Pro tip: Please don't get into a relationship at all. They're just months of disappointment.
Um. . . please tell me your thoughts about this!
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Pro tip: Please don't get into a relationship at all. They're just months of disappointment.
EpicGamer12
Senior Member
Oh, so this is what Markiplier fans are like. Smarter than Pewdiepie fans but still really young and odd.
for real though these are true. i "dated" at age 14 for a couple months and i regret everything and i want to go back in time and punch myself in the face
also 8th grade guys tend to be gross or immature so i would avoid this guy if i were you
Sounds like a typical middle school crush lol. I wouldn't get too wrapped up in it, as time goes by you will most likely find someone else who you are interested in even more and who is interested in you too, for more than just a fun night.
edgy
To OP, the dude's probably trying to get noticed. Some dudes do that a lot. Then again, we really can't assume. Just talk to him or something lol
marinamarina
Senior Member
Okay, other people might disagree and you might not like this answer, but if it bothers you that much you should ask him. Otherwise you'll never be sure. I've had crushes on boys who were much less subtle and I still wondered if they actually liked me. I never asked though and I regretted it. If you don't want to ask, try letting it go. Good luck in any case! <3
thank you!
What is so wrong with "dating" at 13-14? Lol you're holding hands at the bus stop and getting dropped off at the mall by your mom not moving in together and sharing a bank account lmao chill with all the "don't be in a relationship at that age" as if you could even call it a relationship
Go talk to him! Find out his interests and hang out, that's what I'd do. Don't be awkward or talk about dating, just have some casual conversation. What's the worst that can happen? Remember not to take relationships seriously when you're thirteen. I'm about your age and I know how it usually turns out.
Well I don't know how to start the conversation, that's the problem.
Wolfycheeks
Senior Member
You... gave him a card... to try and be friends..? I am not sure how to react to that.. that's very odd. Anyways I don't think you should concern yourself with relationships at this age, like N e s s said, it's not worth it. And if you heard he's a player, at this age, then just don't.
you may be reading too far into his body language. i also think you should just go and talk to him regardless of whether he replied to your card. you guys have the same lunch and ride the same bus which gives you time to see each other everyday so just talk to him. i agree with everyone else about not getting into a relationship tho!!
RaineyWood
Rainy Love
It's a typical young crush.
That's what it sounds like anyway.
I don't recommend getting into a relationship so young though.
I regret that I did.
It's your life though I can't tell you what to do.
That's what it sounds like anyway.
I don't recommend getting into a relationship so young though.
I regret that I did.
It's your life though I can't tell you what to do.
It sounds like it has been a long time since you gave him the letter, and since then he has neither replied nor spoken to you? If he is at all interested I would think he would at least reply in some way... The eye contact stuff can be coincidental or wishful thinking.
Other than all of this other stuff on how I shouldn't be dating and junk, any advice? I am going to try to "play my cards" correctly. By that, I mean plan this thing so that it works out well. I'm going to ask him to sit with me on the bus after the track season ends. Until then, I'll be looking for any more strange behavior. I will be updating the OP over time so please pay attention if you wish to help much further. I am just so curious and I've almost had an anxiety attack three times because of this! I appreciate all of your help! So yeah, any advice for what to do next?
SolaireOfAstora
After Mon and Tues, even the calendar says WTF
1500000% agreed. I'm only 14 myself.
RaineyWood
Rainy Love
If it's causing you that much anxiety it might be best to just leave it alone for now? Stuff like this shouldn't be almost causing you anxiety attacks. That's not good for your well being.
Some other advice, don't obsess over strange behavior. Please. You'll read WAY too much into.
"OMG HE TOTALLY JUST WINKED AT ME" - In reality his eye just twitched
"HE IS TOTALLY SENDING ME MESSAGES" - In reality he just has to pee
"LOOK AT THE WAY HE IS WALKING, IT'S TOTALLY TO blah" - He just twisted his ankle
Don't look for it. Don't pay attention to it. Don't obsess over it. You're going to end up causing so many issues for yourself doing stuff like that.
Literally all you need to do is go up to him and start talking to him.
Ask him what his favourite colour is.
His favourite season.
His least favourite season.
When is his birthday.
Something that bothers him.
Something he really enjoys.
You're way overcomplicating this it sounds like.
And if it's causing you almost anxiety attacks, you're obsessing over it too much.
Maybe obsess is a strong word here, maybe you're just thinking about it too much.
Take some time to think about things other than this guy maybe?
Well I want to at least become his friend, not ruin it, and maybe go further if everything seems good.
