Does he like me?

Crashman said:
Tyeforce said:
hollisterx2 said:
Cheah you've made a good point Crash. I'm deathly afraid of rejecting people because I hate getting rejected myself... so unintentionally, I end up leading them on. =l

@Tye: I wasn't being sarcastic.
@Evil: It depends on the person really. From my experiences, I know it would be awkward.
@mirandi: I'm not too picky am I? ;)
What?! You're really gay?!
If that is the case, don't make such a big deal out of it.
It just doesn't add up. Whatever, no big surprise. Like, 50% of this forum is gay or bi. o.O
 
crakgenius said:
Okayyyyy... for anyone who asked Hollister's gender... did you not catch the part where this all took place in the locker room? I know schools are more progressive now than they were in my day... but I'm pretty sure the locker rooms aren't coed.

You know, Hollister, I've had a lot of female friends over the years who let me know they had a crush on me. It's okay to tell someone who likes you that you really just like them as a friend, and don't want to mess up anything in your friendship.
But, you know, it's up to him to say something. I mean, I suppose you could have asked him why he was looking at you like that... but that moment has passed. Maybe he wanted to know why you were wearing a sweater when it's warm out? Who knows. But, unless it happens again, you'll just have to assume it was nothing.
Yeah you make a pretty good point right there. The thing that really gets me is how he stared.

Usually, I won't think twice about it because I don't get this kind of attention from other 'straight' guys in the locker room, but I'm sure it was more than "hmm I wonder if he gets hot wearing that shirt."

Maybe I'm over analyzing?

I've also had a dream about him (not sexual) a couple of months ago. I wonder why he is showing up in my subconscious psyche as well. =o
 
hollisterx2 said:
crakgenius said:
Okayyyyy... for anyone who asked Hollister's gender... did you not catch the part where this all took place in the locker room? I know schools are more progressive now than they were in my day... but I'm pretty sure the locker rooms aren't coed.

You know, Hollister, I've had a lot of female friends over the years who let me know they had a crush on me. It's okay to tell someone who likes you that you really just like them as a friend, and don't want to mess up anything in your friendship.
But, you know, it's up to him to say something. I mean, I suppose you could have asked him why he was looking at you like that... but that moment has passed. Maybe he wanted to know why you were wearing a sweater when it's warm out? Who knows. But, unless it happens again, you'll just have to assume it was nothing.
Yeah you make a pretty good point right there. The thing that really gets me is how he stared.

Usually, I won't think twice about it because I don't get this kind of attention from other 'straight' guys in the locker room, but I'm sure it was more than "hmm I wonder if he gets hot wearing that shirt."

Maybe I'm over analyzing?

I've also had a dream about him (not sexual) a couple of months ago. I wonder why he is showing up in my subconscious psyche as well. =o
That happens if you think about him a lot, dreaming about people I mean.
 
Crashman said:
That happens if you think about him a lot, dreaming about people I mean.
Gahh but I don't even like him! And when I had the dream I wasn't even thinking about him the night before or anything!

>.<

There was a gap from the last semester until about a month ago where we didn't see each other for a while. Rarely we'd run into each other but now I see him almost every Tues and Thurs.

Shoot, I saw the dude today in the gym also for crying out loud. =P
 
hollisterx2 said:
Crashman said:
That happens if you think about him a lot, dreaming about people I mean.
Gahh but I don't even like him! And when I had the dream I wasn't even thinking about him the night before or anything!

>.<

There was a gap from the last semester until about a month ago where we didn't see each other for a while. Rarely we'd run into each other but now I see him almost every Tues and Thurs.

Shoot, I saw the dude today in the gym also for crying out loud. =P
That's really confusing, I don't know what to tell you, I hope everything works out good though.
 
hollisterx2 said:
Gahh but I don't even like him! And when I had the dream I wasn't even thinking about him the night before or anything!
Mabey you do like him, but your denieing all feelings towards him.
 
evilpancakes said:
hollisterx2 said:
Gahh but I don't even like him! And when I had the dream I wasn't even thinking about him the night before or anything!
Mabey you do like him, but your denieing all feelings towards him.
Nah I really don't like him. He's really not my type. I mean, he's cute but not what I'm going for. =P
 
hollisterx2 said:
evilpancakes said:
hollisterx2 said:
Gahh but I don't even like him! And when I had the dream I wasn't even thinking about him the night before or anything!
Mabey you do like him, but your denieing all feelings towards him.
Nah I really don't like him. He's really not my type. I mean, he's cute but not what I'm going for. =P
Well, if he likes you, give him a shot, like a week or two, if it doesnt work out, then just bef riends
 
evilpancakes said:
hollisterx2 said:
evilpancakes said:
hollisterx2 said:
Gahh but I don't even like him! And when I had the dream I wasn't even thinking about him the night before or anything!
Mabey you do like him, but your denieing all feelings towards him.
Nah I really don't like him. He's really not my type. I mean, he's cute but not what I'm going for. =P
Well, if he likes you, give him a shot, like a week or two, if it doesnt work out, then just bef riends
See the thing is, if I'm going to get into a relationship with somebody, I'd want to get to know him first as a person.

Become good friends and build a solid foundation with each other, so that when the storm comes, we won't fall apart.

But of course this won't be happening because he's not my type and I don't see him that way.

=r
 
i say just go for it, u might like him once u get to know him BETTER. but wat do i know, im 11. lol.
 
Kimmi2 said:
i say just go for it, u might like him once u get to know him BETTER. but wat do i know, im 11. lol.
Thanks for your input, but there is no physical attraction for him coming from me.

I don't know if that makes me a shallow person but I want physical attraction between the both of us.

Thank you anyways! ♥
 
Updates!

So, I found out that he's straight which is a relief and we've exchanged numbers and are going to be best friends! =P
 
hollisterx2 said:
Updates!

So, I found out that he's straight which is a relief and we've exchanged numbers and are going to be best friends! =P
If he was straight, what was with all the signals?
 
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