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...forgive people easily?

To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was you ~ Author Unknown
 
Yup. I always forgive, life is too short to hold grudges.

But even though I forgive it doesn't mean I will let it happen again. For example; if my boyfriend cheated on me I would forgive him but I would break up with him, because chances are it would happen again.
 
If they're sorry, i can usually forgive them, but if they keep doing the same thing over and over and know i'll forgive them, or if they hurt me really hard. Well that really depends.
 
Yes i can. They're has been so many arguments and stupid things people have done to me. But when i think back to it none of it really matters anymore to me because it actually wasnt that bad... I'm sure a lot of people have been hurt waaay worse than i have so i shouldnt have to make a big deal about it.

So yeah i forgive people all the time (:
 
Master Crash said:
If they're sorry, i can usually forgive them, but if they keep doing the same thing over and over and know i'll forgive them, or if they hurt me really hard. Well that really depends.
basically this.
 
Eventually, I can forgive but it takes time. It also depends on the situation.
In some cases, I don't forgive. I don't really "hold grudges" I just ignore and completely block that person out of my life as if they never existed.
 
I'm a horrible grudge holder...I've only truly forgiven 2 people in my entire life and that's a lot for me, but I'll be honest I still hold the grudge. I never forget what people do to me, and if you mess up with me, you can pretty much forget about ever being forgiven. But it also depends on the situation, I will forgive for something small and not really a big deal, but you really hurt me...nice knowing you.
 
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