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maybe, but if you do something as foolish like this then idk. this wasn't a weird glitch, this was their own mistake. why do you think you can have 2 copies of a town lmao

the fact they worded it just kinda bugged me. if this was more serious and irl then i would understand why theyre asking for help. but yeah whatever.

the most i give people is bells. i dont really have anything interesting anyway

Well atleast it's something that can be helpful in the game.

I can see where people are coming from when I ask them about it and we talk about it.

@Zanessa: I was curious about the person's new town too.
 
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maybe, but if you do something as foolish like this then idk. this wasn't a weird glitch, this was their own mistake. why do you think you can have 2 copies of a town lmao

the fact they worded it just kinda bugged me. if this was more serious and irl then i would understand why theyre asking for help. but yeah whatever.

the most i give people is bells. i dont really have anything interesting anyway
Yup.

But you guys dont have to rub it on his face saying "oh i was about to help you but nvm". Kinda rude imo.
 
Yup.

But you guys dont have to rub it on his face saying "oh i was about to help you but nvm". Kinda rude imo.

I mean, I did say I can't help anyways.

- - - Post Merge - - -

Unless they TT, they probably don't have much progress.

I meant things like their new villagers or if they've found a good layout or something. Others did it before, and it kinda showed me that they're recovering from their loss.
 
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@Zanessa: So you wanted to help but you didn't have the means (bells/flowers/fruits) to help at the time.
Than you read the other part where they asked for aid.
Am I getting that right?
 
What rubbed me the wrong way, personally, was the implication that they knew offers of help would come pouring into the thread, and ushered them in with a "I will take any Bells people will offer!"

It's like someone sending out wedding invitations with "cash gifts are welcome!" written inside, or a baby shower invitation that adds "pink gift items only, thank you!" Some people might do it, but it's widely considered to be pretty rude.
It might seem silly, because there is mutual knowledge between the sender and the recipient (in the invitation example's case) that a gift will be given. So why is it rude to specify what you'd like, given that both parties know a gift will inevitably be exchanged?

That's the thing about etiquette, it's often very subjective and it's very hard to get everyone to agree on it. Obviously not everyone was bothered by the OP's demeanor, and like Miss Renee pointed out, the OP is likely very young.

Pointing out that we weren't going to help after being put off by the OP's demeanor, in my case, was meant to be chastising. I'm hoping the OP learns something about graciously accepting charity by receiving a few rebukes from fellow forum members.
I knew better than to so expectantly usher in acts of charity even at a young age, but that's neither here nor there.
 
What rubbed me the wrong way, personally, was the implication that they knew offers of help would come pouring into the thread, and ushered them in with a "I will take any Bells people will offer!"

It's like someone sending out wedding invitations with "cash gifts are welcome!" written inside, or a baby shower invitation that adds "pink gift items only, thank you!" Some people might do it, but it's widely considered to be pretty rude.
It might seem silly, because there is mutual knowledge between the sender and the recipient (in the invitation example's case) that a gift will be given. So why is it rude to specify what you'd like, given that both parties know a gift will inevitably be exchanged?

That's the thing about etiquette, it's often very subjective and it's very hard to get everyone to agree on it. Obviously not everyone was bothered by the OP's demeanor, and like Miss Renee pointed out, the OP is likely very young.

Pointing out that we weren't going to help after being put off by the OP's demeanor, in my case, was meant to be chastising. I'm hoping the OP learns something about graciously accepting charity by receiving a few rebukes from fellow forum members.
I knew better than to so expectantly usher in acts of charity even at a young age, but that's neither here nor there.

I can see how that might bother people now. I tend to not get bothered by things like that.
Though I tend not to notice things very quickly either. Anyway, I'm done putting stuff in here since the issue has been resolved now.
 
What rubbed me the wrong way, personally, was the implication that they knew offers of help would come pouring into the thread, and ushered them in with a "I will take any Bells people will offer!"

It's like someone sending out wedding invitations with "cash gifts are welcome!" written inside, or a baby shower invitation that adds "pink gift items only, thank you!" Some people might do it, but it's widely considered to be pretty rude.
It might seem silly, because there is mutual knowledge between the sender and the recipient (in the invitation example's case) that a gift will be given. So why is it rude to specify what you'd like, given that both parties know a gift will inevitably be exchanged?

That's the thing about etiquette, it's often very subjective and it's very hard to get everyone to agree on it. Obviously not everyone was bothered by the OP's demeanor, and like Miss Renee pointed out, the OP is likely very young.

Pointing out that we weren't going to help after being put off by the OP's demeanor, in my case, was meant to be chastising. I'm hoping the OP learns something about graciously accepting charity by receiving a few rebukes from fellow forum members.
I knew better than to so expectantly usher in acts of charity even at a young age, but that's neither here nor there.
basically my thoughts but you explained them better lmao

but yeah. they knew they would get help so theyre like oh yeah its okay !! but ? now that just got them none (except like 1m bells) lmao
 
@Zanessa: So you wanted to help but you didn't have the means (bells/flowers/fruits) to help at the time.
Than you read the other part where they asked for aid.
Am I getting that right?

Partly.
I would've helped if they didn't ask, but I couldn't help even if they didn't ask. I would've wanted to, but I wouldn't be able to. Make sense?
 
What rubbed me the wrong way, personally, was the implication that they knew offers of help would come pouring into the thread, and ushered them in with a "I will take any Bells people will offer!"

It's like someone sending out wedding invitations with "cash gifts are welcome!" written inside, or a baby shower invitation that adds "pink gift items only, thank you!" Some people might do it, but it's widely considered to be pretty rude.
It might seem silly, because there is mutual knowledge between the sender and the recipient (in the invitation example's case) that a gift will be given. So why is it rude to specify what you'd like, given that both parties know a gift will inevitably be exchanged?

That's the thing about etiquette, it's often very subjective and it's very hard to get everyone to agree on it. Obviously not everyone was bothered by the OP's demeanor, and like Miss Renee pointed out, the OP is likely very young.

Pointing out that we weren't going to help after being put off by the OP's demeanor, in my case, was meant to be chastising. I'm hoping the OP learns something about graciously accepting charity by receiving a few rebukes from fellow forum members.
I knew better than to so expectantly usher in acts of charity even at a young age, but that's neither here nor there.

Those examples were A+. The wording was A+. This post is A+.

I'm done here. If you want to continue this discussion, PM me.
 
My offer still stands, PuffleKirby :D I know how it is to lose your town and how frustrating it is. I can help with bells, fruits and possibly villages from my cycling town.
 
I definitely would have helped them if they didn't ask, but they just sound greedy now.
 
Trying to understand how you guys want things around here :/ I've seen plenty of threads with people asking, but with no reactions like these. I still think PuffleKirby asked politely. I know it's an opinion thing, but why choose the way that makes yourself and others upset ;w; and it only escalates further.

Haha I should probably just get off the internet. Don't get me wrong though. I think this forum is lovely. Guess that's why I get surprised to see this.
 
Trying to understand how you guys want things around here :/ I've seen plenty of threads with people asking, but with no reactions like these. I still think PuffleKirby asked politely. I know it's an opinion thing, but why choose the way that makes yourself and others upset ;w; and it only escalates further.

Haha I should probably just get off the internet. Don't get me wrong though. I think this forum is lovely. Guess that's why I get surprised to see this.

Im surprised too, maybe i just dont mind etiquette idk.
 
question; how do you create 2 towns with a physical copy?
I've googled but can't find anything. Can anyone link me an article or video?
 
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