I’m mostly here for off-topic discussion but again, I stay away from controversial topics. I don’t think those kinds of things have a place on an Animal Crossing forum either.
if i may offer some like, kinda indirect but direct feedback on this, in a well-meaning way?
i notice that often, the people who express feeling excluded by the discussion of "controversial" topics and resulting "cliquey-ness" from the "favored side" actually tend to express individualistic opinions that negate or outright ignore the opinions expressed by those who are speaking to collectively-felt things going on on a "systemic" level, or at a larger scale, if that makes more sense. those expressing their opinions based just on personal experience often unknowingly come across as antagonistic for this reason, because it appears they are not meaningfully engaging with the overall situation at hand, which could be relevant to them, as well. i hope that doesn't invalidate feelings of victimization in situations like these, nor the real, complicated social dynamics they evoke.
slightly unrelated; i like
@seliph 's example about the delay in getting transphobic/TERF rhetoric taken off the forums because of a lack of "clear" evidence that it's harmful (when the affected ppl know best that it
is). similarly, if you express an opinion that is comparatively shortsighted and perhaps offensive to what other people experience, but don't see that you're "clearly" antagonizing them in any way, their reactions might seem confusing and leave one in a position of feeling excluded or victimized, when in fact, the individual might be the one doing harm. and in society at large, and what would naturally be favored in a micro-level like on an animal crossing forum run by people in the western world, is the individual. similarly, going back to the TERF example, the person expressing hateful, insidious rhetoric is favored. i don't think there's any shame in recognizing and correcting this, and that isn't to compare some of the "lighter" controversial topics on here to anything on the level of transphobia. but it might be helpful to understand how these situations play out
are these problems the fault of "controversial" topics being allowed on an animal crossing forum? no—i think it has everything to do with moderation and how people
choose to understand current topics related to socioeconomic equity and how they affect people at large. i really appreciate that i can express this stuff here, and it makes for a more active userbase who inevitably want to discuss
something related to stuff happening irl aside from animal crossing. it's just not realistic to limit it lol. we don't literally live in the microcosm of a video game with humanoid animal villagers
and croc (i'm sorry i don't remember your chosen name!!), if you want a space that is stricter with "controversial" topics, we both know where to go, and how that works out.