How do you feel about people coming over uninvited?

[strawberrywine]

no one comes over to my house let alone know where I live so like it would be a miracle for a friend to come

 

[Lassy]

I hate when my roommates invites people, and I just have almost a heart attack when I see random people sleeping in the living room.....

 

[0ni]

It depends but mostly it annoys me. At home i'm likely to be in my pyjamas getting ready to chill out. The other alternative is that I am getting ready to head out and my plans are then put on hold until they decide to leave. I especially hate it the latter.

 

[sock]

Depends who it is. If it's someone who regularly sees me in my PJs, such as my friend who lives down the road and anyone who sees me while I'm walking to her house in my PJs (yes, it has happened), then it's fine. Anyone else, nope.

 

[ZetaFunction]

I hate it. No one ever does it to me, but when they do, it makes me wonder if the door bell stopped working. Seriously, there's this thing called a doorbell, or better yet, knocking; learn to use it.

 

[Alienfish]

Annoying. Like call the day before or in the morning PLEASE if you want to do something.

 

[pafupafu]

Oh no... no thanks...
Unless its a close friend or something, please don't. Its annoying and disruptive.

 

[DJStarstryker]

I don't open the door if I'm not expecting someone. 99% of the time, when someone knocks on my door and I'm not expecting it, it's a Jehovah's Witness or someone like that anyway.

 

[Alienfish]

I don't open the door if I'm not expecting someone. 99% of the time, when someone knocks on my door and I'm not expecting it, it's a Jehovah's Witness or someone like that anyway.

this or random people who wants to sell apartments or the tv guys um go away

 

[crystalmilktea]

It's never happened to me, but if it did I'd hate it.

 

[oath2order]

Nobody comes to my house

 

[Soot Sprite]

I actually lost a friend because she kept coming over uninvited-.- I personally like my space so I don't invite people over to my house to begin with, but I had been friends with her for a long time so I was ok with her coming over, but she abused the privilege Dx or I would say no to hanging out with her and she would come over anyway and make me go with her... One day it just pushed me too far and we haven't spoken really since;~;

 

[Alienfish]

Nobody comes to my house

shush be happy lol :/

 

[Stalfos]

Get off mah property! *BANG!*

 

[nintendofan85]

I find it annoying unless it's family, friends, or people from my church.

 

[pearly19]

haha people have never come over uninvited so im fortunate. However, good question to think about when I family have my own place (which is soon) and perhaps my own family (later). Im not sure why people would ever come un invited since it can cause a great inconvenience, even if its family/ Thanks for making this post, good to read all responses.

This is my preference and what I would do . .

Unless it's an absolute emergency, I will ask and let everyone I become acquainted
with for them to ask ahead of time if they can drop by.
I would never let them come over at night unless it is to comfort my very close friend.
I always wear a pajama set so I guess I dont get too embarrassed if someone does
happen to come over at night.
I always wear presentable clothes and matched set (home clothes, comfy clothes,
casual clothes etc) so I dont really worry that someone will
catch me dressed in a inappropriate or unusual wear.
I would ask they do not bring food unless they tell me before hand and
I approve. Most likely, I do not invite people to let them eat
in my house. I will invite them make and eat meals with them
if they are close with me!
If they come to my house, they should respect the house rules. I really dont like it
when people dont bother to take their shoes off or ask if they can
wear their shoes.