Um. . . please tell me your thoughts about this!

[Buttonsy]

Okay, I've read more of your responses and see that you don't plan on pursuing a relationship, and just want to know what he means.

Really, when it comes down to it, people try to read each other's body language and tone to look for hidden meanings, but when it comes down to it, it's important to try to not make assumptions. I'm speaking as a person with incredibly weird body language and voice tone who gets mistaken for meaning other things all the time, sometimes the best way to know is to get someone to flat-out admit something. Although I wouldn't try pressuring anyone to admit anything, I just mean don't assume things. A wink is definitely very flirty, but he could have gotten something in his eye or something.

 

[Biyaya]

My co-workers point out when they catch me wink, while I don't always catch myself doing it.

Also, it could also just be a friendly wink. Some people I know do that (mostly adults, but a kid can learn from his/her parent).

Like buttonsy said, don't assume anything. Rumours and your friend's actions can easily influence the kind of assumption that he's putting the moves while he really is not. But he really could be too.

Either way, choose your friends wisely.

 

[focus]

he's a weird boy i personally wouldn't go for a dude who winks at u without even knowing you but ok
i guess that he means ur hot but idk this whole situation reminds me of something jacob sartourtousois would do lol

 

[etsusho]

If he intentionally winked, it was probably his awkard way of being a little flirty. I doubt many boys that age are trying to get into a real relationship, though. He might just like the attention. Either way, be wary of the intentions of a teenaged boy.

 

[Seroja]

If he intentionally winked, it was probably his awkard way of being a little flirty. I doubt many boys that age are trying to get into a real relationship, though. He might just like the attention. Either way, be wary of the intentions of a teenaged boy.

This.

Hmmm like some people already mentioned, he probably took your message wrongly and thought you're interested in him. For teens, stuff like this is exciting, fun, makes yo blood pumping. So maybe your card's making him excited hence the wink. If he does email you though, I hope you straight up tell him that you're only interested in being just friends and nothing more otherwise it'll get tricky in the future.

If it's true that he's a player and exhibits behaviours as such, I would like to advise you to stay away from him though.

 

[Aloha]

Not to be a downer but if he is a player,trust me...there are better guys.Do not waste your time on a guy who may or may not be one,especially at 13.I was 14 or 15 when I dated a guy who is a sc*m bag who has partaken(is this the right word?) in cheating activities before and I felt crushed because he never truly liked me.I know when you're young,the excitement of first love and whatnot is exciting,blood rushing,thrilling and such.But...that's just my two cents anyways.Tread carefully.

 

[ZetaFunction]

he probably thought it was awkward since it seems like you two didn't really know each other and were strangers, so when he got the note he was probably like "uhhhh..... k then"

so when he seen you at lunch he was probably like "O SHT" and did the desperate wink wonk so you think he likes you when in reality he's questioning if all the girls secretly have a crush on him only you were the first to say it because the way you worded the note and the way you gave it to him he probably took it as you lowkey had/have a crush on him only you don't want anyone to know

that's what it sounds like to me

 

[raeyoung]

Well in addition, my friend said when he winked, he smiled, so it was intentional. Also, today I caught him looking at me and then one of those times he gave me one of those nods (all cool and stuff as in those nods who give off the message "hey wassup."). I turned away immediately and took a peek back at him and he looked a little confused as if to say "why'd you look away". But, he didn't say anything. Again, he's only doing this at lunch, ever since Wednesday too. So I'm super confused still.

 

[Seroja]

Just talk to him. Or email him whichever is easier. There's nothing to be confused about really. He's noticed you after you gave him the card and now that I think of it, maybe that's his way of saying, yeah we can be friends?

 

[raeyoung]

Just talk to him. Or email him whichever is easier. There's nothing to be confused about really. He's noticed you after you gave him the card and now that I think of it, maybe that's his way of saying, yeah we can be friends?

Well my friend said she's basically going to drag me over to his lunch table and FORCE me to talk to him on Monday so I guess I will. He doesn't check his email though. I'm confused and why would he notice me? I just want to be friends although he is cute, and I don't honestly know what's going on in his mind, which I kind of wish I did.

 

[Seroja]

Well my friend said she's basically going to drag me over to his lunch table and FORCE me to talk to him on Monday so I guess I will. He doesn't check his email though. I'm confused and why would he notice me? I just want to be friends although he is cute, and I don't honestly know what's going on in his mind, which I kind of wish I did.

Oh that's good, I hope it will go well. And um it's weird to ask why he'd notice you since you were the one who gave the card to him (although I dunno how you gave it to him).

 

[marinamarina]

As someone who had a similar acting (albeit more intense and straight forward) guy in their life around your age, I'd say if he's looking at you a lot, he prob likes how you look, but be wary of him, some middle school boys are really proud of being a "player". I wouldn't trust a boy who just winked at me w/o knowing me, however like I said I ended up having a huuuge crush on a similar seeming guy around your age so I get it. Go talk to him, it can't hurt things, if he's a jerk that'll become clear quickly. Just take it day by day and don't overthink it! He might be on the other side going wow that girl's so cute I wish I knew what she thought of me!

 

[vel]

I'm about to give my honest opinion: he doesn't like you, he's probably testing the waters. I have been through this so many times, and if he's a player, he just wants to have the creds of every meeting you. As a once thirteen year old, yeah. And if you aren't looking at him why would he wink at you, that confuses me.

 

[raeyoung]

I'm about to give my honest opinion: he doesn't like you, he's probably testing the waters. I have been through this so many times, and if he's a player, he just wants to have the creds of every meeting you. As a once thirteen year old, yeah. And if you aren't looking at him why would he wink at you, that confuses me.

Idk. . . but my friend's about to text him so I guess I'll see how he feels then.

 

[raeyoung]

Oh my gosh the anticipation is killing me. . . XO

 

[Miii]

My thoughts on this are that you're 13 and you're probably over thinking this whole situation like everyone does when they're 13 xD He might have a crush on you, he might not. If you like him, tell him. If you don't, you can choose to be friends with him, or not. It's not like you'll have a real relationship at the age of 13, anyway. Your "relationship" would be the hold hands and walk each other to class type, which is ok, but you don't need to be anxious over it.

 

[Avocado LaSchaap]

oh boy Even at the age of thirteen I didn't get into this. Don't be a drama llama, if you liked each other you would talk to each other.

 

[gh0st]

He has a cruuuuUuuUuuuSh on youuuuuuUuuUu.

*ahem* That is my professional opinion.

 

[Aronthaer]

Pro tip: Please don't get a relationship at 13. I'm only a year older then you, its not worth it.

Pro tip: Please don't get a relationship at 14. I'm only a year older then you, it's not worth it.

 

[Ashtot]

There's no need to be worried about relationships at your age. Sit down and enjoy a nice can of soda while eating breakfast for supper, and contemplate the meaning of life.