Love is pointless

[Midoriya]

Let's talk about how love is pointless, and, ultimately, being TOO nice is a bad thing. Also how *most* of us don't know what we want to do in life, and don't know if it will get any better. We will all grow up, grow old, and then die like we were born: Cold, by ourselves, and, ultimately, alone... :/


Hooray for depressing threads.. woo....

EDIT: Now read that back to me in a deep feminine british voice you hear narrating one of those wildlife documentaries.

 

[MyLifeIsCake]

Sounds like someone was beaten with the love stick and had the whole tree fall on them..

 

[uwuzumakii]

Oh my goodness! Someone that speaks my language! LOL, but really, if you think about that from a scientific stand point, every one is just going to die and life is meaningless...

 

[tokkio]

heh.... i agree with that though

and yeah being too nice sucks a lot.. because if you're too nice then people just take advantage of it, and sometimes even manipulate you to do stuff you don't even want to do and say **** like "oh come on you're nice right?". and the crappiest thing too is when they use your kindness to guilt trip you like "aw i thought you were nice.." like????!!!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!!? frickifikrnf just stop pls lmao

 

[Midoriya]

heh.... i agree with that though

and yeah being too nice sucks a lot.. because if you're too nice then people just take advantage of it, and sometimes even manipulate you to do stuff you don't even want to do and say **** like "oh come on you're nice right?". and the crappiest thing too is when they use your kindness to guilt trip you like "aw i thought you were nice.." like????!!!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!!? frickifikrnf just stop pls lmao

YES. This is exactly my point. If you're too nice you'll get taken advantage of. You'll get slapped away like how Chowder's tongue was going straight up towards some ice cream, but Mr. Fugu (that balloon guy) slapped it sideways in that one episode of Chowder.

 

[Miharu]

Completely agreed with tokkio. Also when you are just nice, people think you like them as in love/relationship wise....x:

Spoiler

I honestly can't say anything about love part, since I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend <3 (Almost 3 years horray!~ <3 )

 

[Jake]

umm excuse u love is amazing it just takes 4eva to find

 

[Ichigo.]

Oh god. I've apparently been too nice to a guy before (just saying hi when I see him...), and he was sure I liked him in a romantic way so asked me to some dance with flowers and everything.

He even talked to one of my friends about it, who told him not to do it.

 

[WonderK]

Love is an adventure when you find the right person. There is someone for everyone out there. You just need to find that person. Traverse mountains, oceans, and wild lands to find this person. It'll be worth it in the end. I can assure you that.

 

[Esphas]

if you can turn being nice on and off then youre probably faking it. also theres a difference between being nice and letting people taking advantage of you. would also like to add that life is definitely not pointless for myself at least. being a believer of the eternalism approach to time the past versions of me from previous times still exist. if every version of me lives including the me who types this then death is irrelevant then i really have no fear of dying alone

 

[piichinu]

if you can turn being nice on and off then youre probably faking it. also theres a difference between being nice and letting people taking advantage of you. would also like to add that life is definitely not pointless for myself at least. being a believer of the eternalism approach to time the past versions of me from previous times still exist. if every version of me lives then death is irrelevant including the me who types this then i really have no fear of dying alone

nice guys always finish last

- - - Post Merge - - -

i welcome death because i wont know if im dead also i dunno about u but i plan on having friends when im older u know wat i mean

anyway romantic love isnt an issue for me

 

[CommanderLeahShepard]

Yes, we will ultimately, grow up, grow old and die, so we should spend our one life we have the way we want. Life is too short to be sad and complaining about it, we should spend our time being as happy as possible and in a way we feel comfortable. Yes, it inevitable that some bad things will happen, heart break may occur, but you shouldn't give up, I believe there is always someone out there for you and life is too short to mope about it so we should try again.

Moments before we die, we should be able to look back and think "I have enjoyed my life, it was well lived". We can't waste the one chance we got, especially considering there are people out there who live in poverty and/or have terrible life chances and may not be able to have a happy life, so we should consider ourself lucky and cherish the fact we have the chance to have a good life.

Being loving is something I try to do, it is very hard at time when I see people I don't like or who are extremely mean and you just want to rip their faces off... Haha. But I try to be the better person and ignore the haters and just focus on being nice to those who will approve it.

(I kinda went on a rant)

 

[Nuclear Bingo]

wait now hold on!

Love is not pointless. It's good for other people. Love, true love, is selfless. It benefits the recipient. However, expecting to be loved and wanting to be loved is pointless, I agree. One should condition himself (herself) to become self reliant. But never be too cold to love someone who loves you back

 

[piichinu]

YES. This is exactly my point. If you're too nice you'll get taken advantage of.

unless you be aggressive. b e aggressive. b e a g g r e s s i v e. whoopin the house down, show them who's the leader

 

[Esphas]

nice guys always finish last

- - - Post Merge - - -

i welcome death because i wont know if im dead also i dunno about u but i plan on having friends when im older u know wat i mean

anyway romantic love isnt an issue for me

ikr like i think its ridiculous to think having someone who loves you romantically is so important that you ignore all the friends you have and claim that youre dying alone because thats just not true?

 

[piichinu]

ikr like i think its ridiculous to think having someone who loves you romantically is so important that you ignore all the friends you have and claim that youre dying alone because thats just not true?

my god yea like that one chick at starbucks with the flower crown and crop top

 

[Nuclear Bingo]

you can't blame people. attraction is an unreasonable and mind-altering feeling. It's unlike other connections to people ya know?

 

[tamagotchi]

its whatever

 

[kayleee]

Love is definitely not pointless and once you find your person (if you're talking about romantic love) your mind will change completely

Also love in general is not pointless. feeling platonic love for a friend or family member or pet is like the best feeling ever soo I'm not sure about this thread

 

[pillow bunny]

you know what's more pointless than love? literally everything else