I am available to pick her up now ^^ and I believe that it's respectful to show that you read the rules. If it were my cycling forum, I would enforce it because everyone's rules are a little bit different. It would avoid confusion and conflict like say if someone were to offer IGB when you stated you are only taking TBT and then they argue about why you won't. I've seen that happen a few times and it can be easily avoided if customers read the rules. If the don't, then they are disrespecting the host.