I ended up staying in this homeless shelter. I won't mention the specific shelter. The females were treated so much better than the males in the shelter. I'm AFAB, so I experienced the female side of things. Women had their own rooms, granted they were just like any shelter. There were three bunk beds with very thin sheets, and about three to four women were assigned to each room.
The females all had a chance to participate in this drawing each week where they had a chance to stay in a nice bedroom with comfortable sheets without having roommates. I ended up winning, somehow, but I turned it down since I had to go back to Pennsylvania (my place of birth).
The males had to sleep on the floor in a room with the other males. The misogyny was obvious, at least in this specific shelter. I personally wasn't a fan of how males were treated here. I managed to talk to one of the males there, and he told me about how obvious the favoritism of women was.
In addition to this, I applied for several entry level jobs in different categories (food industry, retail, warehouse, and call centers) in Fresno, and was only called back for one within a 90-day period.The senior project was ongoing throughout the year. The one job that called me back was Wendy's (food industry). I made a point to apply to three jobs in each of the four categories listed above. This means twelve total jobs were applied for all on the same day in Fresno. I was applying entry level for all of these jobs. The few locals that I spoke with while I was there told me about how their kids have been looking for jobs and couldn't find any.
Keep in mind this was in 2015-2016, my senior year of high school. I had this trip approved by staff towards the end of my senior year to round out my senior project. That made me 18 years old at the time, a legal adult.
I wanted to touch on this topic as somebody who has Been Homeless and stayed in a shelter for approximately 2 months.
It's a really hard environment to navigate. I was staying in a Family Friendly Shelter so it was co-ed as well and I'm wondering if maybe the shelter you stayed in was taking on more people than they had rooms to accommodate. Our shelter was able to give everyone a room and then they had to turn people away to avoid having anyone sleeping on the open floor.
Please note with "giving everyone a room" that doesn't equate to everyone having a bed. It was moreso about having the boundary and safeguard of the door to separate each other.
If the shelter had to resort to letting people sleep out in the open it makes sense that women and children would get first priority for the closed off safer rooms, even if it feels unfair. The rate of sexual assault that women face vs men especially in a highly stressful situation I can see why they made that choice.
The draw for the fancy room is definitely odd though.