Girl Problems for me

[Puckbean]

I'm not sure how I should be feeling about this.

well, I call her every night on the phone, but i feel like she's ignoring me, because i can hear her sister laughing and screaming in the background and i hear music playing, and my girlfriend is always laughing and talking to her sister. And i always feel like im interupting her fun or something like that. I just dont know if im taking this the wrong way. Maybe i should try having fun with her, but that might be hard since im just talking to her on the phone and shes talking to her sister.

some nights she will be up in her room where all she does is talk to me, because she's got nothing else to do up there, so there's not undivided attention going on. and we have a lot of fun on those nights.

Tonight I told her, "Hey I'm just gonna go" or something like that. She said, "is it because i'm not talking?" I told her "yeah kinda", then she said "ok ill talk", and right after she said that she started laughing at her sister. So i gave it another chance and still its the same.

so is she just being rude?
or am i wrong for feeling left out?

Another question... What the heck should I do about this? To fix it or someting.

 

[Deleted User]

Poor you...we kinda have the same problem...

 

[Clown Town]

I have no idea what your talking about... i would help if i knew WTF is going on... so dumb it down for me since im tired...

 

[fitzy]

Why don't you just meet up with her at daytime and just text her at night?

 

[rafren]

We have similar problem...

 

[Puckbean]

Well I just got her text message. She said shes sorry if it seemed like she was ignoring me. She wasnt trying to or anything, she just didnt know what to talk about.

but we have plenty to talk about when she's in her room.

 

[rafren]

Well I just got her text message. She said shes sorry if it seemed like she was ignoring me. She wasnt trying to or anything, she just didnt know what to talk about.

but we have plenty to talk about when she's in her room.

Yay!!! :gyroidsideways:

 

[Clown Town]

still confused

 

[Trent the Paladin]

still confused

Long story short: Guy felt like girlfriend was ignoring him, wanted to know what to do, girlfriend wasn't ignoring him, just didn't know what to talk about. End.

 

[merinda!]

talk to her
away from her sister
and away from everyone.
sit and talk organize something with her
like the movies
or something.
i dont know
have some fun.
and after you'll have heaps to talk about.

 

[melly]

1st off, don't call her every night, make ur time with her special
quality wins over quantitly

and like the others say, talk to her during the day cuase after school/or work, ppl just want to relax and have fun with thier family

so just try to understand and be forgiving :]

 

[Gallade526]

DUMP HER!

 

[tazaza]

I know how you feel. The best thing to do is to try think that she likes you and doesn't mind. Ot's hard but worth it cause you end up having a good time.

 

[Megamannt125]

1st off, don't call her every night, make ur time with her special
quality wins over quantitly

and like the others say, talk to her during the day cuase after school/or work, ppl just want to relax and have fun with thier family

so just try to understand and be forgiving :]

Well if I was him i'd see her/talk to her everyday rather than become a couple that rarely sees each other.

 

[DarthGohan1]

If she's busy why talk on the phone? Relationships where the people can't go 2 hours without talking to each other generally don't work out... there will be times she's doing something, and vice versa... that's life... you don't need to talk or be together every minute of every day. Go do something with your friends at night instead of being bored.

 

[Fabioisonfire]

... Let a master put in his two cents.

Okay, rule number one- NEVER get off the phone with a girl because she isn't talking and ESPECIALLY don't tell her the reason. They hate that, seriously.

Some people aren't great at talking on the phone (or texting, e-mail, IM) try hanging out with her in person.

 

[chubsterr]

Ive had something similar happen to me in the past.
In fact i can relate a lot but over time u learn to give each other space.

Don't worry about it man this is just a stepping stone in your relationship

 

[Fabioisonfire]

you don't need to talk or be together every minute of every day. Go do something with your friends at night instead of being bored.

This is actually good advice. Don't waste all your time on this chick, you'll regret it dearly in the future.

 

[Bulerias]

I'll put in a vote for "hang out in person" rather than talking on the phone... God knows how terrible I am at phone conversations, simply because I prefer face-to-face conversation.

 

[Megamannt125]

If she's busy why talk on the phone? Relationships where the people can't go 2 hours without talking to each other generally don't work out... there will be times she's doing something, and vice versa... that's life... you don't need to talk or be together every minute of every day. Go do something with your friends at night instead of being bored.

Girlfriends > Everything else.