Some help, please

coffeebean! said:
All of you guys are saying the same thing because you are religious.
I'm not, live with it.
Telling me that I have nothing better to do is stupid and irrelevant. It's not helping. And if you were agnostic and someone told you just to go to church because 'you have nothing better to do' you'd be completely pissed off. Can you not absorb that things don't work like that?

I'm only going to go to get my parents off my case. I DON'T want to go.
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This is why I luv jenn she's strong in what she believes in.
 
coffeebean! said:
I'm only going to go to get my parents off my case. I DON'T want to go.
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I think we figured that much. Since your mom is so headstrong in her decision, you're probably going to have to go tomorrow. Unless a meteorite hits your house and squishes her bead bed. =P

But seriously, there are many things in life we may not want to do, but we'll usually end up having to do it anyways.
 
Coffee, update us all after you go to church to tell us how it goes.

Parents are so stubborn on their own believes sometimes....
 
pootman1234 said:
coffeebean! said:
I'm only going to go to get my parents off my case. I DON'T want to go.
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I think we figured that much. Since your mom is so headstrong in her decision, you're probably going to have to go tomorrow. Unless a meteorite hits your house and squishes her bead bed. =P

But seriously, there are many things in life we may not want to do, but we'll usually end up having to do it anyways.
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I doubt it'll be tomorrow. Just soon....
I've had to repeat myself many times because some people are too lazy to read the previous pages. That was directed at others.

Yes, I'm aware of that. But this is going to be completely unnecessary and a waste of time.
 
coffeebean! said:
pootman1234 said:
coffeebean! said:
I'm only going to go to get my parents off my case. I DON'T want to go.
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I think we figured that much. Since your mom is so headstrong in her decision, you're probably going to have to go tomorrow. Unless a meteorite hits your house and squishes her bead bed. =P

But seriously, there are many things in life we may not want to do, but we'll usually end up having to do it anyways.
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I doubt it'll be tomorrow. Just soon....
I've had to repeat myself many times because some people are too lazy to read the previous pages. That was directed at others.

Yes, I'm aware of that. But this is going to be completely unnecessary and a waste of time.
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Oh okay gotcha.

I can't really say anything more to help (without going into religion, church, blah blah blah)...
But best of luck with your decision, and your Mom!
 
Ok Jenn.
So what I think is that you should go to church tomorrow and let your mother calm herself down a little. After the service you give your full and honest opinion on the 'going to church' thing and only base that off of that one service. If it turns out you sort of enjoyed it then say that, but if you still feel the same then tell her how you feel [even though i know that is exactly what you have been doing]

You should also say that you are growing up and want to make your own decisions. If that means no church then so be it. I think you need to seriously draw the line on this. [even though thats basically what you have been doing]

My Friend is going through pretty much the exact same problem. I say you talk to the Pastor of the church about this. Seriously it may seem weird. Ya know talking to a stranger/believer in Christ. But he can seriously help you and suggest things to your family as well. I would really recommend you talk to him about it.
 
ohdangitsgabby said:
Ok Jenn.
So what I think is that you should go to church tomorrow and let your mother calm herself down a little. After the service you give your full and honest opinion on the 'going to church' thing and only base that off of that one service. If it turns out you sort of enjoyed it then say that, but if you still feel the same then tell her how you feel [even though i know that is exactly what you have been doing]

You should also say that you are growing up and want to make your own decisions. If that means no church then so be it. I think you need to seriously draw the line on this. [even though thats basically what you have been doing]

My Friend is going through pretty much the exact same problem. I say you talk to the Pastor of the church about this. Seriously it may seem weird. Ya know talking to a stranger/believer in Christ. But he can seriously help you and suggest things to your family as well. I would really recommend you talk to him about it.
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We're not going to church tomorrow.
My mom already knows what I think.

I don't even know the pastor or people that go to the church. It would be silly if I told him something like that on my first day. I'm just going to go whenever it's time to go and after 2 times just stop.
 
It's weird. My dad doesn't even want me to go to church but I like to go. Yet your mom wants you to go but you don't want to.
 
coffeebean! said:
ohdangitsgabby said:
Ok Jenn.
So what I think is that you should go to church tomorrow and let your mother calm herself down a little. After the service you give your full and honest opinion on the 'going to church' thing and only base that off of that one service. If it turns out you sort of enjoyed it then say that, but if you still feel the same then tell her how you feel [even though i know that is exactly what you have been doing]

You should also say that you are growing up and want to make your own decisions. If that means no church then so be it. I think you need to seriously draw the line on this. [even though thats basically what you have been doing]

My Friend is going through pretty much the exact same problem. I say you talk to the Pastor of the church about this. Seriously it may seem weird. Ya know talking to a stranger/believer in Christ. But he can seriously help you and suggest things to your family as well. I would really recommend you talk to him about it.
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We're not going to church tomorrow.
My mom already knows what I think.

I don't even know the pastor or people that go to the church. It would be silly if I told him something like that on my first day. I'm just going to go whenever it's time to go and after 2 times just stop.
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I know talking to the Pastor would be awkward on the day. But if you're still forced to go after the 2 times then I say yu take a chance. Might as well try talking to him about it.
 
ohdangitsgabby said:
coffeebean! said:
ohdangitsgabby said:
Ok Jenn.
So what I think is that you should go to church tomorrow and let your mother calm herself down a little. After the service you give your full and honest opinion on the 'going to church' thing and only base that off of that one service. If it turns out you sort of enjoyed it then say that, but if you still feel the same then tell her how you feel [even though i know that is exactly what you have been doing]

You should also say that you are growing up and want to make your own decisions. If that means no church then so be it. I think you need to seriously draw the line on this. [even though thats basically what you have been doing]

My Friend is going through pretty much the exact same problem. I say you talk to the Pastor of the church about this. Seriously it may seem weird. Ya know talking to a stranger/believer in Christ. But he can seriously help you and suggest things to your family as well. I would really recommend you talk to him about it.
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We're not going to church tomorrow.
My mom already knows what I think.

I don't even know the pastor or people that go to the church. It would be silly if I told him something like that on my first day. I'm just going to go whenever it's time to go and after 2 times just stop.
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I know talking to the Pastor would be awkward on the day. But if you're still forced to go after the 2 times then I say yu take a chance. Might as well try talking to him about it.
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Didn't you read the previous pages?
I just have to 'try' and if i don't like it I don't have to keep going.
There will be no reason to have to talk to the pastor because I won't be forced to go after I 'try.'
 
Not to butt in or anything but this discussion has been going on for at least 10 hours.

Coffeebean + Church = ???
 
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