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I'm sorry that that is happening to you. It happened to me a lot when I was in high school as well.
Don't do it. Life gets better. I don't know you, but I know that you have a lot to live for. It's just hard to see right now because of what is going on in your life.

Bullies are putting you down to make themselves feel better. They're doing that for a reason. Because they see something in your that they are jealous of! Be proud to be who you are! <3
 
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Get professional help! Call the suicide hot line!

I can't...my anxiety is so extreme I panic picking up a phone.

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I'm sorry that that is happening to you. It happened to me a lot when I was in high school as well.
Don't do it. Life gets better. I don't know you, but I know that you have a lot to live for. It's just hard to see right now because of what is going on in your life.

Bullies are putting you down to make themselves feel better. They're doing that for a reason. Because they see something in your that they are jealous of! Be proud to be who you are! <3

Thank you x
 
Call a hotline, talking to a professional will help!
You can also talk to me, I'm not a professional, but I can be a friend <3

My name is Kerri, I'm 27 years old. I live in Ontario, Canada. I work a lot, but I have two kittens at home that I got two months ago to help with my own mental stress and happiness. I've been bullied a lot, I take medication for anxiety - anxiety dealing with the phone as well, and I've been depressed. If you want to talk to someone just to talk, let me know <3 <3
 
I think it's important to figure out where those feelings are coming from. If you're suicidal feelings are stemming from bullying then just know that as you get older those things will happen less and also affect you less. I'm 24 and don't give a single **** what other people think of me, but that was very different when I was a teenager.
 
if you are being bullied on social media, delete your accounts. get professional help, and if you haven't already, tell your parents or someone you trust.
you are awesome. suicide is just a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
 
Just know that life gets better. No matter how bad things seem now, they will improve. Things are constantly changing, nothing stays the same forever. 10-15 years from now I am sure you will not be being cyberbullied anymore. I am sure you have a very bright future ahead, and ending your life now would be taking that away from your future self.
 
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I also just wanted to mention that if you think you're experiencing depression of other mental illness, it probably isn't a good idea to reach out to people who haven't experienced the same thing and aren't experts in the field. I know everyone on this thread means well but a lot of comments that are generally made about suicide are kind of ignorant. Either way it might be a good idea to get evaluated for mental health issues and also speak to a counsellor about bullying. Like I said earlier, if your feelings are in response to something like bullying or self-esteem that can be changed it would be good to start there.
 
Try and focus on the good parts of your life, no matter how small. I've had severe depression and anxiety for years and basically the only things that keep me going on at this point are video games and cartoons. Whenever you're feeling really suicidal just think about something that you'd miss or something you wanna do. It can even be a really small or 'meaningless' thing. Like 'I can't kill myself now since I haven't finished this TV show yet.' or 'I can't die now because my pet will miss me.' There's always something to live for!

And if you can build up the courage, try and contact a professional or at least tell your parents/friends about it.
 
If you are being cyber bullied, I suggest you get off the internet for awhile. If you don't want to get off the internet then I suggest you to not take what people say seriously or even block the people who constantly harass you. This is so cliche, such as don't listen to what others say even though we'll constantly keep doing so(especially with sensitivity). But at the same time, you need to know that not every action needs a reaction. You need to keep doing you and *** everyone else. All you have is yourself and if you're going to try to kill yourself over some people you'll never meet your whole life then you need to reevaluate some things, especially your well being. Learn how to change your mindset. You need graciously love yourself. Humbly step on the people who feel as though their opinion matter necks.

If it's really serious, call the suicide hot line, talk to your friends and if you don't have friends you can talk to me.

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You can humbly point me to the people who are saying something, I'll handle them(I don't mind),

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Also! Reminder, most of the stuff people say on the internet will never say it to your face. So don't take it seriously :-)
 
you even seeking help is a good sign. my therapist told me this the day after I attempted.

right before I attempted about 5 years back my freshman year of high school, I posted all over FB freaking out and seeking help and people to call, etc. etc.

let me start by sympathizing with you. Im truly sorry you're going through this, I have too. I created a formspring that year which is a website where people can anonymously ask question or in my case, push me to hurt myself. I was cyber bullied there and the whole school knew about really dark things that happened to me in my past due to a selfish ex best friend. I know what it's like.....

I wonder what you're cyber bullied on.... you're such a beautiful soul. I've seen you around, you're wonderful and I'd be delighted to be friends! you have to know that people who bully you behind a screen will never in a million years have the strength to say it to your face. they are pathetic and can't deal with the negativity in THEIR life so they take it out on others which is just so....... PATHETIC! please, feel free to pm me who is doing his and I'll gladly stand up for you as I have no tolerance for bullying. either this, or simply block everyone who crosses paths with you that don't know how to be nice.

please, if this is hurting you too much, please! just take a break from the internet. it's a dog eat dog world in the real world and on here believe it or not... maybe you need a break here and to just take some "you" time. the internet can consume you which makes you vulnerable and allows people to target you. most of all though... easier said than done.. BUT FORGET ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING TO YOU! you need confidence, you need to have an understanding of how absolutely beautiful and amazing you are and how you could potentially change the world one day! you need to not give into whatever people are saying because in the end they're just low-lives who target everyone they see vulnerable and it gets you! you need to change your mindset and start being happy. I did it, and let me tell you, after all I've been through it was the hardest yet most rewarding thing I've ever done. I now kill people with kindness if they ever try to hurt me now or start getting a tone.

I was young when I attempted. now that I'm almost 20, I've completely changed my mindset and attitude. I learned to love myself because in the end, you're all you have. you have been given a beautiful body to walk such a beautiful and mysterious planet and you need to cherish that. not everyone gets to live and experience all life and earth has to offer. you don't have to hurt yourself. you have to love yourself. I wish I could hold you and rub your scars and tell you to stop and to look at it as things you've overcome and things that are now in the past.. that's the way this should be - in the past.... please? we all love you. we care for you. we don't want you to do this. it's not the easy way out, it's not going to solve anything, it's going to hurt everyone you've ever known, and you will regret it. this hits home for me too because I've watched three of my friends throughout high school end it and they wouldn't even tell us the real story, they masked it... they didn't even say goodbye to me. I felt useless and upset.

so many people love you and you don't even realize it.... we need you. your family needs you. the world needs you - the beautiful soul you are. you amaze me and I know you have so much potential. I want you to have the world in your hands because you deserve it. I want you to love yourself and be confident because you are an unexplainably fascinating human being. I want you to make friends who will stay up all night listening to you vent and going out to do fun things because I want others to see how beautiful you are. I want you to tell these "bullies" to stand down and back off before you take action because that's the strong person you are...

now, officials have no tolerance for cyber bullying, I can tell you that. I have a few police officers in my family who have told me the same. you could always have print outs ready to bring them in to them if its this bad. but most of all, I have no tolerance for it and I am so sorry and hurting that you're going through what I did. I cherish you and admire you and want you to over come this...

please pm me and add me if you'd like to talk ever. I am always here for you.

if you don't want to talk to me, I understand. it was hard for me to open up to others too.. especially over the internet, I'd imagine it'd be difficult so please look into counseling sessions - my therapist (saw for 7ish years stopped a few years back) has gotten me rough some dark times..... if not, I do suggest a hotline for you. the number for the national suicide prevention lifeline is as follows; +18002738255, they are open 24hrs & 7 days a week.

again, you're a beautiful soul and you deserve to live and walk this earth and experience all the beautiful things it has to offer. you deserve the entire world and more, love. thank you for being you. you can do this..
 
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There's ways to deal with cyberbullies. Block them. Stop using that social media for a while. Ignore them. Report them to moderators/the people who run the site or service. You could even try going the extreme of deleting your account, but I don't think you should have to do that.

Maybe, I'm weird, but I think there can sometimes be legit reasons to commit suicide. One example is if you have some medical problem where you will die soon anyway and you're in extreme pain. I'm not going to argue with people over it so I won't discuss anymore about that. But committing suicide over cyberbullying... Please talk to people and get help.

I personally was very depressed in my teenage years. I had a VERY hard time. I considered suicide a lot. But I'm glad I never was able to do it because I like my life now. I also feel like I'm a stronger person after having gotten through some extreme low points in my life.
 
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Hi! The best thing to do right now is to talk to someone you trust and or call a suicide help line.
 
Are u sure you wanna die? Or do you just need someone to speak to?

There's a difference.
 
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