my close friend likes this guy and she has for a while now but i feel like i like him too and idk how to tell her without her getting mad. and i found out through the guy she likes that he doesn't like her at all and i feel bad :/ and he told me im cute and fun to talk to while he said that my friend is annoying and obsessive.. and he did used to like me too;/// how do i tell her that i like him too?? because i made a mistake and told her he used to like him JUST by that she didn't talk to me for a while... and told her best friend exactly what i told her and they started talking smack about me )): but im considerate about people's feelings and i don't want to tell her i like him too because i could risk losing her and hurting her feelings. she already thinks i like him but i want to tell her myself but I KNOW she'll get pissed off because she is always talking about him to me , and she'll call me a bad friend and post about me on her snap story(she always does that **** when i piss her off)