TwilightKing said:
You do know that if you try, it IS possible to avoid conflict, and a healthy debate never hurts anyone. That's what I do and I also hang out with friends around me all the time, just don't spend so much time here. You make it sound like you don't spend any time with your friends... Try coming here and having chatting with members rather than even entering these topics and still hang out with friends outside TBT
I've been trying that for 6 months now. Doesn't seem like it's working, eh? I was going to leave 6 months ago for the same reason as I am now, but decided to just try and avoid stupid debates.
But then I realized that it's almost impossible for a lot of threads to see if they're going to wind up being a huge argument.
A thread like this turned into a 6-page homeschool vs. public school debate which was later locked. btw, homeschool vs. public school debates happen WAY too often >_<.
a thread can be a nice thread meant for the members just to talk, but it can change into a flame war instantly.
and yes, I do hang out with friends, that was just an example. I'd rather be doing ANYTHING than arguing over opinions with people I don't know. Less TBT time = more fun time. I'm not saying TBT can't be fun, it's just that things constantly turn ugly, making it so that I spend more time debating rather than chatting.
about the set opinion thing... Yes, there is a set standard. if you go onto any forum, you have to have an opinion like everyone else, or else you'll be flamed. Look at all the 8-12 year olds that came to the forum, they'd mention something like toontown, and everyone went straight into flame mode, because someone liking toontown was obviously the wrong opinion. If anyone comes here and has a different opinion than everyone, they're sure to be flamed. Take music, for example. Snoop said that he thought Jordan Sparks and Avril Lavigne were good, the response was "Anyone with decent music taste" Snoop liked something that we all hate, therefore, he has bad taste in music, right? wrong.
you all say things like "everyone is entitled to their own opinion" or "everyones opinion is equal" but after about 2 minutes of reading, anyone could see that that's total crap.