Quoting limited to 4 levels deepcan't get married. Andrew and I are a perfect example. We'd get married right this second if we could, but because the country we live in is so *censored.3.0*ed up, it's not legal for us to get married in the state we live in. If we would have waited until marriage to have sex, then we'd be waiting for a long time. But we feel like, act like, and have the same vows as a married couple, so isn't that enough? To me, if you're both ready to spend the rest of your lives together, and you're truly in love, then sex is perfectly fine. If anything, it'll make your relationship even better. Of course, if you're a straight couple and not in the position to take care of kids, then you should be cautious and use protection until you're ready. (Luckily, I don't have to worry about that, lol.)
So, there. That's my opinion. If someone choses to wait until marriage, then you should respect their decision, not criticize them for it. But at the same side, people shouldn't be using the Bible to condemn people who have