ok. wow. first of all
1. that's it. that's the point
i said i don't mind the slightly browner color i just don't like it when i look like another whole ethnicity then who i am because that's how unrealistic the 'tanning' mechanic in this game is. i'm a mix, so i am SLIGHTLY off the pale color scale anyway and it's a color you usually can't find at all in any games. the default pale they have in this is the closest thing to me.
2. idk where to start explaining this to you but when you're biracial like i am it's a really sensitive thing ok. just take my word for that
3. you might not care but other people do. just blatantly putting off people who are bothered by it is a rude thing to do. i can come up with a hundred reasons why i'm bothered by it but judging by the fact that you can't understand this probably means you won't get those either. just saying
4. are you serious
being able to customize what you're wearing, your house, your hair and eye color and very, very slimly your facial features are all pretty much basic. that's not as much as this sims and it's kind of strange to equalize that to being able to customize your skin color. it's not as big of a deal and it's not as big of an expression of who you are. i'll assure you that even though my character's hair is pink and her eyes are blue while mine are red/brown/black for both i still feel like her to some level.
on a last note, don't compare yourself to a social justice warrior when you're literally telling people that it's not being nice to other racial minorities to not be able to be comfortable playing as a character that's got such a different hue from them that they literally look like another race. thanks