What gender are you?

[oath2order]

The Internet groups and obscure groups HAVE brought it into the mainstream. People openly talking about their gender and sexuality is a relatively new thing you know

 

[EmmaFrost]

The Internet groups and obscure groups HAVE brought it into the mainstream. People openly talking about their gender and sexuality is a relatively new thing you know

I disagree. I think people have more outlets now, thanks to the internet, to discuss sexuality and gender without fear of real life judgment/consequences. But the study and understanding of gender and sexuality far, far predates the internet. So do things like progressive parenting.

 

[Nebulaquatic]

I'm agender
I always felt really uncomfortable with the fact I was born a female
and I never really felt like much of male either, basically the thought of
knowing I had a gender made me uncomfortable in general.

also I'm probably going to get attack for this but I find nounselves like bun/bunself and fae/faeself for example to be,I dunno kinda dumb and they make the trans community look like a joke, which is what the trans community doesn't want, they want people to take them seriously and people who use nounselves aren't helping with that and it just kinda irks me a bit, like I said I'm going to get flamed for this but eh,whatever.

also, it kinda irks me when someone gets all pissed when someone they just
met mis-gendered them, like wtf they just met you how are you they suppose to know
what pro-nouns you go by, like if someone meets you and you are sexually female they aren't going to know you prefer male pronouns if they just met you, don't yell at them and call them trans-phobic just because they didn't know. if they say sorry forgive them and explain to them, don't treat them like they are scum because of a mistake they made

I mean someone I just met isn't going to know I'm agender, hell some people
don't have the knowledge about genders, and it's our job to educate them on the subject
not to scare them away and make them feel like sh!t

however if that person continues to mis-gender you and acts like a total ass then
sure go ahead and call them scum because they are doing that sh!t on purpose, and are just
being plain rude
​

 

[EpicGamer12]

I'm agender
I always felt really uncomfortable with the fact I was born a female
and I never really felt like much of male either, basically the thought of
knowing I had a gender made me uncomfortable in general.

also I'm probably going to get attack for this but I find nounselves like bun/bunself and fae/faeself for example to be,I dunno kinda dumb and they make the trans community look like a joke, which is what the trans community doesn't want, they want people to take them seriously and people who use nounselves aren't helping with that and it just kinda irks me a bit, like I said I'm going to get flamed for this but eh,whatever.

also, it kinda irks me when someone gets all pissed when someone they just
met mis-gendered them, like wtf they just met you how are you they suppose to know
what pro-nouns you go by, like if someone meets you and you are sexually female they aren't going to know you prefer male pronouns if they just met you, don't yell at them and call them trans-phobic just because they didn't know. if they say sorry forgive them and explain to them, don't treat them like they are scum because of a mistake they made

however if that person continues to mis-gender you and acts like a total ass then
sure go ahead and call them scum because they are doing that **** on purpose, and are just
being plain rude
​

is a side affect of not having a gender the need to center all your posts

 

[RisingStar]

Just saying I'm female myself, but this poll makes me happy with all the different gender types. Kudos c:

 

[EpicGamer12]

ps nebu everything you said is very good I just had to make a joke it's what i'm here for

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I am personally a grasskin and I prefer "g" pronouns. To put it into a sentence,
"Ayy g is pretty cool"

I honestly just feel like myself when I'm standing in a large field in a windstorm. I can't stand people walking all over me and I like having my feet deep rooted in the ground.

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so you can be both bigender and genderfluid at the same time or one but not the other,r ight?

that, logically, makes them the exact same thing

 

[Nebulaquatic]

is a side affect of not having a gender the need to center all your posts

..sure why not :U​

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ps nebu everything you said is very good I just had to make a joke it's what i'm here for

Lel Okee dokee, thanks

 

[EpicGamer12]

to answer the thread I have a penis

 

[infinikitten]

...here we go again

 

[Mango]

I'm agender
I always felt really uncomfortable with the fact I was born a female
and I never really felt like much of male either, basically the thought of
knowing I had a gender made me uncomfortable in general.

also I'm probably going to get attack for this but I find nounselves like bun/bunself and fae/faeself for example to be,I dunno kinda dumb and they make the trans community look like a joke, which is what the trans community doesn't want, they want people to take them seriously and people who use nounselves aren't helping with that and it just kinda irks me a bit, like I said I'm going to get flamed for this but eh,whatever.

also, it kinda irks me when someone gets all pissed when someone they just
met mis-gendered them, like wtf they just met you how are you they suppose to know
what pro-nouns you go by, like if someone meets you and you are sexually female they aren't going to know you prefer male pronouns if they just met you, don't yell at them and call them trans-phobic just because they didn't know. if they say sorry forgive them and explain to them, don't treat them like they are scum because of a mistake they made

I mean someone I just met isn't going to know I'm agender, hell some people
don't have the knowledge about genders, and it's our job to educate them on the subject
not to scare them away and make them feel like sh!t

however if that person continues to mis-gender you and acts like a total ass then
sure go ahead and call them scum because they are doing that sh!t on purpose, and are just
being plain rude
​

best post here

I am personally a grasskin and I prefer "g" pronouns. To put it into a sentence,
"Ayy g is pretty cool"

I honestly just feel like myself when I'm standing in a large field in a windstorm. I can't stand people walking all over me and I like having my feet deep rooted in the ground.

OH MY GOD, TRUNDLE

 

[oath2order]

I love trundle

 

[rariorana]

also I'm probably going to get attack for this but I find nounselves like bun/bunself and fae/faeself for example to be,I dunno kinda dumb and they make the trans community look like a joke, which is what the trans community doesn't want, they want people to take them seriously and people who use nounselves aren't helping with that and it just kinda irks me a bit, like I said I'm going to get flamed for this but eh,whatever.
​

YES I AGREE WITH THIS SO MUCH

 

[fup10k]

No one actually identifies as bun/bunself. 99% positive it's all trolls on tumblr trying to make otherkin look bad and people who use different pronouns look bad.

I have a trans friend who likes to use fleur/she pronouns because it makes her happy (not because she identifies with a flower or anything, because she doesnt)

nice try tho

 

[oath2order]

Wow way to be exclusive and not all too accepting

 

[Nebulaquatic]

No one actually identifies as bun/bunself. 99% positive it's all trolls on tumblr trying to make otherkin look bad and people who use different pronouns look bad.

^some of them are trolls yes I agree, but you can't erase the fact there are legit people who use those pronouns you can't just assume they're all trolls.

sorry I just hate the whole "oh they're all trolls" argument because it's not always trolls
and trust me it's really easy to tell the trolls from the people who are being legit.​

 

[fup10k]

^some of them are trolls yes I agree, but you can't erase the fact there are legit people who use those pronouns you can't just assume they're all trolls.

sorry I just hate the whole "oh they're all trolls" argument because it's not always trolls
and trust me it's really easy to tell the trolls from the people who are being legit.​

Tell you what
you find me 10 people who legitimately are not joking and are serious and i'll change my mind about that

What i'm saying though, is that in the few cases they are then yes it is wrong but it is not a widespread issue and it has a lot of false fire around it and overall, it's nothing even worth mentioning on a gender discussion.

 

[unravel]

Is this really necessary?

 

[Nebulaquatic]

no not really tbh there's no point in arguing really
sorry fup10k, I was being rude​

 

[lithiumlatte]

is a side affect of not having a gender the need to center all your posts

ps nebu everything you said is very good I just had to make a joke it's what i'm here for

I am personally a grasskin and I prefer "g" pronouns. To put it into a sentence,
"Ayy g is pretty cool"

I honestly just feel like myself when I'm standing in a large field in a windstorm. I can't stand people walking all over me and I like having my feet deep rooted in the ground.

I'm so embarrassed for you. Making a cruel mockery about other people's identities as your form of entertainment must be truly sad.

to answer the thread I have a penis

This means literally nothing. penis ≠ male.

 

[Caius]

The way I figure all this goes is I walk into a doctors office and mark down the nice little checkbox for Female because at the end of the day it's my organs that are going to determine what's up with my body, not anything else. Also I think I'd probably get slapped for identifying as some outrageous thing when trying to get medically treated.

Keepin it simple. I am me and that's okay. I identify as myself. My gender is female. My brain seems to jive well with it.