I recently started to use Nookazon to look for a very specific DIY and I'm doing some trades on the meantime.
Some of these trades are what they call "touch trades" which is nothing but cataloguing with a price tag. I hadn't had any issue until yesterday. A player was listing an accessories stand for touch trade, and I offered her a kitchen island (which was on her wishlist). What happened was that the player tried to leave after taking both items -mine and hers- involved in the trade. I stopped her and she dropped my item without saying anything and just left. I was taken aback because her reviews were all positive, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt and thought that maybe she had forgotten it was a touch trade. Today morning she sent me a message telling me that she did not like the way things went yesterday and was basically asking me to give her the kitchen island since, to her understanding, the "touch" part was supposed to be honored only by me, the buyer. In all touch trades I had prior to this, the parties involved (I've been on both seller and buyer positions) only kept their respective items and then parted ways. Sometimes the players I'm trading with (perhaps because they see that I don't have many reviews) explicitly message me to remind me that we cannot keep each other's items. I'm confused because while this isn't stated clearly anywhere on Nookazon I thought it was common sense, but perhaps I'm in the wrong so I would really like to hear some of your experiences. Thank you!
Some of these trades are what they call "touch trades" which is nothing but cataloguing with a price tag. I hadn't had any issue until yesterday. A player was listing an accessories stand for touch trade, and I offered her a kitchen island (which was on her wishlist). What happened was that the player tried to leave after taking both items -mine and hers- involved in the trade. I stopped her and she dropped my item without saying anything and just left. I was taken aback because her reviews were all positive, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt and thought that maybe she had forgotten it was a touch trade. Today morning she sent me a message telling me that she did not like the way things went yesterday and was basically asking me to give her the kitchen island since, to her understanding, the "touch" part was supposed to be honored only by me, the buyer. In all touch trades I had prior to this, the parties involved (I've been on both seller and buyer positions) only kept their respective items and then parted ways. Sometimes the players I'm trading with (perhaps because they see that I don't have many reviews) explicitly message me to remind me that we cannot keep each other's items. I'm confused because while this isn't stated clearly anywhere on Nookazon I thought it was common sense, but perhaps I'm in the wrong so I would really like to hear some of your experiences. Thank you!