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RedTropicalPeachyFish said:
If I didn't do everything I can for them, it'd make me be critically unhealthy mentally. So no other way… -_-
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...that doesn't sound healthy either tbh. you don't have to be a picture-perfect parent, just be there for them, give them love and care.

just do your best and if you should feel down, don't be afraid to talk to people, friends or professionals alike.
 
RedTropicalPeachyFish said:
If I didn't do everything I can for them, it'd make me be critically unhealthy mentally. So no other way… -_-
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Just remember to take care of yourself too, alright? I'm sure you are a wonderful mother, and it seems like you are doing the best that you can. Don't forget to take care of yourself. ❤
 
I wanna go home. I wanna go home. I wanna go home. I wanna go home. (REPEATEDLY for 8 hours-)
 
Sheila said:
...that doesn't sound healthy either tbh. you don't have to be a picture-perfect parent, just be there for them, give them love and care.

just do your best and if you should feel down, don't be afraid to talk to people, friends or professionals alike.
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You're kind, Sheila. Yes, just being there for them is it, I believe so too. If they didn't have any serious health issues, I'm sure I would've been just! so! lazy mom. XD I'm only been that way for needed medical care procedures. It's a time eater, but or else they can't stay here with me. Physically limit! I'd never deny it! But it's worth it and more, when I see them doing happy and fine.<3
Though, you make me relaxed, thanks Sheila!

Dawnpiplup said:
Just remember to take care of yourself too, alright? I'm sure you are a wonderful mother, and it seems like you are doing the best that you can. Don't forget to take care of yourself. ❤
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Pfft thanks! I'll keep that in mind, lovely. :D
 
@RedTropicalPeachyFish No problems <3

I'm sure you are doing your best regarding their health as well, and don't be afraid talking with their nurses/doctors if you have contact with them, or a psychologist regarding any issues if available, or if you have any friends willing to listen. Nothing wrong with asking for help, and nothing wrong with feeling a bit down either; we are only human beings and we are not robots that can predict or watch over every second of someone's life/lives. Just don't let it eat you up if you miss a second or minute, you need to take care of yourself as well..maybe sit down and breathe for a few minutes, meditate and wind down to get new energy(or if you do anything else to relax keep doing that as well!)

Simply be there with kind words and hugs, and encourage and care for them <3 That is usually more than enough (coming from someone who didn't really get that as a kid and basically a modern story of To The Lighthouse lol)

As Dawn said you seem as kind and caring IRL as you have been to me and others on the site so I'm sure they will look back on a good time :)
 
thank g o d we had baking soda at home... my tum was getting upset now for no reason ..probs need to stop eating wine gums :(
 
Why am I such a control freak?

I destroyed my town in ten minutes because I was trying to get an Amiibo villager to move somewhere specific. Now my foreign fruits are destroyed, and so is my park area. lol I'm going to take a much-needed break from New Leaf.
 
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Ooooof. I gotta go to my appointment in like... 10 minutes and I don’t wanna go :c​
 
People that talk on speaker phone and play their music out loud in a quiet, public place, are the scum of the earth
 
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