Good and Bad Things About Having You as a Friend?

[DarkDesertFox]

What are some good qualities you have as a friend to others, but also some quirks or bad qualities that you may have as well? This isn't a thread meant for me seeking friends on here. This is just listing qualities you have noticed about yourself in current/past friendships. Although, if you want to befriend someone in this thread by all means message them. For me mine are:

Good

- I will try to make you laugh.
- I'll listen when you have a problem and give advice if you ask for it.
- I'm generally a laid back person.
- I love art so if you're an artist I always enjoy seeing your work.

Bad

- I can be bad at responding to messages or messaging in general because I feel like a bother.
- Sometimes I don't word things right and it may accidentally offend you.
- I'm pretty sensitive so certain things you may not see as a big deal may have hurt me.

 

[focus]

Good:
im a very good listener.
i love memes
we can suggest music to each other everyday ((

Bad:
if you take jokes seriously then idk what to tell you
i NEVER sugarcoat anything. ever.
i will stop talking to you for 10 years and act like i forgot my phone at my friend's house loool

 

[Celestefey]

Good:
I'm very loyal; my closest friends I've known for several years now or practically most of my life. I never give up on people and I suppose when I can form a very close bond with someone, I guarantee we'll be friends for a long long time.
I'd like to think I'm funny, or at least fun to be around. I know how to make my friends laugh. But maybe that's because they laugh easily. I laugh easily too.
I'm good at keeping secrets and I'm a good listener, so I suppose people aren't afraid to approach me if they need to get something off of their chest and are afraid that people may find out or judge them.

Bad:
I'm shy/quiet so it can be hard to actually befriend me. I do try to be friendly and approachable... I can talk to people, but it never really progresses past that unless me and that said person just seem to have this connection...
I will fall asleep first at any sleepover.

 

[Acruoxil]

Good: I'm perfect

Bad: My puns are gonna annoy the hell out of you

 

[Aronthaer]

Good:

-I'll respect you and love you for who you are

Bad:

-Very depressed all of the time
-constantly putting myself down
-I suck
-I'll probably want you to join my fandoms
-I'm ugly
-You'll be less popular, if only because you'll be seen near me
-I'm going to need cheering up 80% of the times you talk to me
-I NEVER STOP TALKING

 

[Alienfish]

Good:

If you like music and movies as much as I do... come on over and we can have dank weed all night.
I have a really bad sense of humor so I laugh at stupid lemon pictures 24*7
I will be very loyal to you unless you're an ass to me then I will ditch you instantly pretty much
I don't care about your gender, sexuality etc. I'll just like you for who you are
I love discussions about stuff and I can talk for hours if something catches my interest

Bad:

Please don't ask to meet my parents or anything just don't.
I have very.. special music and movie taste so don't even try dragging me to some stupid romcom just like that or force me to listen to crappy stuff you know I don't like
Don't be cheesy and romantic like texting me all night or bring roses or crap if you want something lol
Don't get romantically involved with me, just don't. I mean I don't mind making out or woohoo but.. yeah get the point.
I can be pretty shy around new people and especially if I know I won't like 'em so yeah.
I hate. small. talk. Don't try it with me

 

[boujee]

Bad:
I'm not good with small talk.
I don't talk much.
I can be temperamental, I can come off hard-headed, blunt, conceited, but mostly a btch.
I'm mean.
I'm always bored.


Good:
I'm a work in progress.
I'll put you first before myself, which should be bad but also good because I'm more concerned about myself than you. Got a shtty bf/gf? I'll fight em. Having money problems? I'll send you a loan. Need some advice? Get ready for a story. Need someone to vent to? I'm all ears. I'm quite motherly.
I'm very loyal.
I keep it 100.
Tough love.
I love to laugh! I'm not good at making others laugh but I'll laugh anything really.
We need to go places. I hate being in the house.
Platonic kisses and hugs.

 

[himeki]

good: nothing
bad: everything

 

[strawberrywine]

Good - ?
Bad - Once you get to know I'm a total nut/******* and I'll prob say the most stupid **** to you all the time

 

[Derpykat]

Good~:
• I'm loyal and will always stand up for my friends.
• I'm funny and will attempt to lighten my friends up if they're in a bad mood.
• I listen to any problems they have and try to fix them just so I can see them smile again.
• I'm trash. My friends are trash too.
• I'm always that one person that takes my friends out somewhere and pay for them, even if they don't invite me anywhere.
• If my friends invite me somewhere, I always go, unless my parents tell me no.

Bad~:
• I ignore my friends on Skype most of the time, just because I don't want to talk.
• I can be mean while telling jokes sometimes without me noticing.
• I'm straight up. If I think something about my friends, I say it to them so it doesn't annoy me anymore. (e.g, stop being so cringy is what I say to my best friend.)
• I get angry easily.

 

[Bowie]

Good:

I'm quite an obsessive person, and if you're into the same things as I am, chances are I'll talk to you for hours on end about them.

I'd like to think I'm a pretty good listener.

Huge music fan. We could talk about music forever.

I play a lot of video games. We could never be bored.

We could be heroes.

Bad:

A guilty pleasure of mine is self-pity.

I will talk about David Bowie at least once every single day.

I will aggressively send you pictures of Lady Gaga.

I don't have many friends, so what you see is all you're gonna get, to be honest.

I will send you gay porn (possibly a good thing).

I will show you lots of clothes I want to buy.

 

[visibleghost]

good
i think i can b pretty nice
i try my best to be a good friend and listen to ppl

bad
im really bad at understanding social stuff bec im autistic af
i can b kind of mean
sometimes i ignore ppl on purpose because i am too tired to speak to anyone

 

[Aronthaer]

good: nothing
bad: everything

Yo, you're Nohrian Scum. that's a plus. Anyone who likes Fates can be my friend as long as they're not stupid, and that's not something I've seen you be haha

 

[ShinyYoshi]

This is an interesting thread

Bad:
-I get annoyed super easily
-I hold grudges like nobodies business
-I'm terrible at remembering to message/call back
-If you piss me off, I'll just drop you and not tell you why. I need to work on it.

Good:
-I'm always cracking jokes and trying to make people laugh and down to have fun
-I'll always be honest with you 100% and secrets stay with me until I die
-I'm that person you can call at 4 am when you need help and I won't even ask what you need, I'll get there
-Wanna go eat somewhere? Hit me up, I'm always down to go get food
-I'm a really good listener and giving my honest advice is something I think is pretty valuable considering how most people these days just want to hear themselves speak 24/7 (aka my old roommate)

I can be annoying, but all in all, I think I'm a good friend to have.

 

[Gregriii]

Good:
You have ME as a friend. ME.

Bad:
You will hate my jokes and I'll be annoying and cringy tbh

 

[tobi!]

Good: I listen.

Bad: I might forget to talk to you for four or five weeks.

 

[timecapsule]

good:

I sometimes can spark up interesting conversation topics
I love making jokes and am pretty good at it (sometimes lol)
I generally try to be a good person

bad:

I'm super obsessive, like if you ever were to msg me on here I'd be thinking about it all day

I say stupid things sometimes and I always get awkward afterwards

I can be ridiculously awkward if you throw me into a large social situation (like one time I went to my old friends party and I just felt so awkward being surrounded with 20 people I didn't know)

I'm kind of out of the loop on lots of things, I don't usually know what some acronyms (I can't remember the word rn but it's not acronyms) mean right off the bat

I can sometimes be a total jerk and not realize it til after

I can't start a conversation with people at all, like I got someones number but I'm too afraid to actually try to talk to them, so you're gonna have to be the one doing that

 

[himeki]

Yo, you're Nohrian Scum. that's a plus. Anyone who likes Fates can be my friend as long as they're not stupid, and that's not something I've seen you be haha

lol you haven't seen me when i talk to my friends

 

[Zane]

Bad:

-i'm a poor conversationalist, even when it's a topic 100% relevant to my interest I either don't say enough or ramble on for 10000 years about some dumb **** until ur bored

-related to this i also take a lifetime to respond to texts or online msgs

-emotionally inept

-i'm only funny sometimes ;'/

Good:

-I try my best

-I never take out my problems on other people

-I'm v low maintenance

-you will get many gifts b/c that's how i express my affection

-I have a Nintendo 64

 

[seliph]

Good:
- Will fight for you
- Won't let anyone touch you whether physically or emotionally
- Will buy you things if you live close
- Will draw for you maybe
- Not afraid to put you in your place when you're being ridiculous
- Hilarious
- Good listener
- Trustworthy and loyal as hell, even if I hate you after I wouldn't share your secrets unless you're like literally Satan
- I don't hold grudges
- Has cute dogs
- Is also cute

Bad:
- Not really good at conversations at all and am never the first person to talk
- My mood/personality can change very easily and very fast
- Might accidentally be offensive 'cause sometimes I genuinely cannot tell if I'm being vicious
- I don't sugar coat things
- If you're fishing for something I can tell and I will not bite. Ever.
- If you have the same problem 500 times but haven't taken mine or anyone else's advice and instead make excuses not to I'll notice and probably be fed up and not help you with that anymore bc
- I'm generally impatient, unless you're doing something for me then I can wait years
- I get infatuated VERY EASILY and might become very anxious around you if you show me more than 2 ounces of respect (only applicable if you're like 20+)
- Will never shut up about Metal Gear