE TO TALK ABOUT THE HYMEN I mean usually curiosity teaches kids most of what they know about sex but this is something that just doesn't come up as much
With the most important being: your first (if you are female) time does not have to hurt.
The hymen is a thin membrane that most girls are born with; it wears down over time due to everyday activities like biking or even just walking, and breaks during penetration. It's sort of a traditional way of constituting the idea of virginity, but that's a little old fashioned because:
1.) doesn't have to be a penis to break it
2.) some girls will feel the breakage less or more than others. Bleeding should vary as well but in no way should it hit period levels. They used to kill girls back in the day if they didn't bleed the first wedded time, hah
3.) make sure you are like niagra falls before something enters you. This means foreplay, a lot of it. If you're a male reading this, that's your job in the situation man.
4.) if you don't feel ready, even if it's like right at the moment, do not feel pressured to keep going. Ask your partner to stop. If they value their own pleasure above your pain they're not worth having sex with fyi
5.) if you're afraid of it hurting too much or suspect it will hurt more for you, ask your doctor. They can give you things to insert over time that gradually make it easier.
6.) relax. If your muscles are tense, it'll probably hurt.
7.) figure out how you can be most comfortably entered beforehand.
8.) this I'm unsure about, but I believe the hymen can regenerate? In any case, your vagina moves back to how it was like teeth. So I say have sex when you're prepared to be sexually active for a while.
Most of TBT is preteen to teen right? So lastly I just wanted to say don't feel pressured to have sex, ever. Don't be afraid to discuss it though. Sex is more funny than anything imo, don't put yourself in a situation where it becomes a negative thing for you.
