crakgenius said:
Okayyyyy... for anyone who asked Hollister's gender... did you not catch the part where this all took place in the locker room? I know schools are more progressive now than they were in my day... but I'm pretty sure the locker rooms aren't coed.
You know, Hollister, I've had a lot of female friends over the years who let me know they had a crush on me. It's okay to tell someone who likes you that you really just like them as a friend, and don't want to mess up anything in your friendship.
But, you know, it's up to him to say something. I mean, I suppose you could have asked him why he was looking at you like that... but that moment has passed. Maybe he wanted to know why you were wearing a sweater when it's warm out? Who knows. But, unless it happens again, you'll just have to assume it was nothing.
Yeah you make a pretty good point right there. The thing that really gets me is
how he stared.
Usually, I won't think twice about it because I don't get this kind of attention from other 'straight' guys in the locker room, but I'm sure it was more than "hmm I wonder if he gets hot wearing that shirt."
Maybe I'm over analyzing?
I've also had a dream about him (not sexual) a couple of months ago. I wonder why he is showing up in my subconscious psyche as well. =o