You ever rejected anyone face to face?

[tealseer]

I know people these days usually do this online or on text so it's easier. But I remember on senior year my friend asked me out in person and unfortunately for him I didn't feel the same way. It was so awkward and weird I couldn't look at him in the eyes.

what was your reaction?

 

[Hot]

I've only ever rejected people face-to-face. It's quick and simple.

 

[Heisenberg]

I preferred face to face, especially now that I can just flash my ring, lol. But yeah, i was broken up with via text message one time and I still can't forget the feeling of being trapped without help.

 

[Bowie]

Never.

 

[tealseer]

I've only ever rejected people face-to-face. It's quick and simple.

Haha hmm that's true! There's no confusion and it's straight forward.

- - - Post Merge - - -

I preferred face to face, especially now that I can just flash my ring, lol. But yeah, i was broken up with via text message one time and I still can't forget the feeling of being trapped without help.

I'm sorry about that I can see why you would prefer it.
Anyway congratulations!! Are you married or engaged?

 

[kite]

Yeah, I've rejected a guy face-to-face. The first time it happened I don't really remember what I said, but know I said I didn't want to date him. I wasn't outright rude, but he sure was. He angrily stomped off while I was talking mid-sentence. Yeah... not attractive. And he said he was way older than me, so to react that way after I said no... made me glad I didn't say yes.

 

[Mewmewmewm]

Erm...

*sigh* well a few days ago I found out two of my friends admitted to liking me and asked me out.... However I didnt know what to do so being the coward that I am I said
"I PLEAD THE FIFTH!!!"
And ran away.
*face palm* man I'm a wimp

 

[Jake]

i just say yes and dump them a week later

 

[MrPicklez]

I'm never the one to reject. More than often I'm the rejectee.

I do remember distinctly rejecting a chick because she wouldn't show me her bewbs, but that was about it. Hahaha

I'm not that bad, I promise

 

[sn0wxyuki]

I prefer face to face cause that is more sincere~ but a little awkward when that's not the person I want to be going out with lols~

 

[KarlaKGB]

I'm never the one to reject. More than often I'm the rejectee.

I do remember distinctly rejecting a chick because she wouldn't show me her bewbs, but that was about it. Hahaha

I'm not that bad, I promise

Confirmed creep.

 

[MrPicklez]

Confirmed creep.

You got me, detective.

 

[Lauren]

I have rejected, I can't say I've been rejected, they usually dump me by text or through other people

 

[EmmaFrost]

Often. I'm not even patient or polite about it, because it's not like it's people I'm friendly with that are asking me out. It's complete strangers hitting on me in random places like on the streetcar and in bloody Subway while I'm stuffing my face. I have no time for that kind of basic animalistic and shallow approach..."oooh, you're hot...I want you". Nah, go **** yourself.

Haha sorry, I'm a bit salty. This stuff happens to me a lot. Even when I'm taking my little nieces out to the park, a random guy will approach and ask me out. It's so inappropriate and idk, I find it rude. I'd absolutely never accept a date from a complete random who just approached me based on liking my appearance. I'll usually cut them right off and be like "Yeah, nooooot interested" I don't even apologize, because there's nothing to be apologetic about.

 

[Aizu]

There was this guy last year that used to like me (probably still does). But he used to do weird things like search me on the internet (he knew about my name on the Internet, my Youtube and my Cosplay pictures) he was a real creep, since then, it's been so easy to say no, I'm pretty blunt about that sort of thing （ ｉ _ ｉ ）

 

[420blazeityoloswag4jesus]

I'm straightforward about it. if I don't feel the same way, a simple "not interested" will be enough to send them off .. hehe that's just me though.

 

[~Yami~]

A year ago when some one asked me out I just laughed and said no with a smile~
I like to get to the point and move on, but at the same time I feel bad when I say no and just walk away...

 

[puppy]

a guy askedme out a while ago and i said id think about it with the intention of avoiding him for the rest of my life.
That same day he cameup to me and was like "you know you can just say no its not that hard" so then i was like yeah, no.
the way he said that was really pretentious so i didn't feel so bad about it.

 

[dizzy bone]

I think rejecting someone triggers anxiety in me a little. It's hard for me to do it face to face although I usually try to because I for one hate half-a*sed rejections that just "let you down easy" or through text. There's no closure in that and I think it's unfair. Rejecting someone for me is like ripping a band-aid off. I hate confrontation and break ups so I try not to dwell on it... my ex in high school cut himself after I broke up with him so it messed me up a little.

But yeah, if it's some random dude hollering at me on the street it's pretty easy for me to tell them to **** off.

 

[Neriifur]

Yep. It was when I was really self conscious, and well the dude asked me out in 10th grade and I started cracking up laughing in front of him about it and said no. Everyone was always playing pranks on me in school, I'd get fake asked out etc. and I was really tired of it. I didn't realize until later that he was serious. Oh well. That's what happens when you're a shy little nerdy girl in school that everyone thinks is weird and picks on all the time. Huehuehue