i am so scared of turning 18 oh my god
i mean it can’t be that bad.. can it?adulthood has a lot of responsibilities but just imagine all the things you can do that you couldn’t do previously.
idk i have a bad problem with being extremely dependent on my parents so anything to do with it just sounds terrifying to me .. i never go anywhere by myself. i don't even have a job and I can't drive and i cant imagine having to go in an unfamiliar place all by myself for hours and deal with people I don't know and i know that when i grow up im gonna have to but im not ready (im homeschooled so that doesn't help)
well yeah im sort of like that too but the reason i said that is bc i can graduate high school when im 19. i can barely go anywhere without my mom or brother so I can relate, you can probably imagine how my independence and social life is going. anyway my parents are going to expect more from me after i turn 18 but the reason im kind of looking forward to adulthood is bc parts of my childhood were kind of terrible tbh (not my parents fault). wishing you the best.
I relate to this so much, I had a rough childhood being a neurodivergent child with little to no support. I dealt with a lot of personal issues bc I was just treated like any other child and likewise I was expected to fit into a system that did not accommodate me. but now that I'm an adult I'm finding that I know my limitations and what accommodations I need, obv some things become really difficult with adulthood but I feel like I'm already doing a lot better now than I used to.
yeah, the reason why my early childhood was kind of bad bc i was very quiet and i was sort of bullied. teachers thought i had autism or selective mutism at one point and i got tested for it. i remember one of the people testing me said something like “your brain is wired differently” which was translated to me as being different = bad. i actually got retested for learning disabilities in early 2020 and my therapist who was doing it said that she doesn’t think i have autism but she thinks that i have an auditory processing disorder (no idea how those two correlate though). i think i just had terrible anxiety, rock bottom self esteem and i didn’t know how to socialize. i basically wasn’t comfortable with who i was and i didn’t know how to express that but now i do. i’m more comfortable with voicing my struggles.I relate to this so much, I had a rough childhood being a neurodivergent child with little to no support. I dealt with a lot of personal issues bc I was just treated like any other child and likewise I was expected to fit into a system that did not accommodate me. but now that I'm an adult I'm finding that I know my limitations and what accommodations I need, obv some things become really difficult with adulthood but I feel like I'm already doing a lot better now than I used to.
I just came here to say I was at the grocery store briefly today and while browsing around I saw a key lime pie and it made me so happy lol
Bruh how many ppl are going to offer me 100
that’s like 3 people nowI hate to break it to you…but it doesn’t feel any better as you get older. I’m 25 but still have the mentality of a 13 yr oldim turning 17 this month I DON'T WANT TO TURN 17i don't feel as old as i am i feel like im 13 help
can confirm this, I am 23 and while I am mature enough I basically still act like I'm 11-12 in terms of how I spend my time and what I like and enjoy doing hahaI hate to break it to you…but it doesn’t feel any better as you get older. I’m 25 but still have the mentality of a 13 yr old
I hate to break it to you…but it doesn’t feel any better as you get older. I’m 25 but still have the mentality of a 13 yr old
This is very relatable, I don't feel 28 at all, especially in the terms of what I'm doing with my life.can confirm this, I am 23 and while I am mature enough I basically still act like I'm 11-12 in terms of how I spend my time and what I like and enjoy doing haha
I've been seeing this too and thought it was my phone being weird. I haven't gotten on my laptop in a while.
they've also been breaking or just not appearing for me at all the entire day today. probably an issue with the host Xenforo. though I didn't notice it as much on my desktop, only on my phone
Yeah idk why they translated/localized it like that... daruma doesn't exactly equal dharma in this case lol...
