Dirty Secrets. Come confess here.

[Hulaette]

im not saying it's a bad thing, I'm just saying that it's one of the things u told tbt

I am aware of that. You seem quite hung up on that particular detail. Why is that?

 

[boujee]

All you know about me is that I'm a 25 year old mermaid that loves other mutantkind. When have ever preached further details about my life?

oOOHOOOHOHHOHOH 25 years old
25 years old
25 years old
25 years old
25 years old
25 years old
25 years old

that's good enough for me

 

[Hulaette]

oOOHOOOHOHHOHOH 25 years old
25 years old
25 years old
25 years old
25 years old
23 years old
25 years old

Uuh? I'm not sure how to respond to that comment. But I'll ask why you're spamming my age?

 

[boujee]

Uuh? I'm not sure how to respond to that comment. But I'll ask why you're spamming my age?

don't worry about it

 

[milkyi]

I am aware of that. You seem quite hung up on that particular detail. Why is that?

because you asked for something else that we know about your life

 

[Hulaette]

because you asked for something else that we know about your life

Ah, yes! I suppose I did.

 

[Fantasyrick]

I don't believe in humans.

Stop.

 

[N a t]

I always fall for or have crushes on my best male friends, but I only made a move for the first time, since I reached a more mature age, about a year ago and got shot down... Part of me still loves him and wants to be with him...

 

[N e s s]

I'm single

 

[skarmoury]

I always fall for or have crushes on my best male friends, but I only made a move for the first time, since I reached a more mature age, about a year ago and got shot down... Part of me still loves him and wants to be with him...

Guuurl, I've been there and done that, and the best advice I can give is try not falling in love with your best friend. Not that it's bad, but it's a kinda risky thing especially with people who feel awkward after being confessed to by someone close to them and such. It's happened thrice to me already, and every romantic relationship I tried making with my guy best friends failed. It's better off knowing your boundaries.

I had this really, really, really best (guy) friend since high school, and before, we'd do cheesy stuff and hang out often and it really felt like we were some sort of couple, to the point where we said we'd stick with each other until college. Long story short, he fell in love with someone else and the emotional stress of losing him to that girl (who was coincidentally a very close friend of mine) broke me so much, it took me so long to get over him. I constantly cried about him and we got into so many arguments because I clung on to him too much. For a long time, our friendship was so toxic and unhealthy because I was still hoping he'd choose me over his crush that I decided to give myself space away from him to truly compose myself and move on with my life.
I really don't want that to happen to you too, because the feeling sucks. It's better to accept that some friendships aren't meant to bloom into romantic ones.

Anyway, yeah, once I gave myself space and accepted things as they were, my friendship with that guy was rebuilt. We're in the same course in college so we're classmates in almost every subject. He already has a girlfriend which was the girl he had a crush on since high school, but I'm totally fine with our relationship as friends. It's like a great weight has been lifted. ; v;

 

[Murray]

Please try to stay on topic people. If you desire to complain about random things, I recommend the What's Bothering You? thread instead. Same rules apply here - if you reply to someone's post in a way that shows intent to start an argument, you'll likely end up with a warning/infraction, so try to keep this in mind.

Thanks

 

[Aronthaer]

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[Hermione Granger]

I have a porn addiction I'm trying soo hard to work through atm.

Deleting this comment in like six hours because other family members use this PC and if I get caught I'll die

this was just about your sister's best friend. what happened omg

 

[Aronthaer]

this was just about your sister's best friend. what happened omg

Lol, I realized that it was a pointless post and not really a "dirty secret," per se.

But yes, I tried to hook up my sister with a guy who was 5 years older than her. it... did not end well

 

[N a t]

Guuurl, I've been there and done that, and the best advice I can give is try not falling in love with your best friend. Not that it's bad, but it's a kinda risky thing especially with people who feel awkward after being confessed to by someone close to them and such. It's happened thrice to me already, and every romantic relationship I tried making with my guy best friends failed. It's better off knowing your boundaries.

I had this really, really, really best (guy) friend since high school, and before, we'd do cheesy stuff and hang out often and it really felt like we were some sort of couple, to the point where we said we'd stick with each other until college. Long story short, he fell in love with someone else and the emotional stress of losing him to that girl (who was coincidentally a very close friend of mine) broke me so much, it took me so long to get over him. I constantly cried about him and we got into so many arguments because I clung on to him too much. For a long time, our friendship was so toxic and unhealthy because I was still hoping he'd choose me over his crush that I decided to give myself space away from him to truly compose myself and move on with my life.
I really don't want that to happen to you too, because the feeling sucks. It's better to accept that some friendships aren't meant to bloom into romantic ones.

Anyway, yeah, once I gave myself space and accepted things as they were, my friendship with that guy was rebuilt. We're in the same course in college so we're classmates in almost every subject. He already has a girlfriend which was the girl he had a crush on since high school, but I'm totally fine with our relationship as friends. It's like a great weight has been lifted. ; v;

I mean, it's not nearly as bad as it was before for me ya know? I've accepted that he doesn't wanna be with me and all. I also tend to be an unspoken person though, so even if he goes and falls for someone else or something I wouldn't have to go through as much as you did. I think. I'd be quite sad for a while, but I usually find a way to cope with these things. Even if they aren't the best methods, but thanks alot for sharing. I'm sorry to hear what happened, but I promise that I'll use what you told me to better my own life and future relationships.

 

[seliph]

I have a porn addiction I'm trying soo hard to work through atm.

Deleting this comment in like six hours because other family members use this PC and if I get caught I'll die

contacting ur mom right now

 

[Aronthaer]

contacting ur mom right now

cool, thanks. Maybe if I get caught I'll stop doing it.

It's not pleasant to watch and it's really gross tbh. I don't know why I have so much trouble with it.

 

[Hermione Granger]

cool, thanks. Maybe if I get caught I'll stop doing it.

It's not pleasant to watch and it's really gross tbh. I don't know why I have so much trouble with it.

i thought that seeing obscene things were a sin when i was a child and one time i came across an adult film and i felt so guilty that i saw it that it was my "darkest secret" for a while

 

[kassie]

cool, thanks. Maybe if I get caught I'll stop doing it.

It's not pleasant to watch and it's really gross tbh. I don't know why I have so much trouble with it.

boredom and curiosity probably

 

[Aronthaer]

boredom and curiosity probably

Probably. I mean, I'm 15, sooo... Pretty sure every male on the planet has struggled with this around that age haha