Ever been hurt by a really good friend?

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So before Christmas, my friend was a really good friend. Whenever we'd talk, we'd talk for half an hour plus. I'm such an idiot for not seeing this. Everyone shed call, shed ask for help on homework. It wasn't like that in the begining. Anyways, nothing bad happened between us, but after vacation, she won't talk to me or answer a text or call. Not even a simple hi. And in school, 9 times out of 10, she'll completely ignore me.so she used me and led me on only to burn me. You know, deep inside, I think I kind of always knew. ;(

Any similar stories?
 
I'm kind of like that. One second I am close to someone, and the next I totally let the relationship crash and burn. Like as if I never knew that person.

Are you sure she was using you?

EDIT: I have been emotionally hurt by someone close to me.
It's not difficult to move on most of the time.
 
No, bros don't betray bros. They move or I move. I've never really hurt anyone emotionally.
 
A year ago exactly I lost my best friends due to a huge fight. People talked behind my back and spread lies about me that ruined our friendship. We still talk but our relationship isn't as close as it used to be.
 
bittermeat said:
I'm kind of like that. One second I am close to someone, and the next I totally let the relationship crash and burn. Like as if I never knew that person.

Are you sure she was using you?
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Not 100%. but she was just leading me on. Apparently, if I'm not like her or if I don't agree with her, I'm wrong.
 
Yea,
I told my buddy my deepest secret and the next day it was round the school,
It took me 2 years to stop it going round...
and i felt betrayed
 
Yes, many times... All of my past "best friends" always turned against me. They left me for another crowd, and treated me like I didn't even exist... Things are better now, but I'm still not as close to those people as I used to be. At least I have one person who I know will always stick with me. X3
 
Another example, a friend of mine is a real smart ass and he knows that I hate my body (I'm too fat IMO). So during class he makes a really bad fat joke about me and eveyone laughed. I was to the point of tears. I wanted to yell "eff you" and run out of the room. And just run from school. Got too much *censored.2.0* cause of my weight at my old school, not going through that again.
 
Yeah I have felt that a couple times, led me to be overprotective, and stopped getting close friends in most of high school cause of it. To be fair I did feel really bad about one time, because he was trying to do something nice for me I think.... he had tried to get me on a phone with a girl I had said I had liked... but that was because I honestly didn't want to feel left out and did end up being gay, soo I only saw the part where he put me in an extremely uncomfortable situation and I just hated him for it at the time.

A more relevant situation is when I pretty much got kicked out of a group of people I thought were friends... a couple of them just didn't have the spines to stand up for me against the "leader"of the group, and I still hate them for it. I never talked to the one guy, and the other two last time I really talked to them they were crying for their mommy at summer camp, god so long ago, but seeing them like that explained a ton to me at the time. Actually that really isn't that relevant the first was like middle school and the other is elementary school... neither seem like your case....

Anyway I say if you have someone who is only a friend in private, I wouldn't consider them that great of a friend at all.
 
Nah not really. I have had friendships that have fallen out, but not because of fights. Just because we just didn't see each in school a lot and just stopped hanging out/talking.

I avoid drama. I am NEVER in a fight which is pretty amazing because all my other friends are always having drama with other girls. I just never get mad at people, and therefore I don't have any enemies or people that dislike me.
 
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