my boyfriend.
More like an combo between worried and bothered because he obviously overworks himself and never go outside his routine box to do anything else than whatever he has to (look for jobs, do his studies, play some stupid game like every half hour etc.) I understand he needs some kind of structure on his everyday stuff due to his aspie/autism things but really not even bothering to contact me anywhere we have each other added or even ask if I want to have lunch or stuff like, I'm getting tired to worry and try and get in contact. I mean obviously you have to care of your studies and I think we both want jobs but smfh just blatantly ignore me and blame on your incompetence to do stuff (since when did you turn into your jerk dad??) is NOT a good reason. Neither are staying up to 3 am with your brother and dad and then blame on being sleepy and not getting stuff done... Yeah look over those routines man
I understand the issue here, but it's weird because in reading this I kinda see myself. I feel bad because my mentor keeps inviting me to go out to lunch but I'm far too dedicated to my studies to make time for anything else. Not even things I enjoy, like playing my N64 (which I do have with me at my dorm but I haven't played it in about 2 months). That's part of the reason why I don't have a boyfriend, I don't have the dedication that it takes.
Idk if he stays up until 3am just doing stupid stuff, but often I stay up until around 1-2am working on schoolwork. Hell last night I was up until about 1:30am studying for my physics midterm (and whadaya know I still did terrible on it), because if I'm not studying I'm worrying about studying. Having OCD makes that trend even worse, because it makes me overly compulsive with my schoolwork.
I'm just thinking maybe he's having the same issue that I do (because, after all, I also have what you call "aspie"). Maybe you can try to find him and talk to him about it?