Is it normal...

[Piyoko]

I don't know if you could call my relationship "normal", but my GF and I actually have a lot of fun talking about people and characters we find attractive and are infatuated with. Why should we be ashamed of other people's hotnesses? XD We actually find it interesting to learn what each other finds attractive.

I think you should evaluate your feelings and actions with the questions, "Who am I hurting? How am I hurting them? Am I being dishonest, am I betraying anyone's trust?" I think that's more helpful and healthier than basing yourself on the ever-shifting confines of "normality". You know what used to be normal? Feudalism, vassalage, and the idea that monarchs unaccountable to anyone on earth because of their "divinity". Very useful idea to the monarchies, haha.

 

[tae]

...to feel attracted to someone, even if you're already in a committed relationship? I would never leave my significant other, not for anything. But I really feel bad about being attracted to someone else. I just want to know if this is normal or not.

You'll have to forgive my niavetee, (don't mind my spelling), in this situation, I just haven't had too good of relationships before, and I really love my current partner. He's everything I could have wished for. I just don't know if this is something normal or not.

to clear things up a little, are you attracted to them physically? like you want to be around them intimately? because that's a red flag as far as things go if you're in a committed relationship.

but if you have someone visually appealing and what not, but have no desire to know them intimately, i don't see the harm?
i'm fully committed to my boyfriend, but i find many many people on this planet incredibly appealing to look at / talk to- but i don't feel any connection towards them for intimacy and he knows that.

there isn't any harm in finding someone else attractive, so long as it's just that and not something you want to pursue.

 

[Bowie]

David Tennant is 43, straight, married with kids and I know I'll still be in love with him when I'm 78, trying to convince my husband to wear pink for once in his life.