Why are pronouns so important?

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I hope you're aware that trans people are literally dying because people refuse to accept their identities. Like people are being killed because of intolerance. And normalizing the use of preferred pronouns is a step towards acceptance and safety for trans people.

and?
 
If they really feel that way then

they should die

pronouns don't mean anything except for tumblrinas who are insecure and think people don't accept them

It's really more than that though, just because someone has preferred prounouns/are trans doesn't automatically make them a tumblrina. Please don't start stuff :/
 
If they really feel that way then

they should die

pronouns don't mean anything except for tumblrinas who are insecure and think people don't accept them

No. Pronouns MEAN THAT YOU ACCEPT THEIR IDENTITY. You understand that this is their gender and you RESPECT that. I could go around calling you "it", couldn't I? Then make fun of you when you get upset. That's what you're saying is right, isn't it?
 
If someone corrects you when you misgender them just say "Sorry" and go with whatever they asked you to refer to them as. Like, it's not hard?? It's no where near as big of a deal as you're making it. It literally takes no effort to be a decent person or treat someone with a basic level of respect. In fact, I bet it took more effort to put this ****ty post together than it would have for you to not be a jerk.
"Not trying to start a fight" Yet here you are, saying problematic stuff.

wtf I wasn't talking about a first person experience I was just saying that I've seen things like those happening LOL
 
It's really more than that though, just because someone has preferred prounouns/are trans doesn't automatically make them a tumblrina. Please don't start stuff :/

I'm not starting anything

I'm just stating pronouns don't mean anything and that being used as she is the same as he or they

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No. Pronouns MEAN THAT YOU ACCEPT THEIR IDENTITY. You understand that this is their gender and you RESPECT that. I could go around calling you "it", couldn't I? Then make fun of you when you get upset. That's what you're saying is right, isn't it?

it is not a pronoun fyi

it's what you call an object
 
I'm not starting anything

I'm just stating pronouns don't mean anything and that being used as she is the same as he or they

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it is not a pronoun fyi

it's what you call an object


Some people who do not identify with a gender do indeed prefer "it" to be used ("they" is more popular though). fyi lol
 
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Okay well you need to understand that to you it might just be "a word" but to some, pronouns is all they have for their gender identity because of their living conditions
 
I'm not starting anything

I'm just stating pronouns don't mean anything and that being used as she is the same as he or they
I'd bet you'd get a BIT salty if someone repeatedly called you the wrong pronoun.

it is not a pronoun fyi

it's what you call an object
"a word that can function by itself as a noun phrase and that refers either to the participants in the discourse (e.g., I, you ) or to someone or something mentioned elsewhere in the discourse (e.g., she, it, this )."
 
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As someone who used to work in an office and had to email people a lot, pronouns can be obnoxious. People get so offended if you accidentally use the wrong one.

I honestly wish there was just a gender neutral pronoun that we could use for everyone. That way there would be no mistakes, no one would get upset by you referring to them as a gender they don't identify with, etc.
 
I'm not starting anything

I'm just stating pronouns don't mean anything and that being used as she is the same as he or they

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it is not a pronoun fyi

it's what you call an object

You are an object as of this point. Let's ignore this thing. Yep, you're an it.
Honestly, if you can't respect a person's choices, you need to get out the internet because you're coming across as very rude and childish.
 
being misgendered sucks. especially if you're trans. and itms super disrespectful to use the wrong pronouns on purpose. idk i'm too tired to write anything more but it's like kinda rly important

if any of my internet friends called me she on purpose i probably wouldn't feel safe around them anymore because that would honestly be so transphobic and sucky and disgusting. thankfully my friends are good people
 
Okay well you need to understand that to you it might just be "a word" but to some, pronouns is all they have for their gender identity because of their living conditions

I think you need to understand that it's my opinion

and I can use whatever pronoun I want
 
I did not know that! I guess, if you wanna be called it it's coo, but otherwise no
 
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As someone who used to work in an office and had to email people a lot, pronouns can be obnoxious. People get so offended if you accidentally use the wrong one.

I honestly wish there was just a gender neutral pronoun that we could use for everyone. That way there would be no mistakes, no one would get upset by you referring to them as a gender they don't identify with, etc.

"They"? Or if you're addressing someone in an email or whatever, "Sir/Madam"? I agree that it can be tricky, especially with certain languages that are VERY gender-specific and have no gender neutral pronouns at all.
 
As someone who used to work in an office and had to email people a lot, pronouns can be obnoxious. People get so offended if you accidentally use the wrong one.

I honestly wish there was just a gender neutral pronoun that we could use for everyone. That way there would be no mistakes, no one would get upset by you referring to them as a gender they don't identify with, etc.

And, yes, I'm well aware there's various gender neutral pronouns that some people already use. But honestly, they are not used commonly by most people. If you were to refer to someone with a gender neutral pronoun in a business environment, you would probably be looked at as either disrespectful or as an idiot to the people who are not used to them.
 
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