Also don't get a male they don't live long at all.
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Actually don't quote me on the male thing. They live a decent life in some species but not in others. It depends on which one you're getting, so I'd do my research.
You could try some ominous Latin name, that would be so badass for a spider!
Examples:
- Absconditus (male) / Abscondita (female) -> It means "Hidden".
- Umbr? -> It means "Shadow"
Or you could go for my personal favourite: "Venom Venus".
Male; Peter Parker. Female; Arachne, after the original spider of Greek history. Also make sure to sleep wit a can of industrial strength bug spray and a baseball bat next to your bed. And don't let it near any small pets or children. *PARANOIA SETS IN*.