That Zephyr Guy
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Hi I'm Zeph
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Oops I'm still Zeph
Hi I'm Zeph
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Oops I'm still Zeph
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Good and Bad Things About Having You as a Friend?
- Thread starter DarkDesertFox
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Good: I'm brutally honest, and won't lie to save your feelings (though I do know how to say difficult things tactfully). I'll correct your grammar (which could also be a bad thing if you're the over-sensitive type). I give good, reasonable advice. I'll notice when you get your hair cut, even if it's only an inch. If you need a pet-sitter, I'll do it, and I'll spoil your animals the whole time you're gone xD
Bad: I won't take your side if you're wrong. I won't do things I hate doing because you think they're fun. I'm anti-social sometimes and just don't feel like talking to people 24/7. I don't always text/call people back. If you do things I think are annoying, I'm gonna tell you you're being annoying.
Bad: I won't take your side if you're wrong. I won't do things I hate doing because you think they're fun. I'm anti-social sometimes and just don't feel like talking to people 24/7. I don't always text/call people back. If you do things I think are annoying, I'm gonna tell you you're being annoying.
- i love giving advice if you need help
- i don't mind being a btch to people if someone is bothering you
- i don't care if we do weird sht like ass slapping each other or whatever. as long as it doesnt go over the line, i'm good
- i'm into games and anime and i have been for as long as i can remember, so chances are, if you're into a certain game, i have it as well so we can play together. as for anime, i can go on about it for hours
bad:
- i get ticked pretty easy and the grudges i hold can last for up to two years
- whenever i'm ticked or depressed, i get passive aggressive, which can get annoying
- i barely reply to texts just because i dont want to deal with having to carry on a consistent conversation. but of course, it depends on my liking to you and how much i enjoy chatting
- i have a disturbing imagination and i share the sht that goes on in my mind a lot
- i don't mind being a btch to people if someone is bothering you
- i don't care if we do weird sht like ass slapping each other or whatever. as long as it doesnt go over the line, i'm good
- i'm into games and anime and i have been for as long as i can remember, so chances are, if you're into a certain game, i have it as well so we can play together. as for anime, i can go on about it for hours
bad:
- i get ticked pretty easy and the grudges i hold can last for up to two years
- whenever i'm ticked or depressed, i get passive aggressive, which can get annoying
- i barely reply to texts just because i dont want to deal with having to carry on a consistent conversation. but of course, it depends on my liking to you and how much i enjoy chatting
- i have a disturbing imagination and i share the sht that goes on in my mind a lot
brownboy102
Don't Need Words
Good: I give good advice. Sometimes, that is.
I can take you seriously when you want me too.
I'll listen to your opinion.
I'll gladly help you with homework.
I'm good at keeping secrets most of the time.
I'm loyal.
I can be funny once in a while.
Bad: I'm very opinionated.
I can be a hypocrite and I can be arrogant.
I won't let you in right away.
I don't like leaving the house for parties and such.
I can't defend you if your opinion is wrong. It's like someone is trying to prove that 9 + 10 = 21. I won't side with you without the truth.
I can't back you up in a fight.
I'm annoyed very easily.
If you do something to hurt someone or something, I'm not gonna help you out of it.
Don't expect me to do something for you without reason.
I don't let go of things easily.
I'm one to start **** without realizing it.
I can take you seriously when you want me too.
I'll listen to your opinion.
I'll gladly help you with homework.
I'm good at keeping secrets most of the time.
I'm loyal.
I can be funny once in a while.
Bad: I'm very opinionated.
I can be a hypocrite and I can be arrogant.
I won't let you in right away.
I don't like leaving the house for parties and such.
I can't defend you if your opinion is wrong. It's like someone is trying to prove that 9 + 10 = 21. I won't side with you without the truth.
I can't back you up in a fight.
I'm annoyed very easily.
If you do something to hurt someone or something, I'm not gonna help you out of it.
Don't expect me to do something for you without reason.
I don't let go of things easily.
I'm one to start **** without realizing it.
Spongeygirl14
Senior Member
Pros of having me as a friend: You will get undying loyalty, honesty, care and mental defense. I will listen and support you in your darkest time. You can talk to me about anything!
Cons of having me as a friend: I am brutally honest. I will either tell you straight up what's going on or I will try my best to hide my true thoughts/feelings from if it may cause you pain. I'm also very hedonistic and will encourage you to get whatever makes you happy, like food, manga, figurines, etc. I'm not the best person to go out eating with because I'll tell you to either get the fattest option or the most expensive (I'm a very pleasurable person!).
Cons of having me as a friend: I am brutally honest. I will either tell you straight up what's going on or I will try my best to hide my true thoughts/feelings from if it may cause you pain. I'm also very hedonistic and will encourage you to get whatever makes you happy, like food, manga, figurines, etc. I'm not the best person to go out eating with because I'll tell you to either get the fattest option or the most expensive (I'm a very pleasurable person!).
SlipStitch626
PDT (GMT -7)
Good:
Once you have my trust I will stand up for you. I will also buy you or your kids things for no reason other than I feel like it.
Bad:
Really dry sense of humor so it's hard to tell if you've offended me or not.
Once you have my trust I will stand up for you. I will also buy you or your kids things for no reason other than I feel like it.
Bad:
Really dry sense of humor so it's hard to tell if you've offended me or not.
Good:
I'm very loyal
I'm generally understanding and accepting
I'm that person you can come to and rant about any problem and I'll give advice, or ask for any favour and I'll do it
I reply to texts and messages instantly
Bad:
I'm VERY sensitive, it's not too difficult to offend me
I can get a little too attached sometimes
I'm not very interesting...like I'm probably not the kind of person you'd want to party with. Also I haven't seen very many movies so if you want to talk about movies you're outta luck
I'm pretty private so it takes awhile to actually get to know me at all
I'm very loyal
I'm generally understanding and accepting
I'm that person you can come to and rant about any problem and I'll give advice, or ask for any favour and I'll do it
I reply to texts and messages instantly
Bad:
I'm VERY sensitive, it's not too difficult to offend me
I can get a little too attached sometimes
I'm not very interesting...like I'm probably not the kind of person you'd want to party with. Also I haven't seen very many movies so if you want to talk about movies you're outta luck
I'm pretty private so it takes awhile to actually get to know me at all
pickle inkii.
BUT HOW CAN I DO THAT
Good:
A pretty decent sense of humor.
I'll listen to your problems.
I have pretty much nothing against any specific races, genders, sexualities, etc.
If we like the same games and comics and stuff, I will love and cherish you forever.
totally tubular
Bad:
Unless I know you really, really well, I can be pretty easily offended.
Sometimes I spaz about completely unrelated crap.
I like memes (could be good..?)
It'll take a bit for me to totally open up to you or even start a conversation.
A pretty decent sense of humor.
I'll listen to your problems.
I have pretty much nothing against any specific races, genders, sexualities, etc.
If we like the same games and comics and stuff, I will love and cherish you forever.
totally tubular
Bad:
Unless I know you really, really well, I can be pretty easily offended.
Sometimes I spaz about completely unrelated crap.
I like memes (could be good..?)
It'll take a bit for me to totally open up to you or even start a conversation.
ZebraQueen
i love my zebras
Positive
- I'm very sweet and kind
- always ready to help on the good things
- I protect my friends
- I like to share my food or sweets with friends
Bad
- if I get angry I hit
- I will defend the weak (friend bullies another person il defend that person and be against my friend unless it's for a reason I don't support violence)
- I'm to quiet in class because if I speak I stay there speaking
- I worried to much
-depressed a lot
- I'm very sweet and kind
- always ready to help on the good things
- I protect my friends
- I like to share my food or sweets with friends
Bad
- if I get angry I hit
- I will defend the weak (friend bullies another person il defend that person and be against my friend unless it's for a reason I don't support violence)
- I'm to quiet in class because if I speak I stay there speaking
- I worried to much
-depressed a lot
TheGreatBrain
Senior Member
Good.
I'm funny as heck.
I listen.
I'm helpful.
I care a lot.
Bad.
I hate talking on the phone.
It may be awhile before my friends hear from me.
I'm funny as heck.
I listen.
I'm helpful.
I care a lot.
Bad.
I hate talking on the phone.
It may be awhile before my friends hear from me.
Feels weird doing pros and cons of myself but I'll try to give it a go because why not. Most of these are observations from trying to look at current/past friendships from an ~outside standpoint.
Pros:
- Great listener/I pick up on little details.
- Unless you're doing something really tragic or messy I almost certainly won't judge you.
- I'm great at maintaining online or text relations for long distance friendships.
- I'm available at varied times due to my sleep schedule.
- I'm extremely open/accepting when it comes to things like sexuality, gender identity, and such.
Cons:
- I have mild to extreme issues with depression and anxiety at most given times. So I'm generally unwell/a mess.
- Due to above mentioned messiness, I might not have decent advice to give you if requested.
- I can rant/over share if you don't stop me.
- I don't like to go out very much and if I do sometimes I don't function very well if we do live close together.
Pros:
- Great listener/I pick up on little details.
- Unless you're doing something really tragic or messy I almost certainly won't judge you.
- I'm great at maintaining online or text relations for long distance friendships.
- I'm available at varied times due to my sleep schedule.
- I'm extremely open/accepting when it comes to things like sexuality, gender identity, and such.
Cons:
- I have mild to extreme issues with depression and anxiety at most given times. So I'm generally unwell/a mess.
- Due to above mentioned messiness, I might not have decent advice to give you if requested.
- I can rant/over share if you don't stop me.
- I don't like to go out very much and if I do sometimes I don't function very well if we do live close together.
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The good things about having me as a friend is that I will take the time to understand you, I'll listen, and help you out as much as I can. I won't judge you at all. I will be forever loyal and always be there for you. I can make you laugh when you are feeling down in the dumps.
The bad things is that I tend to go on rants if I'm annoyed or angry. If you screw me over you will never hear the end of it unless I am stopped by you or someone else.
I can either be your best friend or your worst nightmare. I can demonstrate that very well.
The bad things is that I tend to go on rants if I'm annoyed or angry. If you screw me over you will never hear the end of it unless I am stopped by you or someone else.
I can either be your best friend or your worst nightmare. I can demonstrate that very well.
Vintage Viola
So-called Representative🌸
Good:
- I love to please, so I'll help you in any way that I can.
- I like putting a smile on people's faces, so better believe I'll joke with you to make you laugh.
- I'm empathetic, and a good listener. I'd be there to lend an ear if you need to rant/vent.
- I'm an artist, I love drawing. So if you have art I'd love to see it!
Bad:
- I have a tendency to purposely ignore/avoid people (unless it's something dire).
- I don't particularly like social situations, try to force me in them when I'm clearly uncomfortable and we'll have a fast problem.
- I can be stubborn as a mule.
- Admittedly, I'm pretty sensitive. So if I get offended I get pretty heated.
I think I'm a very good/loyal friend, you don't want me to be your enemy. It would not be pretty.
- I love to please, so I'll help you in any way that I can.
- I like putting a smile on people's faces, so better believe I'll joke with you to make you laugh.
- I'm empathetic, and a good listener. I'd be there to lend an ear if you need to rant/vent.
- I'm an artist, I love drawing. So if you have art I'd love to see it!
Bad:
- I have a tendency to purposely ignore/avoid people (unless it's something dire).
- I don't particularly like social situations, try to force me in them when I'm clearly uncomfortable and we'll have a fast problem.
- I can be stubborn as a mule.
- Admittedly, I'm pretty sensitive. So if I get offended I get pretty heated.
I think I'm a very good/loyal friend, you don't want me to be your enemy. It would not be pretty.
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Good:
- I'm generally very nice and polite when you get to know me.
- I tend to get along with almost everybody, and I fit in with everyone in some way or another
- I'm accepting of anything and everything within reason, so long as it doesn't hurt me, and I try not to stereotype anyone until I get to know them
- I make gr8 memes outta selfies m8
- I tend to keep the friends I trust really close, and I've noticed they sometimes come to me for advice and someone to talk with when they're in a hard or difficult time
- I'm a grammar nazi
Bad:
- I'm brutally honest
- When I'm angry or irritated you'll know the true definition of 'roasting', 'shade', and 'salt' so you pretty much have to avoid me when I'm sick or upset or I'll make you butthurt
- I have a bad habit of not responding to people's messages, especially texts
- I have a bad, dry but dark humor
- I have a bad habit of saying the wrong thing at the worst time and this makes a lot of people butthurt
- I overreact to certain things sometimes
- I do stupid af things sometimes
- I've had enough fake friends and have been friendzoned enough to be shy and reserved around people I don't trust, but once I trust you I'll never shut up
- I'm generally very nice and polite when you get to know me.
- I tend to get along with almost everybody, and I fit in with everyone in some way or another
- I'm accepting of anything and everything within reason, so long as it doesn't hurt me, and I try not to stereotype anyone until I get to know them
- I make gr8 memes outta selfies m8
- I tend to keep the friends I trust really close, and I've noticed they sometimes come to me for advice and someone to talk with when they're in a hard or difficult time
- I'm a grammar nazi
Bad:
- I'm brutally honest
- When I'm angry or irritated you'll know the true definition of 'roasting', 'shade', and 'salt' so you pretty much have to avoid me when I'm sick or upset or I'll make you butthurt
- I have a bad habit of not responding to people's messages, especially texts
- I have a bad, dry but dark humor
- I have a bad habit of saying the wrong thing at the worst time and this makes a lot of people butthurt
- I overreact to certain things sometimes
- I do stupid af things sometimes
- I've had enough fake friends and have been friendzoned enough to be shy and reserved around people I don't trust, but once I trust you I'll never shut up
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Good:
-I'm a listener.
-I can probably make you laugh.
-I'll give you advice if you look like you could use some.
-Is pretty mellow half the time.
-Can be weird with you.
Bad:
-Will weird you out.
-I'll most likely annoy you in some way.
-Half my jokes are sexual innuendos.
-Half the time I'm loud and obnoxious.
-Lazy.
-Probably make you worry for my mental state.
-Quiet and shy.
-I'm a listener.
-I can probably make you laugh.
-I'll give you advice if you look like you could use some.
-Is pretty mellow half the time.
-Can be weird with you.
Bad:
-Will weird you out.
-I'll most likely annoy you in some way.
-Half my jokes are sexual innuendos.
-Half the time I'm loud and obnoxious.
-Lazy.
-Probably make you worry for my mental state.
-Quiet and shy.
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Good:
- i work at Pizza Hut and can get you food
- people i know irl like to come to me for advice and stuff idk why so i'm good at giving advice or just listening in general
- i'm a cool cat
Bad:
- will rarely start a conversation with you unless i know you well
- super anxious
- it's hard for me to get used to being around new people
- i work at Pizza Hut and can get you food
- people i know irl like to come to me for advice and stuff idk why so i'm good at giving advice or just listening in general
- i'm a cool cat
Bad:
- will rarely start a conversation with you unless i know you well
- super anxious
- it's hard for me to get used to being around new people
